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What?? lol

That's what I was afraid of. She's too used to you just being friendly and not making it known that you wanted to go out with her that she has lost maybe the romanticism of love at first sight or some other nonsense (I dunno it happened to me too in a way; I'm still trying to figure it out).

Basically, I dunno how much help I can be now. You could try to do cool things or nice things for her or whatever else that would make her like you but it would be very difficult and could possibly end up with you trying to force her into something she doesn't want and ending your relationship due to awkwardness.

I guess just be careful with whatever you wanna do now.

Good luck bro.

Oh well then I'd say go for it.

It's a little more forward than my taste, but I'm not going to say that it's wrong since everyone is different. It couldn't hurt to try it man.

Um yeah I guess that sounds good.

Lol awkwardness.

Ok, I'm ready to help.

Actually yes, but Baptists go to church on Sunday too lol.

I was at church man, but I'm here now (unless comp gayness occurs).

K, gettin on. I prolly won't get more oreos until wednesday. That's when my hardest finals are >_>b

i am back solid!

Dude get on aim. Finals suck balls and I'm almost out of oreos.

Sorry I was gone.

Hope you're not pissed at me.

You still tell me what she says?

Tell her about your swagger then.

Well, I need to know what she responded with.

Ok, if you go falco I can SHTripple lazor lmao.
Honestly, we can discuss this like during the friendlies and such. Or on aim the one time we end up doing that >> I don't think there's too much to discuss unless we're being uber tactical.

Lol this sucks cuz I'm tryin to get on Xbox live but some update is ogin on and I dunno what I'm doin, but i'll help (stream of consciousness ftl).

Ask her things like "if you had a BF, you'd want him treat you good, right?" Then you could go on to say other things like that then kinda seem to go off topic and ask her if she remembers a time when you did something great for her, or maybe tell her about something nice you've done for someone lately, and see how she responds. You need to subtly let her know you're serious.

so solid,u wanna brawl?

Hmm, you have to poke. It's never that easy, and it also hints that you're interested. Now she's on her guard if she wasn't already, so gradually pick up the interest in her life in personal affairs to gauge her feelings.

Lol yeah I did, but I was bored then and I've been bored all day so I couldn't care less about mine. Sorry you got one though. I thought it was funny....I only said it cuz those other bros said it...mods....

Ok I'm going to go kirby because my Marth is horrible for large scale fights.
Kirby goes well with basically everyone.
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Profit.

But we do need to wifi sometime soon so we at least get used to each others playing styles.

K so I have no idea if I helped or not, but get back to me on that when you come back ok? I'll try to answer when I get back from my club trip tomorrow (around 6:30 I'd guess).

I'm going to hit your last point first, since it's the main reason for your "reluctancy."

It's very damaging psychologically when a girl breaks up with you. It sucks. It burns. It eats at you and challenges your faith in humanity. But you have to move past these bad feelings sometime; dwelling in the past won't help you with any relationship in the present or future. You have to learn to trust people again, even when you know you might get hurt. It's not an easy thing to do, I understand that, but without your full resolution to be committed to her, and without your trust in real relationships, your asking out of her will be MUCH more difficult, and it may even be harder to maintain the relationship when you're so worried about her leaving you that it's what she does. Self-fulfilling prophecy ftl.

On the other hand (sadly I must show you both sides of the coin here as a friend), you're young. Hormones are crazy. You can like someone for the wrong reasons, even label your latest attraction as "the one" for the tenth time. Relationships at this stage in life aren't meant to be eternal (very very few work out that way for many reasons), so you shouldn't go into a boyfriend/girlfriend committment thinking that you'll definitely stay with this girl for a few years. Circumstances, and more imporantly people, can change.

Ok, I know that ending was abrupt, but I think I covered both sides well enough to move on to getting at the questions/situations.

Ask her things like how she would feel to have a BF (it has to be kinda led up to though in some other conversation, do it kinda subtly though so it's not too obvious). Btw, if she asks, just tell her that you're just wanting to know. It's the truth, and it doesn't directly tell her you wanna go out. Half-truths ftw.

Maybe you could ask her what she thinks about a BF/GF relationship, or ask how her last serious relationship went.

Does that help?

Alright, from my perspective, you have a great opportunity in front of you.

Texting alot is good.

Knowing alot about each other is usually good.

She got close to you and still is close because she likes you still I'd wager.

I suggest using a few probing questions to feel out her emotions concerning your relationship. I'll go try to think some up if you can't think of a good situation/question to use.

Everything looks good for you man (from what you've told me), so I'd say go for it. Even if it doesn't work for some wild reason, you'll be the same bro you are today afterwards.

I missed the memo because I didn't see that I got a new visitor message.

My bad.

Yes, I most certainly owe you one. What's up?

Is it smash-related or something pointless? I enjoy both.

Wazzzzuuuuup.

Yes, he's the mutha****in' man.

Heh, not particularly, no.

Who ?

sup S.O.L.I.D .

I actually didnt get a chance to see it cause I had to go...restart comp > combo breaker > lost url. You can post it on my profile tho.

Know any good way to stop Hylian stalking you???????

Hey dude! nice sig! I love the video. Gorillaz rock! kinda reminded me of this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wXzg0D-cKds&feature=related

Lmao man I was sleeping >> West coast time.
Get on as soon as you see this. I'll be on for as long as possible.

Alright, just give me a sec to send you an invite....

I have just a few doubles vids up now if you wanna check em out. I'll probably put a link to my channel in your group if you'd just rather wait until then.

It's working fine again...for now....

Toshiba.

Rage.

Lupe!

Fiasco!

If I wasn't afraid the frail thing wouldn't fall apart on me, then I would.

Lulz it's kinda new too. How sucky.

He's a good bro then.

Dang my comp hates me.