We all have our own little opinions about life. If we are to make a bunch of women happy and pleasuring them physically, mentally, and spiritually, I don't see a problem with that. If you want to go out and desperately seek out that special someone that you will want, being a purist, go ahead and do that. It's your own way of life, we have our own way of life. We each have our experiences which has shaped ourselves to be who we are. What makes perfect sense to me may make no sense at all to you, and vice versa.
But if you want to have a mental masturbation about how superior you are to others, be my guest. I'm just not listening to you.
I felt offended by how he was talking to both me and about women, especially the ones on this thread. Alpha male crap needs to die. You might be good at one thing, but by god someone is better than you at something else.
He attacked me, so I find that fair game. I merely offered examples that ended up as me getting insulted. I merely said that you can find the actual important person at 17. I had been all my life. I've been a shy guy around women, always will be. But for someone to give me crap for saying somethings possible and that I'm wrong, other men are wrong on other opinions, and that women are essentially objects, is in rather poor taste.
Can you agree with that at least? I ask nothing more than that. Any bias goes into other things I've said, I'll admit. Maybe I worded poorly. I was just trying to point out a counter to assumption. Apologies on that part.
One thing I have a hard time about the purist thing, how can one understand us? I get poked fun at for being as pure as I can be, yet people call that "weak" or at least imply it strongly (subtle attacks usually). Ever try being as pure as possible? I can't see myself being like you guys, but I still try to give you as much respect, as much as I hold morals and integrated logistics very highly. (By Integrated Logistics I mean try to logically go through all conditions on important matters before acting on it.)
Thank you for the constructive criticism Masked, I apologize again for being rather assuming if I was. I can't quite apologize to Mango. I'm not upset, I just don't get why you're so pompous and obnoxious.
Mango - I might have better, more or just unique morals, but you definitely beat me out on social skills, I'm sure. I'm self-conscious until I know the person, then too conscious of the other person's well being. Therefore, I don't start a conversation in person too often. We all got pros and cons, and I think willing to accept that people can be really abstract is a huge thing.
I hate people who take sex as a game and give them crap for it, but I still respect them if they acknowledge my opinion as different and don't hate on me for it. Most have more running for me, so I still would be envious of some things you have gotten. Catch my drift? Now I apologize for being a ****, just accept people's opinions can be different in the future, it might be in your favor if you do.
EDIT: Yes, that last statement could be considered Hypocritical, sue me. I suck at wording things right the first time. I end up apologizing and explaining better once I get complaints.
I have a friend that does that and its really scary...
I mean, I admit to liking confidence, but being confident and being a jerk does not necessarily go hand in hand (in fact, I could argue they're polar opposites). Mark my words, I hate jerks.