Imagine you are a newbie and all the melee people are evil and do not talk with newbies like yourself. What do you do to improve? You play against these evil melee people.
Now, as a newbie you played hours only to get destroyed and get frustrated. Repeat this cycle for several weeks once a week. You now better understand what you are doing and get some success against the evil people from time to time. Now, that you slightly understand the game the better you want to know how to do some certain thing. Well, the evil melee people are still evil and do not talk to you. You play against these evil melee people some more, but this time with a better idea of what to focus on.
Once again, you play hours and get destroyed and frustrated for several months now. The evil melee people are still evil and you get beat up lots by the scary characters. However, you look back at how you started and where you are now and feel pride in the work you put in to get to where you are now. So, you keep playing the evil melee people some more.
Its now been several years since you started and you decide to see some old friends and play melee with them. After an hour or two of play you realize you won ever single match. A week later you meet up and the same result. "Huh?!", you wonder to yourself. "When did I get to be so good at this game?" Now, one of your friends is really impressed with how you play this game and asks you how to do 'this', 'that', and 'those'. You have no good reply and your friend gets frustrated. Congratulations, you have become an evil melee person.
Now, to answer your question CrimsonBlur... Imagine I am an evil melee person and you are the newbie. What do you do?