I got INFJ for the personality test. I looked up what it means and it's pretty accurate. #unique
I'm like 5 pages behind, but these relationship stories are beautiful and I'm almost crying alone in my room lol.
That being said, is it appropriate to ask what everyone's orientation is, here? I apologize and take my question back if it isn't; it's just something that's had me really curious for a while.
Hey, gorl! You don't seem to post too often anymore, but it's always really nice when you do. Congratulations on the new relationship; it sounds adorable and I'm jelly. I hope everything is going well for you!
To answer your question, I'm gay. Like really, really gay. However, I'm not stereotypically gay (a.k.a. mincing and 'feminine'). But here's the kicker : I can't come out (despite how desperately I'd like to), because my family is somewhat homophobic and I don't want to risk jeopardizing my safety. I don't think anything bad would happen to me since I know my closest friends would be very supportive and my mother loves me unconditionally, but my step-father, biological father and his wife, and most of my other family are kind of "old-fashioned" and probably wouldn't take the news too well. I literally have no gay, bi, or lesbian family members, so I'd be the first. Considering how large my family is, it's quite strange.
I've literally never been attracted to women, so it's not like it was a big revelation for me to be like, "Oh, I guess I like dudes." However, there was a long period of time when I was struggling with finding my identity and I thought I was bi and just leaned more on the gay side. As of now, I don't think I'd date a woman, but I'm not against it. I've just never met a woman I've been attracted to. One friend of mine in particular keeps on bringing up how I have only "liked" one girl throughout school and it's getting kind of annoying. I think he wants me to come out to him, but I know he'd treat me differently because that what he did to a friend of his when she came out to him as bisexual. He's one of my closest friends, but trying to coax me into coming out to him has really been getting on my nerves. When I do come out, I want things to remain the same, since I'm literally the same person except that my friends and family know a bit more about me than before I told them. Idk, sexuality isn't a big deal and I don't know why people get so upset over it. Like it's my life, let me live it.
/end mini-rant thing idk