My Family Is Sooooo ****ing Gaaaayyyy

[Teran]

Do not ever shove her down the stairs. Ever.

Whoever condones shoving their family members down the stairs has a screw loose. You should only do that if she's been infected with T-Virus or something.

 

[Nysyarc]

You should only do that if she's been infected with T-Virus or something.

Quoted for truth. And don't just trust your family doctor either, they lie about that stuff.

 

[Circa]

Do not ever shove her down the stairs. Ever.

Whoever condones shoving their family members down the stairs has a screw loose. You should only do that if she's been infected with T-Virus or something.

As someone speaking from plenty of experience, falling down a set of stairs at her age won't cause an extremely high amount of damage to her. Well...unless they're made out of stone or some ****. Wooden stairs aren't bad though; not at all. Minor bruising and low chance of head injury.

And I only really said it because it'd really just be a lesson for later on in life. Don't **** with people, because it could have a bad result. Some people never learn this, and she could be one of those that needs to learn that lesson. And she might as well learn it at a young age. You know, before it starts costing her friends and creates problems in romantic relationships.

There's always a bigger picture to the paintings you make.

 

[#HBC | ZoZo]

Lol solid, I just dropped by to say I'm having the same problem with my little sister, except that mine is 12.

She's just a neverending *****.

Eventually my mom just stopped caring about my little sister because she always SEARCHES trouble.

Ask your mom why she has to hold her hand above your little sisters head, ask her why she can't see your view, ask her if you can do anything, ask her if she can talk to your little sister, ask her to listen.

Crying = +1 for making your point.

 

[Nysyarc]

Pushing someone down the stairs when they're that young and you still have parents who dictate your life can only end badly... in fact it can only end badly in any situation. I really hope you were joking in that last post Barrage >_>

 

[Arora]

That sux in my family u had to have respect for elders no matter what so my little sis and bro listen to me or my gets mad but that's just how it works in a family of 8 good luck with ur sis and it's a good idea to walk away from her she might not follow

 

[Sephiroths Masamune]

Ugh, she's gonna turn ten this November. I'm sure as HELL I wasn't this immature when I was ten. And yeah, she's always been abusive of her age. For example, when she was younger, if she had to do a chore, she would say "But I'm just a little girl. I can't do it." Then, when she wanted, say, an MP3, she would say "I'm a big girl, I can handle it." I would start choking and be like WUUUUUUUUHHHHHHHTUUUUUUUUUUUHHHHHHHHHHHFUUUUUUUUUHHHHHHHHHHH

If I were your parents I would say. "When she says she's just a little girl than thats when you know she's old enough." And I would also say. "Stop acting like a total SOB you demon from hell!"

 

[Teran]

As someone speaking from plenty of experience, falling down a set of stairs at her age won't cause an extremely high amount of damage to her. Well...unless they're made out of stone or some ****. Wooden stairs aren't bad though; not at all. Minor bruising and low chance of head injury.

And I only really said it because it'd really just be a lesson for later on in life. Don't **** with people, because it could have a bad result. Some people never learn this, and she could be one of those that needs to learn that lesson. And she might as well learn it at a young age. You know, before it starts costing her friends and creates problems in romantic relationships.

There's always a bigger picture to the paintings you make.

Falling at weird angles can cause dislocations, sprains, and even breakages. She could break her neck if pushed down the stairs, that's not a nice outcome.

Stop condoning unnecessary violence, no wonder western society is so ****ed up.

 

[Frown]

Imagine this from a third person perspective:

A nine year old girl yells at and pulls the hair of a fourteen year old boy. The boy then tells the girl "Come this way" and pushes her down the stairs. The girl gets bruises on her knees and bleeds a little from her head.

Wouldn't you think of that boy as the biggest a**hole of all time?

 

[Sephiroths Masamune]

As someone speaking from plenty of experience, falling down a set of stairs at her age won't cause an extremely high amount of damage to her. Well...unless they're made out of stone or some ****. Wooden stairs aren't bad though; not at all. Minor bruising and low chance of head injury.

And I only really said it because it'd really just be a lesson for later on in life. Don't **** with people, because it could have a bad result. Some people never learn this, and she could be one of those that needs to learn that lesson. And she might as well learn it at a young age. You know, before it starts costing her friends and creates problems in romantic relationships.

There's always a bigger picture to the paintings you make.

violence only provokes more violence maybe he pushes her down the stairs (no matter how ****ed up that is) and we assume she's ok she's just going to tell his parents and if he was me I'd be sent to some military school or juvie.

