Noi, you are no lame-o. No one cares what you identify as, what you like, what you don't like, what you live for, what you'd die for, or what your life-style choices are. You are of this Earth and of our kind. What matters is what you contribute to the world, and being a good person is what truly matters. Be good to yourself, be good to your loved ones, and most of all, be good to life.
Whether you're cis, binary, non-binary, straight, gay, bi, pan, etc. is irrelevant. What matters is being cool to each other, and that's all I'd ever want out of humanity (and our First Contact if we ever find the glass-half-full in the Fermi Paradox dilemma).