The Unhappy Thread

[PsychoIncarnate]

I got a ticket today

It really frustrates me because I wanted to leave work early but I suffered through while sick for more money

But if I had left early I would have actually had more money

Honestly I don't even feel like going to work tomorrow because I know any money I make during the day is going to be worthless

 

[BombsOnBombs]

I got a ticket today

It really frustrates me because I wanted to leave work early but I suffered through while sick for more money

But if I had left early I would have actually had more money

Honestly I don't even feel like going to work tomorrow because I know any money I make during the day is going to be worthless

Just contest the ticket repeatedly, eventually they'll drop it if you make it a big enough hassle for them. I've done this 4 separate times now. As long as they don't have photo/video evidence you're fine.

 

[Chinaux]

I got a ticket today

It really frustrates me because I wanted to leave work early but I suffered through while sick for more money

But if I had left early I would have actually had more money

Honestly I don't even feel like going to work tomorrow because I know any money I make during the day is going to be worthless

Did you know that every 5th hour you work goes to the government?
(it's actually more)
Have fun at work

 

[Genocyde]

Unhappy
Had a good 30 minutes to talk to her, and I didn't

Don't know why though

Dem feels get in the way of logic, man.

So am I supposed to just walk up and be like "hey, I like you." or what? I don't get this stuff, I never have.

If you bottle it up and don't let her know, it will just eat away at you mentally and drive you crazy. Try to find a remote area and let the chick know you dig her. Tell her how you feel, but try to keep it simple. Don't overdo it.

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, so shoot and see what happens.

 

[Chinaux]

Dem feels get in the way of logic, man.

It's really ironic how I give all this advice on talking to girls yet it's still hard for me.

Girls are weird

 

[Genocyde]

It's really ironic how I give all this advice on talking to girls yet it's still hard for me.

Girls are weird

Nah, it's all good man. Just because you have a decent understanding on how to approach women doesn't mean you're completely immune to still getting those jitters every now and then.

You literally have nothing to lose, yet because of the fear of rejection and the anxiety that comes with it, your rational thinking gets clouded. Some ******* will do that to you.

 

[CoolPalMitch]

I'd rather not go into the specifics about what happened, but today I got really frustrated at something, and I was in a bad mood because of it.

Then later today I realized I forgot to do something important and just damn near exploded because of it.

I hate it when I get angry. I act like a 6 year old. I'll go berserk for like 5 minutes, and then afterward I'll just have a little *****fit and just in general act unpleasant to people around me. Thankfully, I apologized to the people who I acted like a jerk towards and they accepted it.

Whenever things like this happen, they're always stuck in the back of my mind eternally, and I'm always ashamed of myself when I think of them. That might be one of the reasons I feel I have below-average self-esteem.

 

[Chinaux]

I really hate my job. After a day of work (which is short, only 4 hours) I honestly just feel like killing myself. It really sucks, but I'm not quitting until I get a job somewhere else.

 

[Lord of Boxes]

Being banned from your favorite forum, even for just a day, really, REALLY sucks.

 

[Teran]

It's really ironic how I give all this advice on talking to girls yet it's still hard for me.

Girls are weird

The theorycrafting is real.

 

[Chinaux]

Okay. Tomorrow I'm going to do it for sure. I'll be sure to not spill my bag of spaghetti all over the place when I talk to her

 

[Deleted member 269706]

Okay. Tomorrow I'm going to do it for sure. I'll be sure to not spill my bag of spaghetti all over the place when I talk to her

I hate myself for understanding that reference.

 

[Chinaux]

I hate myself for understanding that reference.

Palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy
It's coming out of his pockets already
Mom's spaghetti

 

[Teran]

Just relax b, there's nothing special to it and from your pictoras post you seemed to at least be decent looking (dat phone shield), so like really it's no sweat.

Girls are just people. :/

 

[Froggy]

First day of work tomorrow. Been in my bed for nearly 3 hours and can't sleep.

 

[Deleted member 269706]

First day of work tomorrow. Been in my bed for nearly 3 hours and can't sleep.

What kinda work are you doing?

 

[Froggy]

What kinda work are you doing?

I am keeping track of the location and information of new work orders for the state energy company.

I got zero hours of slepe last night, my supervisor who was training me had to bail half way through to attend to other things. So I have been instructed to 'sit tight' which would be fin if i didn't take all my energy to stay awake while at the sametime maintain first day professionaism.