 

[Arora]

I don't get people and thinking everyone is a sworn enemy even if it's ur sister never consider violence like pushing her down the stairs u will probably get grounded for
Months and if u don't ur parents are retarted

 

[Nysyarc]

I don't get Americans

Now now, no need to hate on an entire country because of one person's clouded point of view.

P.S. Canada rules :bigthumbu

 

[.AC.]

do something really extreme to get your point across.

 

[Sephiroths Masamune]

I liked it better when we were talking about how he could help around the house a little

 

[Arora]

Now now, no need to hate on an entire country because of one person's clouded point of view.

P.S. Canada rules :bigthumbu

It was a use of the wrong word I just couldn't word it right and I wrote that

 

[Indigo Jeans]

Umm yeah, I may be Mexican, but there's no freakin chance I'm gonna push my sister down the stairs. >__>

 

[Circa]

Pushing someone down the stairs when they're that young and you still have parents who dictate your life can only end badly... in fact it can only end badly in any situation. I really hope you were joking in that last post Barrage >_>

The original intentions behind saying to shove her down a set of stairs was supposed to be a joke, but then my mind started contemplating different sets of outcomes and the process in which a person will learn to quit doing something, and realized that some sort of rather harsh, physical punishment (not necessarily pushing down stairs) could solve his problem. It's hard to explain, but it could work. It's a fear thing. That's all I can really say. If he did it, and did it right, his sister wouldn't be willing to bug him much, and his parents would probably try to keep her from bugging him because they don't want him to do whatever it is that he did again.

EDIT: Kind of like the logic behind the good old-fashioned spanking that parents used to punish their kids with.

Falling at weird angles can cause dislocations, sprains, and even breakages. She could break her neck if pushed down the stairs, that's not a nice outcome.

Stop condoning unnecessary violence, no wonder western society is so ****ed up.

Note that I said it would be an end-all, meaning 'use if and only if completely necessary'. And also note what I said above. Not necessarily pushing down stairs, but some sort of physical punishment. Ever seen or read Watchmen? The plan for world peace was of course insane, but it worked. And the reason why it worked is because it showed to the world that someone, somewhere, was bum**** crazy enough to do something absolutely insane. It created fear, but people then knew their limitations because of this fear. They knew where to draw the line. You may argue that it's just a movie, but I've noticed that even in the most bizarre situations that movies and books create, there is a certain amount of truth to be involved.

 

[Dark 3nergy]

I don't see the big deal about your little sister being a brat anyway.
I mean, she IS a 7 year old girl.

7 year old girls are usually brats. You can't say she's immature because 7 year olds aren't meant to be mature. They're meant to be like that. The perfect solution to this problem is patience with the arrow of time.

or a deserted island with a CPU and a refrigerator

 

[Sephiroths Masamune]

The original intentions behind saying to shove her down a set of stairs was supposed to be a joke, but then my mind started contemplating different sets of outcomes and the process in which a person will learn to quit doing something, and realized that some sort of rather harsh, physical punishment (not necessarily pushing down stairs) could solve his problem. It's hard to explain, but it could work. It's a fear thing. That's all I can really say. If he did it, and did it right, his sister wouldn't be willing to bug him much, and his parents would probably try to keep her from bugging him because they don't want him to do whatever it is that he did again.

Arn't siblings supposed to love each other not fear them I think he would be in a better position he is now than if he made her fear him. And your taking too much prospective she's nine not a 15 year old.
She's trying to annoy you to get a response if you don't respond in anger and respond it love maybe the actions toward you will weaken in amounts and gradually stop.

 

[Circa]

Arn't siblings supposed to love each other not fear them I think he would be in a better position he is now than if he made her fear him. And your taking too much prospective she's nine not a 15 year old.
She's trying to annoy you to get a response if you don't respond in anger and respond it love maybe the actions toward you will weaken in amounts and gradually stop.

Note that I said END-ALL. If nothing else works then consider it. And no, they shouldn't have to fear each other, but they do need to respect each other. If she can't respect his personal space then she's not holding up her side of that line.

I swear, it seems as though some of you can only see in black and white sometimes. -.-

 

[Sephiroths Masamune]

Note that I said END-ALL. If nothing else works then consider it. And no, they shouldn't have to fear each other, but they do need to respect each other. If she can't respect his personal space then she's not holding up her side of that line.

I swear, it seems as though some of you can only see in black and white sometimes. -.-

I agree on the respect thing and she dose need to respect him but the way you suggest on gaining it is questionable.

