My Family Is Sooooo ****ing Gaaaayyyy

[#HBC | ZoZo]

I understand the feeling. And even more the stressed-for-nothing part. I'm like that too. When you'll talk to your parents, tell us how it went. Hopefully, they'll listen to you a bit.

Makes three of us.

With me it came together with panic attacks. So as soon as I lost my key I'd panic around and in younger years even start crying extensively.
Then I picked up archery, and it's meditative-like properties, and it really helped. You can just pick up chess or any other mental sport. It helps, take that from me

 

[Mr.-0]

*Sigh*...

I still say you should just be nice to her. Wait until she starts bawling over something you didn't do, and then you can just play on her simpathies.

 

[18.15.2.15x12.9.14.11]

*Sigh*...

I still say you should just be nice to her. Wait until she starts bawling over something you didn't do, and then you can just play on her simpathies.

How would you be "nice" to someone who is making a conscious effort to annoy you?

 

[Teran]

She'll appreciate it and feel guilty when she's older.

 

[RyuReiatsu]

She'll appreciate it and feel guilty when she's older.

This^.

My sister has been so nice with me these past 3 years.

 

[18.15.2.15x12.9.14.11]

She'll appreciate it and feel guilty when she's older.

That's not quite what I meant. I meant, quite literally, "how," not "why."

 

[Teran]

That's not quite what I meant. I meant, quite literally, "how," not "why."

It's pretty simple.
Just do it. I used to eat medicines that tasted vile because I had to. The medicine for this situation is to do that.

The process takes a while, but it does pay off in the end.

Lolanalogies.

 

[§witch]

Your parents are unreasonable and there is absolutely no reason you shouldn't be locking your door unless they suspect you to be doing drugs or sneaking girls in there.

Why would he need to lock his door unless he was doing something he shouldn't be doing?

EDIT:
tl;dr
If parents can't manage second child. Parents should not have had said second child.

I think his parents can handle things fine, he just doesn't like it. You can't judge his parents off of what their fuming 14 year old son said about them.

 

[kataklysm336]

Why would he need to lock his door unless he was doing something he shouldn't be doing?

To keep people from annoying him. Doesn't mean he's doing anything he shouldn't be, just says that he doesn't want anyone in his room. Thinking he is doing something wrong is an interpretation based on not knowing EXACTLY what he is doing an expecting the worst.

I think his parents can handle things fine, he just doesn't like it. You can't judge his parents off of what their fuming 14 year old son said about them.

So we should instead judge his parents based off of what exactly? What we think?

 

[RyuReiatsu]

To keep people from annoying him. Doesn't mean he's doing anything he shouldn't be, just says that he doesn't want anyone in his room. Thinking he is doing something wrong is an interpretation based on not knowing EXACTLY what he is doing an expecting the worst.
Lots of parents are like that. What can we do? You can't simply deny it, most parents are paranoid when it comes to things like that.[/I]


So we should instead judge his parents based off of what exactly? What we think?

And exactly, where is our right to judge his parents? That's like trying to solve a crime by listening to a single person involved, its not right.

 

[REL38]

You should just do what I did.

Smother your sister with love and kindness.

Now I'm the one annoying my little sister with my antics.

 

[LanceStern]

I really can't see how you, OP, say you don't talk to your parents disrespectfully but you go angry and wild in cussing and calling your family "****ing gay" on a forum.
It tells me you at least have a quick mouth and a little bit of a temper.

Try communicating again what you need to communicate.

 

[Blackshadow]

This blog post reeks of immaturity and patheticness. Why does it have so many replies?

 

[SuSa]

Why would he need to lock his door unless he was doing something he shouldn't be doing?




I think his parents can handle things fine, he just doesn't like it. You can't judge his parents off of what their fuming 14 year old son said about them.

I lock my bathroom door when I use the bathroom. Am I doing something I shouldn't be doing?

My mom at least had the brains to eventually stop yelling at me for my sister pulling my hair which led to me pushing (rather gently. Sometimes I'd just pick her up) outside of my door. Shutting it. And locking it.

