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stop catching boxes and let me buy you a $20 lunchl
This. Because studying is overrated~I can probably make it. :D
Ok, cool.I mentioned that because it means I will be able to make Saturday...
Why? (more explanation on my actions below, FYI)but you just pissed me off.
Oh, I'm not saying he shouldn't be upset. I'm wondering why telling him stuff like 'don't worry, it'll be okay' is actually going to help him in any way? Is he unable to get over being upset/use it for positive gain on his own?Wow are you serious? Dawson spent so much time practising that if he didn't get upset, I'd be surprised. You may not know, but basketball isn't only just for fun to him.
You are logically wrong here. But you don't want to be told why, as this would constitute an argument.I'm severely disappointed in you Arcansi. Better to say nothing than what you just said.
You missed me @ phoenix 6?I really hope Arcansi is different in person if he ever decides to show to a Tourney
1. Don't assume I'm 100% sure in what I say. I believe in it 100%, but I attempt to keep an undertone of questioning, so that I can hopefully get answers from people.Apparently the human experience is childish.
Just a reminder to everyone: Don't do anything that will cause you to get infractions or anything. If you really don't like what Arcansi posted, report his post, and let mods of this section deal with it. I can't do anything myself since I don't mod the tournament region, but others can take care of it.
To be constructive.And Arcansi, that was completely un-called for and unnecessary. Why you posted that, I have no idea.
Why is Crisis the only one able to understand?Translation:"Don't get sad over losses. Realize your mistakes and win next time!"
But I didn't know this.Rather than telling somebody to suck it up, how about showing some consolation. I think you may not realize that you have actually reached a new low today. Please watch what you say. If you know it's going to piss people off then don't post.
Is it silly to expect someone to think the way I do? I am human.Emotion is always present, and it is silly to expect people to think completely logically.
Because logic cannot work when people are considered about lesser things? Yes.Reminds me of this Debate Hall thread about how we should just kill off all retired people to save money and help people that are actually supporting society. Logically it is sound, but do you see why it would never happen?
If they understand what they actually need to do to win next Olympics? Yes. I will bet you most Olympians get back up and train the next day, because they understand that's what they need to do.How about an Olympic athlete that dedicates most of their day for years trying to get the gold medal and fails? Do you think that person could get over it right away?
As long as we have control of our own thinking we have the power to do this on our own and shouldn't require such stimuli, although they help.Being sad functions as an aversive stimuli, conditioning you into never wanting to fail again. Without it, humans wouldn't be as successful as they are. The longer the sadness lasts, the more effective it is. Look at it that way Arcansi.
Also, time please? Sorry for the trouble :xAlso, address please!
What I'm trying to do is understand others and the way they think. My post was not made to hurt you in any way.It's the "You deserved to lose" that got me, I really wasn't upset at that time about the loss, I was upset that you basically insulted my entire team. I don't believe you are in any position make calls and observations from your standpoint, especially as you don't understand... period. The amount of training and fundraising we do is tremendous.
I don't wish to go back in forth, tear this post apart, I won't respond, waste of time.
Itz k, you just don't understand that's all, <33333333333333Sorry if I made you mad
We're under less control over our own thinking that you might think. Decisions can be made up in your mind before you're even conscience of them. This doesn't just apply to instinctual reflexes or whatever, complex decisions have been proven to at least be partially not under our "own" control.As long as we have control of our own thinking we have the power to do this on our own and shouldn't require such stimuli, although they help.
I would wonder why being sad for longer helps more.
I would also question how being sad functions as such a stimuli when it is also brought on by actions that cannot be said as such, like the death of a loved one.
It makes no sense.
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Okay.We're under less control over our own thinking that you might think. Decisions can be made up in your mind before you're even conscience of them. This doesn't just apply to instinctual reflexes or whatever, complex decisions have been proven to at least be partially not under our "own" control.
The longer it affects you, the more it sticks in your head.
Emotions, just like humans, aren't perfect, but their function is very clear. Also, don't take what I say as something I am making up. I am currently a psych major in university, and this is stuff I've recently learned about.
