Don't worry, not being a man and letting girls walk all over you have fun with this. This exercises their female power, and they will even give you positive reinforcement (Good Doggy).
Yeah, being a pet is realll ****in fun... Definitely an admirable trait. I salute you.
*Salutes back*
Supported by nothing. That's the problem. Empirical eventually but how old are you? 14?
I can't see any of your stuff being supported by much ethier.
I really
really think everything we're saying is the near polar opposite of each other's opinion, and don't think we can see eye to eye at all.
They're not going to respect you if you let them walk all over you. Say your friend and you are hanging out with a girl. Your friend is playing it cocky and funny to impress the chick and it ends up belittling you somehow. Maybe you wanted to get with the chick but he's stealing your thunder. You're just gonna sit there and let him take what YOU want. You won't talk to him about it. And not only that, but he's belittled you in front of her. No respect.
You seem to assume that my friends dislike me for how I see things right?
I can't say that senario has ever come up, and if we BOTH like the girl, I can't see why it's "My thunder" and not both of ours to try and get.
But if that did happen, I wouldn't mind, unless he really starts going over the hill and takin' personal shots.
If he did, I'd probably just talk to him about it.
S'no big deal.
You're saying this in response to my question for you "So having people respect you is not important to you?"
But you JUST said that you are happy as long as your family and friends respect you.
Dude, I don't think you have any idea what you're talking about and are just trying to play devil's advocate to everything I say.
I am happy as long as the family and friends do.
But anyone else doesn't really matter much. I had a kid come up to me recently, some uy who REALLY hates me, and he knocked me and said "F@ggot". Whoopdey do. He doesn't like or respect me. End of the world, innit? I simply smiled and said "Hellll yeah!" then made thrusting movements at him.
Yeah, so that comes of as totally insane. But I...really don't care.
It's just the way I think man. Respect isn't that important, especialy when it means sounding so mean all the time.
Who the hell did you think I was talking about when I said "people?"
People sounds like people to me?
When you said "People" I assumed (And I'm sure many others did to) that you meant "Random people" or classmates or other guys.
Not "The family and friends"
When you're older, you'll hopefully produce more testosterone and everything else that will change the way you carry yourself and your confidence/power. While now you are a boy, you may never see life the way a developed man sees it. Until then you can let your potential **** buddies walk all over you.
I used to be similar when I was a kid. I was a big time AFC and when I see it in others I feel the desire to help them.
Well, I'm 16 now. (Well, in a month anyways)
And I've had views like this my whole life. You seem to assume that everyone is walking all over me and making fun of me. Actually the last one is true.
But I can't say I get walked on really. I get through school fairly easily without having random mooks and/or friends come up to me and make me do things.
You can have a strong relationship with anyone as long as she isn't a complete ****ing ***** or just doesn't like/respect you. You realize that right? When you have a lot of experience with women you will find more and more things to appreciate about them - the way she speaks her mind - the way she writes her poems - her taste in lattes.
Stray from this "find the right girl" way of thinking, or it becomes very hard to find the "right" girl.
That just twisted what I said and made it into a "Blackadder is aiming for one woman in his life" thing. As I said before, I think the "right" girl is anyone you can work with in a relationship.
How is that a bad way of thinkin'?
And Josh, I really don't think we're gonna get anywhere with this stuff.
It's all opinion, and say you're right about
everything, what do you care if I "fail" or not?
I say we just leave it here, 'cause we're clearly to VERY different people.