The Unhappy Thread

[Veetaak]

If you want to help us (the people in this thread) you shouldn't start by assuming things about us. It's not very effective as we may not be like the avarage person

 

[Froggy]

If you want to help us (the people in this thread) you shouldn't start by assuming things about us. It's not very effective as we may not be like the avarage person

If it's all the same with you then I will continue to assume that the guys in this thread enjoy sex.

I feel like you're calling me out simply for the sake of calling me out. Since what you're calling me out on doesn't make any sense. I'm a bit offended.

 

[Claire Diviner]

This isn't supposed to pertain to anyone specific, but more for people in general:

It's no surprise that I'm transgender (male-to-female), seeing as I've opened up to pretty much everyone important. That said, if there's anyone who are not aware that I'm transgender, don't just put me out on blast to them; if I want a specific person to know, let me be the one to tell them when I feel comfortable enough to let them know.

There, I'm glad to get that off my chest.

I've pretty much stated that one gender is more into sex than the other. That's kind of a fact.

A fact based on what exactly? If you've no source to prove this statement, then you're only stating what you believe. There's a difference between what is fact and what we think to be true, based on either personal experience, or what stereotypes dictate.

 

[Tacket]

I'm unhappy because my friend just killed himself .

 

[Lore]

@Sol:

@Tacket: Sorry to hear about that, mate.

 

[Luigitoilet]

Who exactly is "us"?

And I don't understand how I could be inaccurate about anything. I've pretty much stated that one gender is more into sex than the other. That's kind of a fact.

Sorry dude, it's not a fact. and I'm pretty sure people are calling you out because the image you project in this thread is that you're "the socially awkward weird prostitute guy", not exactly someone who has any sort of serious relationship experience (or social experience period) to be making such generalizations about any group of people.

Generally speaking, anecdotal speaking, sure, I agree with you. In my general experience females tend to attach more sentimentality and emotion to sex, and many other things. But it's just that, a small sample pool of all of humanity. People are surprising. I've met and dated girls who are "male" in every sense of the word except physiologically, who showcase the same detachment of emotion from sexuality as you accuse all men of harboring. I have slept with girls I do not care for, and even girls that I outright disliked, but I have also fallen in love with girls through sexuality. I'm in a relationship now where I can't separate the two. To be denied sex from this girl is to be denied love.

the more I think about this subject, the more I come to loathe gender identification and attributing certain traits to certain genders, and the more I fall in love with the idea of androgyny. I think beyond physical attributes, all this segmentation of "women are like THIS and men are like THAT" just creates borders between people. It's really not that different from racism, it's just far more politically OK to generalize people by their gender.

 

[Froggy]

This isn't supposed to pertain to anyone specific, but more for people in general:

It's no surprise that I'm transgender (male-to-female), seeing as I've opened up to pretty much everyone important. That said, if there's anyone who are not aware that I'm transgender, don't just put me out on blast to them; if I want a specific person to know, let me be the one to tell them when I feel comfortable enough to let them know.

There, I'm glad to get that off my chest.



A fact based on what exactly? If you've no source to prove this statement, then you're only stating what you believe. There's a difference between what is fact and what we think to be true, based on either personal experience, or what stereotypes dictate.

I am honestly surprised that in this day and age there are people who are unaware of the differences between men and female sexuality

Anyways to answer your biologically speaking it is a fact that the male sex drive is stronger than the female sex drive. Is this really news to anybody? I'm amazed that I'm providing sources for this.

http://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare

http://science.howstuffworks.com/environmental/life/human-biology/men-have-stronger-sex-drive.htm

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/cultural-animal/201012/the-reality-the-male-sex-drive

Edit: I had no idea you were transsexual even though I do believe I read a post about you saying so. Sorry, had I known you were transsexual I would have probably worded things different. I understand that this may be a touchy topic for you.

Sorry dude, it's not a fact. and I'm pretty sure people are calling you out because the image you project in this thread is that you're "the socially awkward weird prostitute guy", not exactly someone who has any sort of serious relationship experience (or social experience period) to be making such generalizations about any group of people.

Generally speaking, anecdotal speaking, sure, I agree with you. In my general experience females tend to attach more sentimentality and emotion to sex, and many other things. But it's just that, a small sample pool of all of humanity. People are surprising. I've met and dated girls who are "male" in every sense of the word except physiologically, who showcase the same detachment of emotion from sexuality as you accuse all men of harboring. I have slept with girls I do not care for, and even girls that I outright disliked, but I have also fallen in love with girls through sexuality. I'm in a relationship now where I can't separate the two. To be denied sex from this girl is to be denied love.

the more I think about this subject, the more I come to loathe gender identification and attributing certain traits to certain genders, and the more I fall in love with the idea of androgyny. I think beyond physical attributes, all this segmentation of "women are like THIS and men are like THAT" just creates borders between people. It's really not that different from racism, it's just far more politically OK to generalize people by their gender.

