That's rather interesting, joshisrad.
I'm just worried that becoming friends with the girl would make her think I like her, even if I don't "let her come any closer". We aren't at all close now, and I feel that becoming friends with her will send the wrong messages. But I may give it a try anyway.
Remember, my goal here is not to pick up chicks. It's to keep shy girls who have crushes on me from getting hurt.
I'm just worried that becoming friends with the girl would make her think I like her, even if I don't "let her come any closer". We aren't at all close now, and I feel that becoming friends with her will send the wrong messages. But I may give it a try anyway.
Remember, my goal here is not to pick up chicks. It's to keep shy girls who have crushes on me from getting hurt.