 

[Froggy]

Potential major problems at work already. Oh Boy!

I think we can excuse the double post when its 4 days apart.

 

[R0Y]

Palms are sweaty, knees weak, arms are heavy
It's coming out of his pockets already
Mom's spaghetti

I don't want to be that guy but it's:

Palms are sweaty
Knees weak, arms are heavy
Vomit on my sweater already
Mom’s spaghetti

Yeah, lost his dinner, that's why the spaghetti comes in.

I am keeping track of the location and information of new work orders for the state energy company.

I got zero hours of slepe last night, my supervisor who was training me had to bail half way through to attend to other things. So I have been instructed to 'sit tight' which would be fin if i didn't take all my energy to stay awake while at the sametime maintain first day professionaism.

Potential major problems at work already. Oh Boy!

I think we can excuse the double post when its 4 days apart.

If it makes you feel any better I'd much rather have your job any day of the week. Hang in there.

Did you know that every 5th hour you work goes to the government?
(it's actually more)
Have fun at work

Shouldn't complain about that. In most western countries if you lose your job the government gives you the absolute minimum standard of living until you find a job, if not even most of it in much of Europe. I like social programs and not having the strongest of fears that if I lose my job or family then I'm literally homeless with no social safety net. I don't mind paying, but then again I'm not American and I believe in a stronger safety net than my own country has now. Think of it as paying back into society. Universal health care isn't remotely free either, we pay for it all our lives through that tax, but it's the better way imo.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Welfare's_effect_on_poverty

In the west outside the U.S. welfare means more than the handouts to poor people. This is taking the whole massive welfare system infrastructure into account, cradle to grave.

 

[Chinaux]

I don't want to be that guy but it's:

Palms are sweaty
Knees weak, arms are heavy
Vomit on my sweater already
Mom’s spaghetti

Yeah, lost his dinner, that's why the spaghetti comes in.

It's a joke man. Learn your spaghetti

 

[Froggy]

If it makes you feel any better I'd much rather have your job any day of the week. Hang in there.

That doesn't make me feel better at all. The implication is that your work life isn't very good which is a shame because you seem like a nice guy.

I heard back from a job I interviewed for and I didn't get the job. They said it was close but the other candidate was just a better match. I still have another job position I am waiting to hear back from and I don't feel secure with my current job so I'm desperate. I am going to pray a lot and stop sinning and hopefully that helps.

 

[R0Y]

That doesn't make me feel better at all. The implication is that your work life isn't very good which is a shame because you seem like a nice guy.

I heard back from a job I interviewed for and I didn't get the job. They said it was close but the other candidate was just a better match. I still have another job position I am waiting to hear back from and I don't feel secure with my current job so I'm desperate. I am going to pray a lot and stop sinning and hopefully that helps.

Sorry to hear that :/
Toik me months to find my first non-temporary job. You're also not alone in having trouble finding other jobs, it's a tough job market

 

[Chronodiver Lokii]

Teran, your posts are always my favorites.

****ty stuff happened this week but its all over now and good things happened so ill post in the happy thread

tho i do look like death and I'm just exhausted as all heck
ughhhh i need to sleep more

---

really really upset again.
just
i got a message related to the thing that made me post in the unhappy thread
and i just
I'm just really sad now

blah....

 

[Deleted member 269706]

Maybe tomorrow...

 

[Rie Sonomura]

I was let off of the training for the job I was accepted for, and thus was not allowed to get the job.

I saw that my problem was that, while I took lots of notes, including what to say/not say and how to say/not say it, when it came down to simple roleplaying, I just....kept fumbling. I tried my best to complete but I always stammered or forgot something. Cause I just can't keep a conversation with a potential customer flowing and putting in info into the system that has some issues at the same time. I've found that I had a perfectionist attitude and that...cost me the opportunity. Worse, I kept telling my parents it was all ok and I would get better the day before because I wanted to believe that I could do it all myself. I had such high hopes... I mean, I can communicate well with anything in a typed form, and can talk about certain things in person in a casual setting, but talking to people I don't know about issues in a short time period...

It's ironic too, I opened up a bit with the trainer and fellow trainees, who were all very nice people. But like...I'm gonna miss them all so much. I get so easily attached. I wish I didn't get so attached but like...one of the ladies there was so sweet and motherly and... ;____; I don't want to think I'll never see any of them again. I get lonely quite easily.