Actually dude, it is a fact that men have a stronger sex drive than women. Check out the sources I posted or even better research the topic yourself. This isn't statement like "gay men are more feminine than straight men", Scientifically speaking this topic isn't even a question anymore, men are hornier than women, this isn't my opinion, it is the consensus of the scientific community.

I like you, I really do. But I find it very ignorant for you to attribute me as the prostitute guy given that the overwhelming minority of my posts are about my experiences with prostitutes(I should be the nervous breakdown guy if anything) And for the record I've had girlfriends before, I haven't made assumptions about you, so don't do that for me. And your anecdotal statements about horny women and sensitive guys has no meaning here as I've never stated that either is impossible or even weird. It seems to me as if you're complaining about what I wrote without actually reading what I've posted.

While I d believe gender roles are exaggerated in society, I think there is some practically to it. Let me know if your opinion on that changes after you've learned it's a fact men are more into sex than women are.

 

[Holder of the Heel]

I'm going to have to agree with Froggy on this one, I've seen studies and shows on this subject, and it has always been very clear to me that men are more into the sexual aspect of relationships than women are from them, not to say that it cannot be the other around in cases. Thinking in such an ideological androgynous way about genders is a bit naive.

 

[Zook]

I like you, I really do. But I find it very ignorant for you to attribute me as the prostitute guy given that the overwhelming minority of my posts are about my experiences with prostitutes(I should be the nervous breakdown guy if anything) And for the record I've had girlfriends before, I haven't made assumptions about you, so don't do that for me.

If I remember correctly, any of your nervous breakdowns were directly related to your prostitute problems.

You also just told an 18 year old he should seriously consider using a prostitute.

 

[Froggy]

I'm going to have to agree with Froggy on this one, I've seen studies and shows on this subject, and it has always been very clear to me that men are more into the sexual aspect of relationships than women are from them, not to say that it cannot be the other around in cases. Thinking in such an ideological androgynous way about genders is a bit naive.

I understand that people love this liberal ideology that we're all the same and all perceived differences between us stem from ignorance, but believing in such a black and white ideology is ridiculous imo.

If I remember correctly, any of your nervous breakdowns were directly related to your prostitute problems.

You also just told an 18 year old he should seriously consider using a prostitute.

Well then you remember incorrectly, fear of losing my job and almost getting kicked out of my apartment wasn't about prostitutes.

And while you may believing sleeping with prostitutes(I much prefer calling them call girls) is wrong, I would advise you not to project your own morality onto others. I for one do not see a moral injustice with paying for a call girl and I imagine I'm not the only one.

I don't think his age matters as I was around that age when I first had a call girl. I was letting him know of his options, giving his very detrimental out look on himself and his relationship women I thought it was important.

Please quit it with the judgmental attitude.

 

[Vixen]

I missed bracket at koc by one game.

not salty. just upset.

 

[Luigitoilet]

I'm glad you like me Froggy but you're still the prostitute guy who farts a bunch at work to me.

 

[Oneupsalesman]

Werekill, Werekillllllllllll. Werekill. Please. Step in.

 

[Froggy]

I'm glad you like me Froggy but you're still the prostitute guy who farts a bunch at work to me.

then you're ignorant, and the farting thing was one day.

lmao.

 

[Chronodiver Lokii]

Guys arguing over women's sexuality
What is this, Washington DC?
>:|

 

[Lythium]

This is why I like you, Lokii. :3c

 

[Vixen]

please stop saying transexual. it's very rude.

gender and sexuality arent related.

 

[Chronodiver Lokii]

This is why I like you, Lokii. :3c

Lythhhh <3
I'm unhappy cuz I don't talk to Lythium more omg

 

[Froggy]

I'm alone at the company office. I'm hearing a lot of weird noises. I can't help shaking the feeling that I'm in danger. Hopefully it's just my imagination at work.

 

[Holder of the Heel]

Guys arguing over women's sexuality
What is this, Washington DC?
>:|

...Take it as a compliment? XD Haaaa

then you're ignorant, and the farting thing was one day.

lmao.

Dude, chill.

And I know people hate it when you tell them to chill, but I'm gonna say it, chillllll.

 

[Froggy]

Dude, chill.

And I know people hate it when you tell them to chill, but I'm gonna say it, chillllll.

I forget that tone can be lost on the internet. That post was meant as a joke.

 

[Lore]

Hey Froggy, chill. Just stop the argument here, everyone.

 

[Froggy]

Hey Froggy, chill. Just stop the argument here, everyone.

As I said before I am chill.

Hey LT, we cool?

 

[quote]

I can't have milk with my cookies.

It's a sad day indeed.

 

[Oneupsalesman]

I can't have milk with my cookies.

It's a sad day indeed.

This is the best unhappy post we've had lately.

Thanks.

 

[Zook]

Well then you remember incorrectly, fear of losing my job and almost getting kicked out of my apartment wasn't about prostitutes.

And while you may believing sleeping with prostitutes(I much prefer calling them call girls) is wrong, I would advise you not to project your own morality onto others. I for one do not see a moral injustice with paying for a call girl and I imagine I'm not the only one.

