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Why I Love Airports.

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I love airports. In America, that's an outstandingly unique statement. They're crowded. They force you to go through tedious security procedures. You're usually forced to wait in multiple lines and interact with people you normally wouldn't on a regular basis. Throw in the high chances of delays and boarding procedures so long that they almost make you miss your flight and you have a very stressful environment. Despite all this, I've come to see airports as extremelly fascinating.

I didn't begin to see them in such a light until I traveled out of the country for the first time in 2006. Shortly after graduating high school, I traveled around Japan for about a week and a half. At the end of the trip, the group I was traveling with went to the Narita International Airport to return home. Our flight was delayed a couple of hours so during my free time, I watched, no, observed people as they went by. I watched their movements, noticed what they were wearing, and even paid attention to their facial expressions. It was like I was in an art mueseum and trying to interpret every line and stroke of a painting.

There I was, 18 years old, just graduated from high school and, in a sense (although debatable to this day), about to begin adulthood in the fall having completed the first major excursion of my life and, suddenly, I felt less self aware than I ever had before. "What's their story," I thought as I watched them walk away, knowing full well that I'd never truly know. "I know why I'm here but why are they?" It was during that time that I realize how limited the human perspective truly is.

Every person's life is like a movie. Obviously, you're the star where after watching the film, the viewer would be able to say the most about you out of the whole cast. People like your parents, siblings, closer friends, etc would be the co-stars who the viewer may or may not chose to pay that much attention to. Last of all, there is everyone else who have ever seen and/or interacted with as the extras, the people who are entirely forgetable even when they show up as "exploding hooker" or "disgruntled hotdog vender" in the credits. In an odd twist of fate, it turns out that you are the viewer and have an infinite amount of insight on your own performance but what about all the other performers? Don't they have a story behind them? What makes them so much different and less important than you? Things are made infinitely more complicated when you realize that everyone is the star of their own movie and that, despite being the star in your film, you're just an extra in everyone else's.

With this all being said, I see airports as places where you really come in touch with the essence of the human spirit. People coming. (How'd you get here?) People going. (What's the hurry?) Faces beaming with excitement. (A family vacation?) Faces scowling with dread. (Visiting inlaws?) Faces drooping from lack of sleep and long commutes. (Trying to get the kids through college?) Faces with eyes downcast as they keep to themselves. (First time going out of the country?) What is their story? If you could stop any random person and have them join you for lunch, what would you say and what would you ask? What would they say and what would they ask? How do you know they didn't think about you as they passed by, knowing full well they'd never see you again. That's the thing, you don't and it's simply maddening when you stop to consider it. Like Socrates once said, the only comfort we can take away from our ever-stretching ignorance is that the truest form of wisdom is knowing (in comparison to the universe in it's entirity) that you know nothing.

A couple of months ago, I finished a video game called "the World Ends With You." In the end, the title is basically the moral of the story. "The world ends with you" means that the "world" is limited by your perspective. As you interact with other people, this world expands and some of the fog starts to clear away. It could be said that the human race is a collective mind. The way you think is original due to the combination of your thoughts but those thoughts themselves were influenced by other people who in turn were influnced by others and so on and so forth. In a way, this connects everyone in the world, past, present and future. If you close off yourself from others, your perspective is made more narrow and the fog remains just as dense as your way of thinking. We may be the stars of our own lives but we have to remember at the same time that so is everyone else in their's.

I love people. Living in today's world, that's an outstandingly unique statement. People can be rude. They are the cause of a the majority of hardships you'll ever face. You're often forced to interact with those you normally wouldn't by choice. Throw in innate human selfishness and the constant clashing of egos and you have a very stressful world. Despite all of this, I've come to see humanity as extremelly fascinating.
 

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Cool story bro
Good read, you really made me think about things.
I never saw it this way, and how you describe it, it makes sense.
I really don't know much about my best friend's life, except how he's always there.

I was totally thinking about The Truman Show when you talked about movies <_<
 

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Holy crap. His first blog and he redeems SOME of the crappiness of the recent bloggers xD

Good stuff. I wanted to work at Hartsfield-Jackson Airport as a flight attendant. It is where you guys would go if you were to take a plane to Atlanta.

Humans are overrated, by the way.
 

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Holy crap. His first blog and he redeems the crappiness of the recent bloggers xD

Good stuff. I wanted to work at Hartsfield-Jackson Airport as a flight attendant. It is where you guys would go if you were to take a plane to Atlanta.

