It doesn't make any sense that I'm always the one on trial in these conversations.
victimize yourself more pls
The different percentages and different contexts are exactly why focusing on one over the other is important.
yes turn a blind eye to half the problem lmao
Nowhere in my post did I say that only men ****, or that only women are *****. But it is a particular issue in regards to men ****** women
you implied it. and it isnt particular to men ****** women.
This can give us clues as to why men ****** women is such a specifically common problem compared to other types.
heres where your entire line of reasoning falls apart, nerd. you
dont know the numbers behind male ****, because men are conditioned to "man up" and told that they cant be ***** whatsoever. women are more likely to commit domestic abuse, but because of how gender roles and expectations are defined we relate domestic violence with men sooner than women, generally, and thats just another example of how there needs to be attention to both side. Do you know how many shelters there are for women who get abused in the marital home vs men? they have NOWHERE to go if something goes wrong, but women do, because they get attention. for this very reason men getting **** needs to come to light, because they too need tools to deal with it, rather than getting laughed at and told "you cant get *****, silly, you're a man!"
I heard Ramses got ***** earlier in a game of League.
By Karma; haha man im funny
I guess this means no more offensive jokes.
it was a swain
also who cares if its derailing or not, THAT discussion was derailing lol
Talk to me if you ever wanna air your thoughts, babe.
Why in the **** does that **** matter?
Men get ***** by women. Men get ***** by men. Women get ***** my men. Women get ***** by women.
WHY ON EARTH WOULD ANY ONE OF THESE BE MORE IMPORTANT TO FIX THAN THE OTHERS?
The first step in fixing this problem should not be focusing on men ****** women because percentages. What about everyone else that was *****? What the **** does this mean for them?
The first step in fixing this problem is making everyone aware that **** victims are ****ING **** VICTIMS regardless of sex and ****ing stopping the **** storm they get regardless of sex and helping them recover from the experience as well as they can. Sex doesn't ****ing matter. We need to be there for the victims of **** and tell them that they didn't do anything wrong and that their rapists are really just ****ing awful people.
Do you not understand what focusing on women does for men? It makes male **** victims seem like a ****ing joke. Do you have any idea how many times phrases like "Men can't be *****" or "Men can just overpower the woman... making it impossible" is just thrown around in common society? That's a problem. Just like people saying "Women deserve it with how they dress" or "They shouldn't have had alcohol in public" or "They shouldn't have been on the street alone". It's all a ****ing problem that should be treated as an equal problem because they're all ****ing awful problems in our society.
legit love this post
I'm starting to see what you're getting at now, I think. The point is that the assertion that "men ****" bolsters the idea that there's something inherently about men that causes them to ****, while women inherently refrain, when in fact it would be more true to say that we attach different characteristics to men and woman, and accordingly to dominance and submission, and that is the heart of the reasoning for why anyone would assault anyone. That's fair (if I understand your point correctly). Though I never made any claims about exclusivity when it comes to these roles, I accept that I should have made more of a point to be inclusive. That doesn't change the fact that the motivations behind things like **** are very much informed by concepts of gender, which is why makes it a wider cultural issue for women (as victims) and a more narrow, individual issue for men (as victims).
thank you
also good job xonar, masterful trolling, you're a real card, and we are all now firmly in the rice fields
while i admit that my comic and copypasta were trolling, the rest is not tho. i think male **** is a very serious issue and some of the challenges men face in society i think are severely overlooked and do need attention.