Forward with that PUA ****. Son got game.
I read that email. And if you think he overdid it? No... he ****ing OVERKILLED it.
Mentioning things like Depression and awkwardness as attributes for a guy? Man, your friend really needs to learn how to communicate effectively with women...
But think about it... He was talking about YOU.
Now, read through the rest of what I'm going to say. Don't avoid my words.
I also have Social Anxiety, depression, social avoidant disorder, love shyness, and basically every type of disorder that makes it hard for me to talk to people and get to know them. This makes my self esteem very low, and in turn I have a low self confidence, and fear being rejected and judgded.
I can read this right now, and it may feel so REAL and tangible to you, but I think this is complete and utter bullsh*t.
Why do I say that?
You believe you have social anxiety, depression, and all these "disorders" which snowball into this momentum of you having low self esteem and low confidence.
Such bullcrap. You are limiting your potential as a MAN and a human being.
Your inner beliefs are so scrambled and messed up, that you really lost touch with who you really are.
It's all about your beliefs. Whenever you believe something strongly. your mind will find physical evidence to prove your belief, thus enhancing your belief even stronger, building fast momentum.
Let's use the example of attractive vs. unattractive.
If you believe you are unattractive because this one girl said to you "I don't date ugly guys", then you will think "Am I really unattractive?" Your mind then starts to find evidence that you are unattractive. People may give you weird looks when you walk down the street, people make fun of your looks, girls reject you, etc.
And then you come to the conclusion "I am right, I am unattractive. No girl likes me. No one wants to be around me. etc. etc. etc."
And your mind will STILL find evidence that you are unattractive, and then things will plummet down even FURTHER, causing your energy to drop, not feel comfortable in social situations, avoid interactions, and start to hate people in general. As years go by, your hatred for others start to increase, and you start hating society itself, snowballing even further to even more dangerous beliefs, enhancing your altered REALITY of what REALITY actually is.
But if you say "It's not about looks, but it's about what is inside me. It's about my personality, humor, confidence, and the way I walk through life, and what I want to accomplish in my life" then you will start to let go of your past thoughts and beliefs, and your mind will start to look for evidence to further enhance this belief.
You start to talk to girls, not looking for any relationships, but just to have fun. Girls will enjoy your time and company, and say that you are a very fun guy. As you realize the less you care about what people say about you, the more people respect you. You start to stop looking for validation for others because you realize you don't actually need validation from others. You start taking care of yourself, and you actually dress good, and have more respect for yourself. You start to enjoy life more, causing more people to like being around your presence. Your energy starts to get higher and brighter, and girls start to comment on how good you are looking today. You move through life without apology, and your confidence starts to rocket up. You have fun and enjoyment with your life, as well as accomplishing things you really want to do, without anyone interrupting your life dreams. You start to respect yourself a lot more, and in turn, people start respecting you a lot more. The more respect you get, the less you need validation from others because you finally realize you don't need it in the first place, and you are INTERNALLY validated. Girls start to feel a strong sense of attraction for you because you are a very positive, confident person that doesn't tolerate any disrespect from others and has a life purpose other than to please others. Whenever you talk to girls, girls love the energy you bring out in their lives, and you find yourself with a girl that truly loves you for who you are. As you accomplish your dreams, you feel even less need for validation, and whenever a problem occurs, you handle it with ease and move on with your proactive life. You finally understand your life purpose, and you finally achieve contentment in your life.
Do you understand how POWERFUL beliefs are?
Think about it. If you took away fear from your life, what would you have accomplished? What would you have done if fear never prevented you from doing things you truly wanted to accomplish?
I don't care who you are.
You are not your past. You are not your family. You are not where you are originally from.
You can be whatever you want to be, as long as you truly believe in it.
Throw away that bullsh*t mentality because it is completely off base of what you REALLY want to become.
Think about who you want to become and what is your life purpose. Then strive for that purpose fully, have respect for yourself, and believe things in a positive light. Everything else will take care of itself.