 

[Dark 3nergy]

Imagine this from a third person perspective:

A nine year old girl yells at and pulls the hair of a fourteen year old boy. The boy then tells the girl "Come this way" and pushes her down the stairs. The girl gets bruises on her knees and bleeds a little from her head.

Wouldn't you think of that boy as the biggest a**hole of all time?

i'd watch then laugh hysterically

 

[MidnightAsaph]

I get what Barrage is saying...kinda. Fear controls people. And honestly, given that no one gets injuries, falling down the stairs is hilarious. Even funnier when it happens to one's self. But, yeah, you need to set a type of control on people, or they grow up wrong.

And stop the stereotyping on western society/US. Generalizations piss me off.

EDIT:

I swear, it seems as though some of you can only see in black and white sometimes.

Welcome, this is Earth. Look at the oh so many *******es walking around.

 

[Circa]

I get what Barrage is saying...kinda. Fear controls people. And honestly, given that no one gets injuries, falling down the stairs is hilarious. Even funnier when it happens to one's self. But, yeah, you need to set a type of control on people, or they grow up wrong.

And stop the stereotyping on western society/US. Generalizations piss me off.

EDIT:




Welcome, this is Earth. Look at the oh so many *******es walking around.

I once fell down the stairs naked while carrying a basket of clothes. Ironic AND funny, can't beat that ****. And yes, I tend to think that I know this place rather well. It just annoys me sometimes. D:

Also, this.

http://www.husbandhood.net/how-to-react-and-examine-a-child-who-fell-down-a-flight-of-stairs

DEFINITELY not as severe as you people are thinking. I think that, within trying to remember her age, you had also forgotten her age in a sense.

 

[Teran]

Fear is not a method of control, respect is a method of control.

A beaten dog fears its master, but the moment it gets an opportunity it'll strike.

 

[Dark 3nergy]

what ever happend to the good ole days when you could spank your kid and they'd behave?

i swear if i ever bare a child and they act up on me, i will drop their pants and give them a good hand to the *** spanking

 

[Steven Jackson Action Jackson]

You can't justify throwing relivatives off staircases, Barrage, no matter how hard you try...
Or they must have framed you into getting a life sentence in jail.

 

[Snail]

What is your definition of a nasty family?

Well, I'm overreacting... his family doesn't exactly sound nasty, but if my siblings were like his sister I would get seriously ****ed off too. I mean, taking pictures of his un-made bed and showing it to his parents? That goes pretty far...

Just don't push her off the stairs :D She'll grow more mature eventually... just hang on ^^

 

[Circa]

Fear is not a method of control, respect is a method of control.

A beaten dog fears its master, but the moment it gets an opportunity it'll strike.

A dog only holds vengeance if beaten for no reason. Give it reason, and it will (at least for the most part) obey.

EDIT: And that's the reason why most dogs don't bite their owners, as I'm pretty sure quite a few owners do beat them when they do something wrong.

 

[Steven Jackson Action Jackson]

Lol, dogs and reason.

 

[Teran]

A dog only holds vengeance if beaten for no reason. Give it reason, and it will (at least for the most part) obey.

I don't think you understand what I mean by beaten dog.

Stop being obtuse.

 

[MidnightAsaph]

A dog only holds vengeance if beaten for no reason. Give it reason, and it will (at least for the most part) obey.

A square is to a rectangle as fear is to respect.

Both work well. Fear is only a harsher step than just respect. And as a side note, we're not talking about shooting his sister, we're talking about establishing superiority. Or at least I am here. Whatever method's cost that doesn't outweigh the benefit should be used. Fear, respect. There's a fine line.

And this is more of a reply to Teran.

 

[Teran]

Well my parents have never terrorized or imposed anything on me.
They don't threaten with sanctions for everything all the time.

They've just always had an eye out for me, and always tried to encourage me to make the best of my life. For this reason, I respect them, and am more than willing to do whatever favours/duties they ask of me.

I'll do practically anything they ask, and that's out of respect. If I don't do something, they won't really care, but I do because it's only proper. Lol mummy's boy.

No not really I've caused them hassle with my antics at times too.

 

[Heartz♥]

Screw that. My parents tore my bad*** up. I would have been ten times worse than I am now.

It's not abuse. It's hands-on discipline.

 

[Circa]

I don't think you understand what I mean by beaten dog.

Stop being obtuse.

No, I know what you mean by beaten dog. It's a metaphor, and I'm an English major. I can put two and two together. Mine was a metaphor as well, as I'm obviously not talking about a dog.

I'm basically talking about the same thing as Asaph.

