my dear, your memory falters you it seems. the situation was hypocritical as well at the times when you and kenny had fun kicking/banning me for no reason, with kenny shouting something like "divine punishment", even AFTER I seriously asked you, an administrator back then, to stop such nonsense, since for various reasons, pranks involving power misuse did not appeal me. I even recall a certain person (but I won't tell the name) telling the two of you "stop it or he's gonna leave." but I guess you didn't notice with all the "Ephy has been kicked/banned by kaylo/kenny reason: (blank)" filling the screen. This happened ages ago, and I am indeed aware of that, but it serves as a perfect example. I preferred to leave for a while and let it cool down, at the time. your approach to the similar matter was different instead, since as we can see, you preferred to let it become of public domain. no reason to argue over that of course, as that was your decision, and I'll respect it, trusting your mind was clear when thinking about it.
"we" and "lessons of the past" are generic terms, and as such you shouldn't link them to specific individuals or cases like the last happenings, nor it means that the "learning" already started.
I cannot (un)fortunately invade other people's mind, and I cannot control their actions, nor I'd want to.
and, although prime's use of his powers towards werekill was not legitimate, you, kaylo, did not act in a dissimilar way back then, when you still were active in the xat as admin/mod, and I can clearly recall situations where you did kick/ban werekill for no apparent reason, too.
an unfair kick/ban is still an unfair kick/ban, no matter who dishes it out.
the only thing that I, sadly, noticed, is that days before this ruckus, the xat was funny and peaceful. then you guys popped out, and stuff happened, for one reason or another. as of now and even yesterday, considering the "aftermath", the xat is quiet (very quiet, considering the day, after all) and peaceful again, and many can confirm you this. take your conclusions if you wish.
and now, I'm going to leave in order to rest. I honestly hope my considerations will give something to think about, and that I'll be able to see you guys again in the xat after all, maybe without chocolate liquor close to the pc and everyone with their own account next time. such things happened many times in the past, and I believe it's pretty normal, since we all consider ourselves a big family, and that didn't stop us from admitting our mistakes and moving on.
my regards.