jiovanni007
Smash Ace
If you think I sound like a tool then you're obviously taking this completely out of context. I'm not saying this is the only way to have a woman want you. i'm saying that from what I normally see the physical appearance of the most of the people that complain of being ignored by women isn't up to snuff. To vouch for my own character everyone that i've met irl from swf normally describe me a as very cool person that they love to be around. This blog is moreso a brutally honest look into what can help a person achieve a relationship or random hookups. Most people posting are making assumptions as well. I never said that you have to have a lot of money to make women like you. I merely said that having a job and disposable income makes it exponentially easier. Besides actually being able to take a woman out it also shows some form of responsibility which is something that most women look for in a man.
As far as dressing goes, I never said everyone needs to dress like or go buy a bunch of ed hardy shirts for women to like them. I simply made the note that most people who complain look as if they've worn the same clothes for about a decade. You can still have your own style but most times it just needs to be cleaned up. Don't think of this as buying a new pair of shoes, but morseo as polishing an old pair.
Lol stds. If you're not dumb its very easy to avoid stds. I won't say how many women I've slept with but due to numbers alone I should have something. I started having sex when I was 15 and researched it to keep myself from having a baby or catching an std. Simple steps to follow to avoid stds include: using a condom perfectly (if you say there's no perfect way to use a condom pm me and I'll tell you), don't kiss random hookups in the mouth, and don't let random hookups engage in oral sex. Sure I may sound like a tool for saying this but I assure you I'm not. I carry myself in a very intellectual manner depending on the situation or I can be laid back and joke around. I don't make of habit going around putting people down. If anyone actually wants woman advice you can shoot me a pm and can give you some honest truth.
This blog is just meant to give some people a starting point. Never once did I mention changing your personality. Honestly the people that I meet from swf are some of the most genuinely nice people and tend to not be dbags. If you change your personality you're gimping your chances a lot.
I never once said that you needed a lot of money to get and maintain a woman. I said it was necessary however. **** you could work at mcdonalds and still show a woman a good time. My tips are meant to give someone who doesn't normally have confidence just a little bit. For the bar scene, I go every now and then. To be quite honest sometimes I need to get a little satisfaction while single. I'm not gonna get a girlfriend just for sex, a girlfriend is more than that. What I'm saying is that the tips I've provided can help someone on either facet of the situation. You're absolutely right that nothing meaningful comes out of the bar scene but different people have different morals. When I'm not in a relationship I have no problem being promiscuous because the need for sexual satisfaction makes me feel good physically. Body contact, engaging in sex, finishing sex. Its all part of being a healthy human being. Many psychological studies support this as well.
My questoin for you is what do you do after you meet these people? Surely you must know that a woman will eventually get tired of free dates. If you maybe go for a walk in the part you will be hinted/told directly what she likes and expected to come through. If she says she loves vampire movies then you gotta take the L and take her to see the new twilight movie. She'll think its sweet and adore you for it especially if she doesn't have to tell you exactly what she wants. Movies nowadays cost upwards of $12 per ticket for new releases and on the weekend. Factor in snacks and just for the movies you can be looking at a $40 date. A job would ensure you can have that $40 and still be able to live comfortably.
Also imagine if you constantly take a woman out on cheap/free dates but you've told her that you play video games competitively and you're willing to spend ~$50 at a tournament but you're not willin to spen more than $10 on her it looks bad. Try not to take my words out of context.
Honestly you don't know me and you're making assumptions. If you read the title you can easily see that this is geared towards people who complain about not getting girls but refuse to look inward. I actually don't sag my jeans. i'm black and I loathe hood culture and all facets of it that have made it pop culture. I don't wear hats, my hair is wavy when kept neat which is physically a desirable trait by black american women. My clothes are snug not tight. Though i workout I do so for health issues and to look good. People who tend to make fun of people for showing off their muscles lack them themselves. I'm also a lone wolf. I have no problem goin anywhere alone and initiating intelligent conversation with anyone I may come across. Try not to make dumb and incorrect assumptions because you take thinks out of context.