Also, thank you to both you (Teran) and Heartz for basically pointing out why imposing physical harm to someone isn't always a bad thing (and yes, that is all that pushing her down a set of stairs would be, as I have pointed out that it is of a low risk for injury thanks to her age). Some people just need it to get their **** straight, and there's really no other practical solution than to give them a beating. Despite what you may have been led to believe, I'm not one to generally approve of violence, but I'm not going to be blind to its merits and just say there's always a better solution when there really aren't in some cases.

EDIT: Oh well, I'm done with this. I've basically said everything I can think of to say for the matter, and I'm still sticking by what I said. Try the other stuff people said first, but never leave violence out of the question, in case it is the only answer. Just my .02.

 

[18.15.2.15x12.9.14.11]

Um.
Judging just from the OP, I don't think his parents would be very happy if he pushed his sister down the stairs.

 

[Teran]

No, I know what you mean by beaten dog. It's a metaphor, and I'm an English major. I can put two and two together. Mine was a metaphor as well, as I'm obviously not talking about a dog.

I'm basically talking about the same thing as Asaph.

Also, thank you to both you (Teran) and Heartz for basically pointing out why imposing physical harm to someone isn't always a bad thing (and yes, that is all that pushing her down a set of stairs would be, as I have pointed out that it is of a low risk for injury thanks to her age). Some people just need it to get their **** straight, and there's really no other practical solution than to give them a beating. Despite what you may have been led to believe, I'm not one to generally approve of violence, but I'm not going to be blind to its merits and just say there's always a better solution when there really aren't in some cases.

EDIT: Oh well, I'm done with this. I've basically said everything I can think of to say for the matter, and I'm still sticking by what I said. Try the other stuff people said first, but never leave violence out of the question, in case it is the only answer. Just my .02.

As a Natural Scientist I'm telling you that beating the **** out of a child is not a very good idea.

A slap =/= pushing down the stairs.

Just saying, because I'm all in favour of a good smack, but that does nothing but leave your skin a bit red for about 3 minutes.

 

[3747373796432]

I'd tell you to try to bond with your sister (and the rest of your family). But going as far as taking a picture of your messed up bed? She must really hate you lol. Seriously though, try talking about your feelings and personal things. And like LanceStern just said below me, do it when they're in the mood (when they're calm and sober).

 

[LanceStern]

What is this junk about locking doors on parents?

They paid for the room and the door and the locks and the house, where we get raised (and no racial stuff intended- a lot of african american families) you don't lock doors if you get mad or don't want to talk to parents. You just respect the parent, listen to them and deal with it.

Now your parents sound a little unfair, but talk to them about it when they are in a good mood. Maybe they'll listen then. ANd don't talk to them all angry and cussing and whining. Be reasonable and be your age and hopefully they will listen

Well my parents have never terrorized or imposed anything on me.
They don't threaten with sanctions for everything all the time.

They've just always had an eye out for me, and always tried to encourage me to make the best of my life. For this reason, I respect them, and am more than willing to do whatever favours/duties they ask of me.

I'll do practically anything they ask, and that's out of respect. If I don't do something, they won't really care, but I do because it's only proper. Lol mummy's boy.

No not really I've caused them hassle with my antics at times too.

My dad raised me with imposing and spankings. We definitely feared him. That fear kept us and him out of a lot of trouble. As I grew older I learned why he did the imposing and understood how much he really did for me and my family, and so I respect him. But the fear was useful in my early years when I couldn't understand all they did.

Now it's a great mix of fear and respect and I'm 20 years old.

 

[RyuReiatsu]

Personally, OP... I think that you're very immature, playing the victim there. And there are even people falling for it. Not that I didn't expect it...

My sister was the same when we were younger, difference is that we're A year and a half apart from each other! You get what I mean? At 8, I had developed intelligent measures already. And you seem not to do so.

Oh and, about the "nasty family" comment.
My dad used to beat the **** out of me, my brother and my mother. If the OP's family is nasty, the man who made me (he could be in another country, or dead) was the equivalent to Hitler. Right? I'm pretty sure you're one of those spoiled kid who thinks that being refused a $20 allowance is a horrible thing.

Back to the OP. I'm pretty sure you're talking angrily and aggressively to your parents. I've seen a lot of it. Calm your *** and think of the proper words and manner of speaking.
You know you're not 100% innocent and know that your parents are unfair. I slapped my little cousin once, because he was the same as you.
He's frickin' 12 and deals with it much better than you do. Work on it, you're 2 years older than him for christ's sake...