To be honest, I think most parents just would rather the sibling bother the sibling then bother them. <_<

 

[joeplicate]

u should just punch ur sister

then she wont mess with u anymore

 

[Johnknight1]

Sounds like you need a lot more alone time. I'm glad I spent almost all my time from the age 12-16 out of the house with friends. Simply put, you just need to get away from them more often, & not treat your sister so vilely. You're only promoting her behavior. There are many counter tools you can use to get her off you. Plus remember, she's only 9.

When I was your age, I had a 11 year old sister & 10 year old brother, & I seldomly fought them. I only really got in arguements with my parents because I ingnored them (my friends covered my "sibling rivalries" for me). But believe me, when my two siblings fight, I am ALWAYS dragged in somehow, & it can be HELL!!! That's when I learned to just leave & take a walk. Go to the mailbox, go to a friend's down the street, call/text someone [preferably a single girl I was interested in, lol!], whatever. You just gotta give yourself space. THAT is a sign of true maturity-not calling your family gay.

Also, be wary of karma.... >_>

 

[joeplicate]

u should just punch ur sister

then she wont mess with u anymore

this was satire
I feel that was an unjust infraction

 

[superyoshi888]

Maybe you just need to cool off a bit. Once you've done that, ask your parents to talk to you, that you are a bit stressed out, and explain why. Eventually, you can have the topic move over to your sister, and ask your parents to do something about. If they ignore you and how stressed you are, then maybe they aren't the best people to talk to in this situation. School starts in a couple days for you, right? A guidance consouler is a great person to talk to about your family when you have trouble expressing yourself to them. You can then work out a solution with them.

 

[Teran]

this was satire
I feel that was an unjust infraction

Forum Support.

Use it.

 

[Oracle]

You ****ing beat up a nine year old
Jesus
Just do your work and be done with it instead of being a lazy melodramatic emo

It's a little sister. She just wants attention. Just ignore her.

 

[solitonmedic]

EDIT- I was face to face with this too, but I had a brother not a sister. I didn't really protest ALL the time, I always stated what I've done, so my parents would understand. So consider that your making life a little hard for your family, try the advice showed in the bottom. *but not the 2nd one*

Consider family a privilege. Most people don't even have that.

I totally agree.

Oh hellz yeah! <3 how this person thinks!

-Atlus

Edit - Pretend you're being nice for once and make her play the maze game!

-Atlus

Are you kidding?

Be grateful for the days you pay no rent. Doing chores is the least you can do.

I agree with this one too.

 

[xLeafybug =D]

Reasons like this is why some parents need to start beating their kids.

 

[Teran]

Reasons like this is why some parents need to start beating their kids.

You know they used to, and funnily enough their kids loved them more.

 

[Deleted member]

Parents beating their children only teach them to not be bad when MOM AND DAD are around. Beating is still a strategy used in child rearing because a lot of parents lately don't know how to raise children in a nonviolent way

FUNNILY ENOUGH all asian kids I know who have abusive dads (70% of asian families) do not love their parents more after getting their *** handed to them

 

[§witch]

To keep people from annoying him. Doesn't mean he's doing anything he shouldn't be, just says that he doesn't want anyone in his room. Thinking he is doing something wrong is an interpretation based on not knowing EXACTLY what he is doing an expecting the worst.

Why shouldn't his parents be able to bother him? That's ********. All parents expect the worst, if they didn't they'd be ****ty parents. "No it's okay honey, go for a walk in Harlem at 3 am."

So we should instead judge his parents based off of what exactly? What we think?

We don't judge his parents, because we aren't here to judge his parents. He just felt like venting (and was consequently ********) and besides, what the hell can we do about it anyways? Who gives a flying **** what his parents do, all of you need to stop baaaaawing about how you need to worry about your sister walking in on you....

 

[Oracle]

While I'm suuuuuuuper against modern liberal parenting, I do not fully advocate beating (or at least senseless beating). It works well on paper, much like communism, but fails when actually implemented. It helps associate negative consequences with negative actions, but realistically the parent won't always be there.