Humans are overrated, by the way.
You're right, we are mainly because we're so full of ourselves. One of my favorite Calvin and Hobbes strips is where Calvin is standing on a hill with a starry sky above him and he yells "I'M SIGNIFICANT." He then pauses for a moment and then takes in the vastness of space and says quietly "screamed the dust speck." Despite this, people still fascinate me even though we often grossly overrate our own intelligence and accomplishments.
 

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Humans are overrated, by the way.
No, they are not. Humans have accomplished an astonishing amount of... Things. We traveled trough space (the moon was just the first step), we develop vaccines against sickness, we make giant missiles, capable of making vast amounts of land unfertile.
I call this pretty awesome. Humans have their own mind, which is extremely complex. Being able to think like humans can already goes above anything.
Nature of course, stands above the human, but humans are still not overrated.

People are though. People are so mad rude.
 

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Great blog. First of all, I loved The World Ends With You AND Calvin and Hobbes, I seriously have the whole newspaper collection on my book shelves. So thank you for including two of my favorite works of art.

That DS game is probably the first game that actually changed my view of life. It's amazing how interesting people are, and even if they're not - or if they're especially rude - your life has been expanded just by talking to them and experiencing their personality and thoughts. I used to be the hermit that surfs video game forums. Now I'm that slightly normal dude that surfs video game forums :D
 

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I like it, really. Beautiful blog.
I've played The World Ends With You too, it was really good... And this post is just so well-written!

I personally don't really like people and have done the same as you. Except that instead of being in an Airport, I was as at Montreal's Old Port. People looked at me as I was like a wild animal (because I really looked like that!) and I was fascinated....

I love this post, I'll be sure to check out your posts often!
 

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Awesome read. Watching people, trying to figure them out and guess at their life stories, and realizing that every one of them is a living, breathing, thinking (usually) being is profound to me. People are fascinating, and everyone has a story.

I heard once that when you dream, you don't make up the unfamiliar faces you see. Your brain uses faces it's seen somewhere, which means that your brain uses strangers in your dreams. I've watched a crowd of people and wondered if any of them would appear in a dream of mine.

To quote TWEWY, which is getting some well-deserved love here, "The world ends with you. If you want to enjoy life, expand your world. You gotta push your horizons out as far as they'll go." Best line of the game, which is an amazing one.
 

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Great blog. First of all, I loved The World Ends With You AND Calvin and Hobbes, I seriously have the whole newspaper collection on my book shelves. So thank you for including two of my favorite works of art.

That DS game is probably the first game that actually changed my view of life. It's amazing how interesting people are, and even if they're not - or if they're especially rude - your life has been expanded just by talking to them and experiencing their personality and thoughts. I used to be the hermit that surfs video game forums. Now I'm that slightly normal dude that surfs video game forums :D
The World Ends With You came to me in a very critical time in my life. Last fall, despite being on and off depressed for 12 years, was the first time I seriously thought about suicide on an almost daily basis. After Christmas had passed, I decided to finally see physician about it. I tried one medication he recommended and it made me even more depressed. I then tried what I'm still using and I felt genuinelly good for the first time in years. Shortly afterwords, I started playing The World Ends With You.

I was no longer depressed but I didn't know what to do with myself. Since leaving high school, I pretty much isolated myself from everyone. I'd go to school and work and that was pretty much my life. I didn't see any point in having a social life. I didn't want people getting sucked into my world and my Thomas Hobbes like mentality. I saw myself as an evil person and I didn't want my influence to be spread to others in the real world. These feelings were gone but I was apprehensive because I couldn't think of why I should "put myself out there" and that's when I played The World Ends With You and I found an acceptable answer: to broaden my own perspective of the world. As I mention in the OP, the human race is more or less a collective mind whether you decide to be social or not. No matter what your lifestyle is, people will always have some sort of influence on you so why purposely make yourself a "shallow" person?
 

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I realized this thing about a single person's perspective a couple of months ago. "All I see is a man, wearing a black jacket. Who is he? What are his memories?", then multiply this by the number of people in the world. Billions and billions of thoughts and memories you will never get to know of.
 

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Lol, SWF is such an intelligent place, in particular User Blogs.

We are the biggest ***gots when a LOL threads, a fun or a terrible thread comes along, but when a serious post is thrown out, it gets the most intelligent posts.

User Blogs will always be in my heart.
 

