shadrach kabango
Banned via Warnings
*****s just too touchy. grimy/kinda rude/sexist is called life. it's you and your girl's fault for not having any snaps
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Haha it may be so that "life" is grimy/kinda rude/sexist, but if this is a less than ideal state, why should I accept it apathetically? And, if by not participating in something, I can avoid these adverse conditions, why wouldn't I?*****s just too touchy. grimy/kinda rude/sexist is called life. it's you and your girl's fault for not having any snaps
i love melee, so why should i accept camping? if it's a less than ideal state, why should i accept it apathetically? why should i accept anyone playing a character (marth) or stage (fountain of dreams) i don't like?Haha it may be so that "life" is grimy/kinda rude/sexist, but if this is a less than ideal state, why should I accept it apathetically? And, if by not participating in something, I can avoid these adverse conditions, why wouldn't I?
then just don't take her to tournaments anymore. the only way you would be "putting" her in a situation is if you forced her to do something. am i missing something?As for myself, I know guys can be kind of rowdy and sexist, and I can take that. But I like my girlfriend and wouldn't want to put her in a situation where she'd feel uncomfortable.
everything only makes sense to a degree, at least until you go beyond duality.Your "deal with it" argument makes sense only to a degree.
in a vacuum i do justify any behaviorIf you pushed this to its logical extreme, you could justify any behaviour. So the difference is a subjective one, and I'm arguing for a subjective scenario wherein the most people feel comfortable and respected. Doesn't this seem like a reasonable idea?
b/c it's this black and whiteif you don't love melee, then fine, your decision is easy and there shouldn't be any hand-wringing. but if you love both your SO and melee then, from my perspective, you're illogically giving in to the former. again, how is it any different from telling her to stop doing something she loves? if you agree it's not any different, then the next step is wondering whether or not that's the sign of a healthy relationship.
First, I would say that splitting up a statement like that can take away from the point made by the argument as a whole. An argument is not simply the sum of its parts, but also how they work together.i love melee, so why should i accept camping? if it's a less than ideal state, why should i accept it apathetically? why should i accept anyone playing a character (marth) or stage (fountain of dreams) i don't like?
because it's easy to love "perfection." (if something was "perfect" and only "good" than it isn't perfect because perfect includes imperfections.) that's not really what love is. you love the imperfections.
if you don't love melee, then fine, your decision is easy and there shouldn't be any hand-wringing. but if you love both your SO and melee then, from my perspective, you're illogically giving in to the former. again, how is it any different from telling her to stop doing something she loves? if you agree it's not any different, then the next step is wondering whether or not that's the sign of a healthy relationship.
if anything your SO "forcing" (i dunno to what extent she is, but assuredly at least to some extent) you to abnegate from something you love is the antithesis of love!
then just don't take her to tournaments anymore. the only way you would be "putting" her in a situation is if you forced her to do something. am i missing something?
everything only makes sense to a degree, at least until you go beyond duality.
in a vacuum i do justify any behavior
i specifically said "from my perspective."b/c it's this black and white
did i?you've made a boatload of assumptions about her behavior, and his.
not reallythe point about loving imperfections is also somewhat specious, at least as it pertains to suspect conduct. yes we recognize that the community is not perfect and embrace it in spite of shortcomings. that's different than loving the imperfections.
so far i think your entire post is out of proportion. as far as i'm concerned i'm conversing with an acquaintance. if anything has been blown out of proportion it was done so by your own mind, not mine.anyway, regarding black and white i think you've blown this out of proportion
agreed, and i resent the perceived implication of that being my argument.however, that does not mean that someone is necessarily in the wrong to express discomfort.
First, I would say that splitting up a statement like that can take away from the point made by the argument as a whole.
first of all from my perspective this isn't an argument but merely a difference in perspective.An argument is not simply the sum of its parts, but also how they work together.
okie-dokieYour melee example with Marth and FoD is, to me, unconvincing.
yeah, that's the pointThose unlikeable parts of the game are exactly that-- part of the game. You cannot remake the game.
not only do i not agree with this -- no, YOU cannot change attitudes in the community, which is not the same as saying that attitudes cannot be changed -- i don't even know what this has to do with what i was saying. i'm beginning to think my message is continuing to be lost in translation, and if your follow-up post confirms this then obv we're beating a dead horse and i'll stfuCertain attitudes in our community, however, can be changed if we decide it's important enough. I think you're comparing two things that are different.
here's evidence of the above, for posterity's sakewhich is what you're assuming.
good luck!I would much prefer if as a community we fostered a clean and comfortable environment for more people. That's not an impossibility, I think.
now this is simply disingenuous (and is also exhibit b of my lost in translation point).I'm glad you agree that your logic, pushed to its extreme, justifies anything.
Nothings impossible TophEven though I know that's impossible :<
yaaaayCan I come play melee with you guys? I might be based outta seattle lmao, what a lovely town it was.
except for the extremely high suicide rate