are you speaking for all homos by saying this? I didn't make any assumptions like this...
all I did was relate homosexuality to parallel my own sexual feelings, considering them a complete equal to myself concerning this matter, which is the entire issue here. i also cracked several jokes that apparently went over your head james, idk what to tell you. marriage has always been between a man and a woman(this phrase is not a point therefore not ARBITRARY), and the majority of our state thinks that this arrangement is of high importance in their lives, mainly for religious reasons(i am not religious, apparently I can relate with both sides in an unbiased way though).......
so, **** the majority of our state? America adopts **** when it's ready, cali usually being the first state to do so with just about everything typically. you and I are part of a generation where gay marriage is actually discussed, but that doesn't mean it's the right time to do it, nor does it mean that it's an appropriate measure.
if I was a homosexual, I'd carry on just like ANY PERSON does. i'd strive to set an example for my equivalence as your every day american, no matter how different I am. I'd do it with pride, too....but, I wouldn't think of myself as above the process or the majority of our citizens, no matter how right I think I am, or how wrong I think others are.