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I also have thought this many times. If I'm just sitting somewhere and watching people (though it's not in airports mostly ;p), I think the same as what you've written. You've described this and the movie part very well. I like to see myself as a movie star :D.

Great blog, definitely one of the best I've read. Probably because I'm also interested in people.

@ Gf2tw; Lol, yeah.
 

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No, they are not. Humans have accomplished an astonishing amount of... Things. We traveled trough space (the moon was just the first step), we develop vaccines against sickness, we make giant missiles, capable of making vast amounts of land unfertile.
I call this pretty awesome.
Yeah. Human's are amazing. I mean, who ELSE has managed to grasp 1/nth of the universe?

We're so incredibly gifted. [/sarcasm]
 

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Not alot of people are honest enough with others and with themselves to share themselves to that extent, I think.

Also the fact that it would most probably ruin your relations with everybody you know.

I like airports too, but for a different reason.

It seems that... I like waiting. Alone. Not 'waiting alone' literally, but the stuff that you can do alone while waiting that you wouldn't do either with other people or not waiting. If you're waiting for something, then you don't have to concentrate on doing anything, which leaves you open to do stuff like, well, what you just did.

Which is enjoyable, but not by everyone, I think.
 

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Expanding the ideas of this to the Internet now, I think it's extremely fun to wonder how people are here. Like now, I'm reading all your guys' posts, and since my mind has now been put in the observation state that FMOI talked about, I'm wondering how people's lives are. It's even more intriguing because I can't assume crap about any of you, I have no idea how you look, how you talk, where you live, etc.

It makes me want to know about people, to learn stuff about them. I suppose being 'nosy' or not 'staying out of people's business' is harder then it sounds.
 

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I thought of this years ago but I like how you said it. Why ride a plane? I am afaird to death of them and I flip Go-karts and ride in high ways on bike without useiing the handles bars. I am afraid of no control in face of death. sorry I am random.
 

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I thought of this years ago but I like how you said it. Why ride a plane? I am afaird to death of them and I flip Go-karts and ride in high ways on bike without useiing the handles bars. I am afraid of no control in face of death. sorry I am random.
It's quite off-topic to be honest. It's pretty random, but at least it wasn't really stupid. I think.

He was talking about every individual's life being a movie and us being so limited on our own and stuffs.
 

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I thought of this years ago but I like how you said it. Why ride a plane? I am afaird to death of them and I flip Go-karts and ride in high ways on bike without useiing the handles bars. I am afraid of no control in face of death. sorry I am random.
No, it's fine but I have to say, it's kind of laughable to say that anyone really has any reak control over death though. Granted, you can do things to make it less likely but it can still happen. I could walk outside my apartment right now and trip going down the stairs and break my neck. My shoes were tied, I was paying attention, and there was nothing wrong with the stairs but it still happened anyways. This reminds me of a little plague my grandma used to have above her kitchen sink "You can eat nothing but raw fruits and vegetables for 85 and you're guarenteed not to die young." It could be argued that control is an illusion and that any feelings of "freedom" simply come from having less people having a strong influence on you than other people but that's another debate within itself.
 

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No, they are not. Humans have accomplished an astonishing amount of... Things. We traveled trough space (the moon was just the first step), we develop vaccines against sickness, we make giant missiles, capable of making vast amounts of land unfertile.
I call this pretty awesome. Humans have their own mind, which is extremely complex. Being able to think like humans can already goes above anything.
Nature of course, stands above the human, but humans are still not overrated.

People are though. People are so mad rude.
It was a joke comment.
 
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I think about this stuff a lot of the time. I see the faces pass on the sidewalk, and it's hard to believe that they all have stories, thoughts, feelings, and are complex beings.

I learned from a great little game called Hotel Dusk that every person indeed has a story, and it may relate more to you than you think.
 

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You know if you talk to people wanting to share their lives with you, you learn quite a lot. Even just talking to your grandparents or something, they have their whole lives to share with you and most of the time they are very willing. When you come across those people that just start telling you story after story, stop and listen. In a way just by listening to someone elses story, you become a part of it.
 

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I think about this stuff a lot of the time. I see the faces pass on the sidewalk, and it's hard to believe that they all have stories, thoughts, feelings, and are complex beings.

I learned from a great little game called Hotel Dusk that every person indeed has a story, and it may relate more to you than you think.
It's so crazy. It's like when you see your old teachers from school in public. Everyday you only see them at school. You only know them at school, but when you see them in life you realize that they all have their own stories too. Atleast that's what I always think when I see teachers in public.
 
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