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Ok, so today is supposed to be some sort of Chinese Valentines Day, because there is some old myth saying today is when two stars meeting or something.
Anyways, I know this one girl, who I sorta, you know, like. She already knows of my existence, I know of hers, and we're friends. I want me and her to become more than just friends though, like a girlfriend boyfriend relation. Sorta. There I said it. Why? We share many interests, and she has this personality that I can't resist. She has nothing special nor bad when it comes to looks , but her personality is so great and compensates for this enough to make me want to go for her really badly. I'm not sure if she feels the same about me, but whatever.
First problem: She herself has admitted to being "friends" with a few other guys. She gave me a reason, but I forgot it cuz I was distracted by her at the moment. All I remember was thinking this reason was legit when I heard it.
Good thing is she says she meets with guys in groups, so I can sorta assume she's not dating yet. I've also personally asked if she has a boyfriend, and she has said she has had a boyfriend in the past but broke up, saying she got in arguments with him and was a little depressed. I trust her, yet when I think about it, there is so much evidence pointing to the idea that she could be a player. I highly doubt this is true though.
Second Problem: How do I get into a more, like, real relationship? I've never had to do this before, so what should I do to approach her? I tried occasionally touching her (in appropriate ways) and talking with her and hoping something would happen, but nothing. I fail.
Also, we don't see each other often. We only have time during summerbreak to see each other. I'd rather not discuss the reason...
An Important question: How do know you're dating? Is kissing like what gives this away, or is frequently meeting each other? I dunno.
Please help me.
Ok, so today is supposed to be some sort of Chinese Valentines Day, because there is some old myth saying today is when two stars meeting or something.
Anyways, I know this one girl, who I sorta, you know, like. She already knows of my existence, I know of hers, and we're friends. I want me and her to become more than just friends though, like a girlfriend boyfriend relation. Sorta. There I said it. Why? We share many interests, and she has this personality that I can't resist. She has nothing special nor bad when it comes to looks , but her personality is so great and compensates for this enough to make me want to go for her really badly. I'm not sure if she feels the same about me, but whatever.
First problem: She herself has admitted to being "friends" with a few other guys. She gave me a reason, but I forgot it cuz I was distracted by her at the moment. All I remember was thinking this reason was legit when I heard it.
Good thing is she says she meets with guys in groups, so I can sorta assume she's not dating yet. I've also personally asked if she has a boyfriend, and she has said she has had a boyfriend in the past but broke up, saying she got in arguments with him and was a little depressed. I trust her, yet when I think about it, there is so much evidence pointing to the idea that she could be a player. I highly doubt this is true though.Second Problem: How do I get into a more, like, real relationship? I've never had to do this before, so what should I do to approach her? I tried occasionally touching her (in appropriate ways) and talking with her and hoping something would happen, but nothing. I fail.
Also, we don't see each other often. We only have time during summerbreak to see each other. I'd rather not discuss the reason...
An Important question: How do know you're dating? Is kissing like what gives this away, or is frequently meeting each other? I dunno.
Please help me.
