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He'd probably agree with you on that one, so that's a waste of a dub post.
Lol, I was just kidding. It would take me extra effort to be that shallow.
According to who? Every single person you'll ever meet and have met already? Well that's unlikely. And in general, it's better to understand that people aren't so lacking in detail that some aren't capable of finding a way to enjoy and relate to them on some level. The type of people that can't find enjoyment out of others are the true bores, that lack any signs of life or open-mindedness. Excluding obvious examples of people that one shouldn't be enjoying or relating to.
). We're humans, feelings are going to erupt sooner or later unless you have some sort of ailment that hinders you emotionally.
Not if I have something to say about it ************.I'm going to die alone
But it's just that a certain something's going to catch up with me.
How about according to the majority of people you've met and to yourself?
I did not say most people can do that, now did I? Hell, most people can't even be entertained when on their own because they need others, they bore themselves, I don't expect those same people to be good at appreciating qualities of people very well. To me the only issue really comes in with that, if you bore yourself I mean. You're stuck with yourself and your emotions, so the closest person to which we're obligated to entertain is ourselves, we're our own King and Jester. If you can't Jester yourself you'll rely on others and since they are beyond your control it'll be hard to satisfy yourself, and personally those who look towards others desperately for that attention aren't very pleasant. The people who look out at the world and proclaim loudly "I am bored!" and when the world does not reply, they, left alone to their thoughts, mutter almost accusingly, "This is awkward..."
). Going off on a tangent, I've kind of produced some hard to read walls of text that have little to do with the topic though, so I guess I'll shut up.
You don't have to be married in order to maintain a relationship.
You both are in a relationship, maybe she's not your official girlfriend now, but is very possible that she will be yours because she's clearly interested in you, like she's even willing to buy extra minutes to talk with you and help you buy a plane ticket (and I'm pretty sure this is not the only thing that she has said/done that shows her interest in you).
I think you hit the nail on the head right there. A lot of this is just me getting my feelings out but I would appreciate anyone's input on this.
If you're close with someone, you should be able to be honest with someone, even if that honesty hurts them. If you're afraid of some sort of backlash from her, you need to set up a foundation with her, ensuring that neither of you would flip out like that if something you said offended the other one, all with the intent of being honest with each other. The most important part of this is stressing how you don't want to lose what you have with her.
Unless it's text or video, it's the same damn thing.
Don't worry about your insecurities now, what you said that you're thinking is true, is likely that she's doing it for fun for the most part, after all, girls want fun and emotions with guys, and the guy that can make her feel the most exciting emotions wins the girl.
Always a sign you're in for an adventure lol.
Holy crap, I can give dating advice all the time, but I've rarely dated.
Not true. If you have observed many a relationship and dissected why it flourished/failed, you gain a lot of insight. Especially since you look at it without emotion distorting your vision.
You're wrong about this.
I take it you have proof of that?
Do you know where I can find a gamer girl that's attractive? I find this to be impossible.
This post makes this entire thread worthwhile.
You're wrong about this.
It really depends where you are, my advice would be, hold on. I have a best friend that is a gamer, a girl, and attractive(she is not my girlfriend btw) I live in Illinois. But my advice would be, is go to some gaming conventions, you will be bound to meet some attractive females there, go to smash tournaments, midnight releases, get out into the world and have fun. Eventually you will succeed.
This is a little bit late, but it depends on whether you will miss her. Ask yourself that question, if she left right now, are there better girls than you. I hope it works out for the best for you man. Sorry I haven't been keeping up with this thread, my notifications are all weird and hasn't been telling me that people are posting here. I am now here everyone
Haha well the great thing about this site, is we don't care about people who vent their feelings(except if ya about wave dashing, and melee vs. brawl). Feel right at home, but the question is, if she is indeed your ex, why would she go to a geeks website to find out what he's been up to, if she has "moved on"
I have a poem for you too.
