Some people (myself included) enjoy playing games on a refined, orderly level more then chaotic smash-bros style FFAs with random items everywere. That's not to say I don't enjoy playing item FFAs, Super Sudden Death or Giant Melee every once in a while, but I enjoy tourny style 1v1/2v2s with friendly fire, no items and banned stages much more. You say "What's wrong with having fun" as if playing tourny-style smash isn't fun. I don't think that's what you meant to say, but it was implied.
On the other hand, Dylan_Tnga is wrong in saying that "order = True gaming". Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. In case you've forgotten, Dylan, compeditive level smash players are a minority among the smash community, and I don't think you're in much of a position to be saying that the 75% of the smash community who don't play compeditively are playing the game wrong.
They play the way they enjoy the game. After all, isn't that what the game is for?
I apologize for this beeing off-topic by the way. I think I've already given my opinion on one of the earlier pages in this thread though.