And just...the trainer did see it would be too stressful for me. I felt a headache coming on when another team was talking very loudly in role play, and I let some things bother me at the break room too, some commercials on TV. I WANT TO FIX THIS. I WANT TO GET OVER MY OWN PERSONAL DEMONS BUT I CANNOT DO IT ON MY OWN. I NEED PROFESSIONAL HELP. But I am denied that because mom says no, she doesn't have much money and there's family to take care of. The fact that I had to wake up super early each morning and drive far and mom sacrificed so much, didn't help.

I don't know what to do...I was so desperate to be earning money and get the customer service skill that... I even feel there's something wrong with me that even I cannot change...that it's even interfering with my life.

 

[Chinaux]

Handed in my two weeks notice today. Glad to finally get the **** out of Target for good. Retail is honestly the worst thing ever.

 

[Deleted member 269706]

Handed in my two weeks notice today. Glad to finally get the **** out of Target for good. Retail is honestly the worst thing ever.

Have you worked in fast food?

 

[Chinaux]

Have you worked in fast food?

No, but I heard it was just as bad.

 

[Deleted member 269706]

No, but I heard it was just as bad.

It's not too fun Basically anything that pays minimum is just about as bad as it gets...

 

[Hellzsaint]

I wanted to post a link but my post count is too low :|

First world problems SNIFF

 

[Pyra]

My body is kicking its own ass because I accidentally fell in love with someone.

I can tell by the constant anxiety attacks and the fact I haven't breathed properly in a week.

 

[Deleted member 269706]

My body is kicking its own *** because I accidentally fell in love with someone.

I can tell by the constant anxiety attacks and the fact I haven't breathed properly in a week.

Tell me about it. Ever wake up feeling like you're about to throw up because of anxiety?

 

[Pyra]

Tell me about it. Ever wake up feeling like you're about to throw up because of anxiety?

For about half a month now.

EDIT:
Aaaaaaaand rejected

 

[Chinaux]

For about half a month now.

EDIT:
Aaaaaaaand rejected

how so

 

[Deleted member 269706]

For about half a month now.

EDIT:
Aaaaaaaand rejected

Sorry to hear that man. I'm sure I'll follow in your steps later this week...

 

[evmaxy54]

Got my first gig tomorrow night (which should be great banter, but my band are rather mediocre & only doing a few songs, one of which we are thinking of dropping in favour of a rap that we haven't started writing because shooting ourselves in the foot is the new trend),
Got two assignments for this week (one for Tuesday which thankfully is nearly done & and one for Friday which I haven't started yet)
And I got a Grade 6 exam on Thursday which I need a miracle to do well in.

/smashblogs

 

[FloatingMew]

I was sick a week ago and it started clearing up. Just as the runny nose was going away I am sick again. It isn't a terrible sickness but I hate stuffy noses and my body aching. So much for an enjoyable Thanksgiving break... at least i have smash.

On another note, I am started to get sick of my "Friends." I called friend 1 and t seemed like 3 of his other friends from school were over and I wasn't invited. I played it cool and just tried talking to him about Pokemon and Smash but he seemed uninterested and wasn't listening.

Friend 2 has NO FREE TIME... He is always doing something amd never has time to answer my calls/texts. I texted him today and he replied with "I won't have much free time until Tuesday, we can play Smash then..."

I just want a friend that loves the same things I do, being a Nintendo fan at 14 in Highschool is hard. You can't make many friends that have the same interests and the others say they are baby games. I'd love to have a friend that wanted to take smash to a competitive level and actually WANTS to play a lot.

 

[LIQUID12A]

Exam week.

:´(

 

[Sari]

Well I've been applying to colleges for the past week now and I'm starting to doubt if I'll get in any of them. Every time I go to school, it seems like everyone around me is just better than me. People in my classes have already gotten accepted to amazing universities, and I'm still applying to colleges that I'll most likely get rejected by. My dad keeps telling me to apply to Princeton (yeah, that Princeton) when my grades are mainly Bs and I'm not the best student out there. He even brags about it all the time to his friends/family members. I feel like I'm just going to work at some crappy job while I watch my classmates accomplish great things.

 

[Chronodiver Lokii]

getting sick
zero drive to do work
boyfriend accidentally got drunk last night and got super sick and i had to care for him so we are both exhausted and i just feel so bad because he was dehydrated before drinking and didnt realize it and blahh
poor bby
; -- ; / hope he will feel better tomorrow