@Slam
It's so crazy rt? Girls and all. I mean I always went with bad guys and rt when I found out one was a softy I bounced. Cheap saw a pic of me when I was at the peak of boychasing, like 17, yeah, I know he'd hit that.
When I started settling down, around 19, I realized I wanted a quote unquote nice boy.
I think what the thing is, is that you have to be demanding and rude sometimes, but nice and gentle at others.
Like...you and your boy are having a conversation, girl interupts, you respond with "Two men are talking, keep down." But later you have to make up for it by doing something sweet like playing with her hair while you talk about your day. Talking bc that way we're lulled into a false sense of security and think it's not all about doing it; letting her gaurd down, she will probably let you do it, which is ultimately, your intended goal.
Or, "You gonna have to start cooking for meh woman." She replies with "Psshh, cold day in hell when that shi happens." You should respond with "Men support women by working, women support men by caring."
This tricks the woman into believing that you would actually appreciate her more if she did do homey things and that one day you will give her money.
Some bad accompanied with good makes an ideal balance of badboy with a sensitive side. This 'ideal man' fools the woman into believing you are a jerk with a soft side who will one day respect her, when the fact is you're a manipulating jerk. But it's fair bc the goal of a woman, subconciously, is to manipulate a man into caring for her and her/their offspring.
Love is innocent.
It's the internal, unnoticed drive to survive and procreate that is manipulating.
IMO
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