I don't think his age matters as I was around that age when I first had a call girl. I was letting him know of his options, giving his very detrimental out look on himself and his relationship women I thought it was important.

Please quit it with the judgmental attitude.

I'm not going to debate with you the morals of using 'call girls,' however I will say that suggesting a vulnerable person to engage in any sort of criminal activity is unwise.

I was simply pointing out reasons why people think of you as that prostitute guy. lol It's a touchy subject for you so I'll drop it.

 

[PsychoIncarnate]

please stop saying transexual. it's very rude.

gender and sexuality arent related.

I'm pretty sure the "sex" in transsexual" is referring to the definition of sex meaning "gender". Not sexuality

"Sex" refers to the biological and physiological characteristics that define men and women.

If you've filled out forms, sometimes they write sex in the place where others would have gender but it still has a M/F mark next to it

 

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[Jon Farron]

I also really want to go on a full vent about my country recently because I think the citizens of the USA have misused their biggest tools to change lives in America; voting.

Please do, I really agree on that.


I also believe we are on the verge of another civil war. History always repeats itself.

 

[Froggy]

Please do, I really agree on that.


I also believe we are on the verge of another civil war. History always repeats itself.

That's a bit of a stretch isn't it? Does the south really hate liberals that much?

 

[Jon Farron]

I never said that. ._.

I said I believe that we are on the verge of another civil war, because there has been talk of this for a few months now. Since Obama got re-elected, things have been getting a little crazy...

Citizens in 15 states file petitions to secede from United States

Update: Citizens in four more states have filed petitions at the White House web site, bringing the total to 19

 

[Holder of the Heel]

Yeeeaaaah there isn't going to be a civil war.

 

[Jon Farron]

You never know

 

[Teran]

No it's pretty apparent there won't be. Believe it or not, the Democrat and Republican politicians get along fine behind closed doors, unlike the voters.

 

[Froggy]

My supervisor sent me an e-mail on how I should have done a better job taking charge and leading the project and he's absolutely right. Usually when there is an issue at work I have an excuse for it but not so much this time. Yes it's true my peers are closer friends with each other and are more inclined to communicate with each other than with myself, but honestly I shouldn't have given a damn about that. I let someone else play the role as leader because she had seniority over me and seemed more comfortable with the position. That was a mistake, if I do get to be project lead again(I'd rather not honestly, in the meantime I'd rather focus on improving my efficiency) then I'm gonna run a really tight ship.

 

[Jon Farron]

Froggy what do you do exactly?


Also I forgot the original reason i came here, lol.

I HATE BRACES.

Saturday I woke up with a sharp pain in my mouth for a second, then it went away. At lunch the wire attached to the back of my tooth popped out, I just tucked it under the brace until we could call to get it fixed. This morning, the brace next to it popped off, and now I have to wait until tomorrow to get it fixed. Ugh. I don't even know why I'm having so many problems with these, I'm doing everything they said! ;-;

 

[Froggy]

Froggy what do you do exactly?


Also I forgot the original reason i came here, lol.

I HATE BRACES.

Saturday I woke up with a sharp pain in my mouth for a second, then it went away. At lunch the wire attached to the back of my tooth popped out, I just tucked it under the brace until we could call to get it fixed. This morning, the brace next to it popped off, and now I have to wait until tomorrow to get it fixed. Ugh. I don't even know why I'm having so many problems with these, I'm doing everything they said! ;-;

I'm a GIS specialist, if you use google map or a GPS then I'm the guy who supplies to data to those kind of digital interactive maps. In the day to day of it though my jobs consists of connecting line to dots while filling out spreadsheets.

My supervisors' e-mail has gotten my pumped though. Since I'm a new project today I am going to go all out and get as much done as quickly as possible as accurately as possible. When I first got here and I was told I was lagging behind, I tried to work as quickly as possible and my boss was really impressed. I got the impression that when i try my best I was the fastest digitizer in the office. I wasn't able to do much with that last project(the one I led) since it was a data correction project and not a data creation project. However now that I'm working on something I'm familiar with again I am going to let loose and **** this work as hard as I can. I am going to officially take the title as the fastest digitizer in the office. My plan is to impresses everyone so much they'll forget about my under performance on that last project.

 

[Jon Farron]

Just don't do it TOO fast that you mess up on something. ;D

 

[Froggy]

Just don't do it TOO fast that you mess up on something. ;D

Well another issue my supervisor pointed out was that even though my attention to detail has improved, it should be better. So I'm going to do a global attribute check each time I'm done with a unit, even though it's been made clear to me that is the job of the person doing Quality Control and not digitizer.

Edit: The program's been really buggy today, crashed on me 4 times already. I'll just need to start saving every 15 minutes or so I guess

 

[Lythium]

I'm pretty sure the "sex" in transsexual" is referring to the definition of sex meaning "gender". Not sexuality

If you've filled out forms, sometimes they write sex in the place where others would have gender but it still has a M/F mark next to it

Sex and gender are not the same thing.

Maybe you should watch this video if you haven't already, it's pretty informative: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xXAoG8vAyzI