I would wonder why being sad for longer helps more.
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I can kinda see this.it's equivalent to getting a bad taste in your mouth and being in a hospital in pain when you eat something
not necessarily the length of sadness, but the intensity as well, tho they're usually related
I'll elaborate. Yes, the emotion"sadness" can also function in a different way, such as being sad over losing a loved one, but that doesn't mean "sadness" was not evolved to increase human fitness (ability to survive and reproduce). So being sad over a loved one might indicate that sadness also helps us learn how to really care about the people we really care about. Think about it. At a young age you have your grandma that you love, but since you're young when she dies you don't know her too well, but it still results in you being very sad. Then you can generalize this feeling to predict how you'd feel about losing your parents or, in the future, your love partner. With that sad feeling in the back of your head, you make sure you do as much as you can to prevent your partner from going into a dangerous situation because you love them. So in a way, "sadness" is still functioning in the same way, but it just appears differently to you.Okay.
What does this mean? That my own evidence, reliant on my own observed reactions, is inaccurate and should not be used for posting?
I don't see what I'm doing wrong here considering that I used myself as a 'genie pig' about most everything.
I don't remember any feelings of sadness when my pet dog or hamster died, or when I learned that my grandma had some weird cancer that I can't remember.I'll elaborate. Yes, the emotion"sadness" can also function in a different way, such as being sad over losing a loved one, but that doesn't mean "sadness" was not evolved to increase human fitness (ability to survive and reproduce). So being sad over a loved one might indicate that sadness also helps us learn how to really care about the people we really care about. Think about it. At a young age you have your grandma that you love, but since you're young when she dies you don't know her too well, but it still results in you being very sad. Then you can generalize this feeling to predict how you'd feel about losing your parents or, in the future, your love partner. With that sad feeling in the back of your head, you make sure you do as much as you can to prevent your partner from going into a dangerous situation because you love them. So in a way, "sadness" is still functioning in the same way, but it just appears differently to you.
This falls off once we stop needing many traits we evolved to have to survive.It's not like I am saying everyone experiences sadness in the same ways or through the same means. I am simply saying that to say "being sad over something like that is childish" is actually quite dumb, because it's not like humans haven't evolved to experience sadness, because they were. You can't really argue that (if you believe in evolution) because all natural selection works on is selecting traits that enhance fitness. So I guess technically every trait humans have are supposed to be better for fitness than our ancestor.
I can believe it, I just find it weird that I can't relate at some points.Or so they say, but I have faith that they're right cause it sounds pretty legit and there was a lot of research done on how this stuff works.
humans are a social creature, sympathy can be an emotional response to help a fellow comrade out, potentially increasing your survivability as you have a stronger groupIs sympathy supposed to represent your best attempt to help someone then? It would seem like a better course to leave the sad person pretty much alone until they get over it.
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I see.humans are a social creature, sympathy can be an emotional response to help a fellow comrade out, potentially increasing your survivability as you have a stronger group
What I was trying to say is that we don't need it(to a certain level) at a certain point, and it would be better for it to be gone, so the emotions usefulness falls off.What do you mean this falls off? Humans can't evolve in a life time. Evolutions happen purely by chance, so we can't lose any traits by choice.
The big picture concept here is that every trait we possess is a result of many random mutations being selected for because it offered better fitness. I couldn't hope to list all the functions each emotion serves, but I am sure just by seeing what they do for people you could figure it out.
Anyways I am done giving a lesson on evolution and emotions lol.
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@Everyone: Why do people think they can act like this and find it okay to do so? I mean, why is it okay to talk to me but just say 'but I get the last word because I want too' it seems illogical and bad to do.Of course you change things based on the way you think, but you don't tell a man and his basketball team they deserve to lose and spit in his face. Especially when you can't even relate, I doubt you're on a hardworking Basketball team that does Fundraisers and the like because their dedicated. You might do something similar but the fact is you don't. I'm probably making assumptions but I completely disagree with what you initally said. And for the record, I'm not getting into this thing with you so if you decide to Quote this I'll just ignore it.