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uggh.... this is INCREDIBLY hypocritical of me... since I just did it..... but I'd really hate to see this thread turn into a "debate the validity of homosexuality vs. the bible" threadThe Bible also says eating shrimp will send you to hell. Pick and choose what parts were mistranslated for yourself.
*puts up streamers and pumps up "Magnetic Electric" by Kylie Minogue*So I finally came out to my father a few hours ago. He's logical, intelligent, talks kinda like Jackie Chan - he almost didn't care. :D
There, I've told everyone in this house over 12. Yays.
I still have yet to discuss this "therapy" crap with my mom and uncle though...
Congratulations! You know you have all of our support.So I finally came out to my father a few hours ago. He's logical, intelligent, talks kinda like Jackie Chan - he almost didn't care. :D
There, I've told everyone in this house over 12. Yays.
I still have yet to discuss this "therapy" crap with my mom and uncle though...
Congrats. Don't really have much else to say that everybody else said, so I'm useless in this situation!So I finally came out to my father a few hours ago. He's logical, intelligent, talks kinda like Jackie Chan - he almost didn't care. :D
There, I've told everyone in this house over 12. Yays.
I still have yet to discuss this "therapy" crap with my mom and uncle though...
That may have been the gayest song I've ever heard. Here: http://songza.com/z/5xisof*puts up streamers and pumps up "Magnetic Electric" by Kylie Minogue*
I stole Azua's avatar, mirrored it, and then it turned into a BRoom theme. They're everywhere.And Xsyven wins best avatar award.
You sneaky *******.I stole Azua's avatar, mirrored it, and then it turned into a BRoom theme. They're everywhere.
Whoa, that's HUGE. Maybe I missed something, but last I knew, you had only told one person. So this is some real progress. Congratulations.I just thought I'd post here that I'm now out to all of my main friends except for one person. He's pretty much hopeless, so I'm not even going to bother with him.
But yes, it's a huge step forward. I no longer have to be anybody but myself when I'm around them. The one friend who I haven't come out to is also pretty much oblivious to everything. One of my other friends was talking about the decision of going and seeing a movie, and it was clear he was talking about me and the other friends and he said "It was one guy versus three girls."
He didn't even give that a second thought, at all. I find that hilarious. Even though he's oblivious he's still a pain sometimes, though. I don't mean that I hate him as a person, he's actually pretty fun to hang out with, it's just he couldn't ever understand and I really just want to be with my friends who do. =/
Someone has a mancrushYou sneaky *******.
You still win the award, because I don't know who Azua is, so he's obviously not important.
awww... now I need to start doing it... well the catholic friends at school will sadly be where I have to start so we'll se how that goes.Thank you everybody! Though, this coming out stuff is starting to get creepily easy now...
I'm past the exciting part of it now, it's almost second nature.
That may have been the gayest song I've ever heard. Here: http://songza.com/z/5xisof
It's catchy though.
Thanks, but I'll have you know I only have a close circle of friends, so I've come out to three of them. XDWhoa, that's HUGE. Maybe I missed something, but last I knew, you had only told one person. So this is some real progress. Congratulations.
It's too bad about the one guy, but some things can't be helped. Good for you though.
they do tend to say that you'd be surprised about stuff like that.... they say oftentimes they already suspect.Thanks, but I'll have you know I only have a close circle of friends, so I've come out to three of them. XD
It is actually big, though. I expected neither of them to accept me, especially not the third one.
that's because I'm an idiot at trying to speakI'm sorry, but I don't really understand what you're saying...
That's totally harsh, man. Some parents just totally just go into denial and make up excuses as to why you are the way you are; that it's just a phase or that you only think you are, or satan planted a gay demon inside you (my mom believes in all of the above for my case, no joke). I just let them continue on with their denial. Of course i don't speak with them or tell them anything anymore, but i don't really have a choice but to listen to them as long as i live with them which hopefully doesn't last long. It might take a lot of time (years i'm thinking) until some parents finally accept it. For some it happens really fast, but for others it sometimes never happens. -sigh-SPC M. Angseth said:I'm mostly estranged from my family............The macaroni is for me.
Well, no one's trying to tell me that Satan planted a gay demon inside me, largely because I'm not a gay man, I'm a transwoman. Next off, my family is pretty much my mother, father, and siblings, so I only have to cut half of them from my life, and I've had a dislike for my father and his 'family 2.0' for some time.That's totally harsh, man. Some parents just totally just go into denial and make up excuses as to why you are the way you are; that it's just a phase or that you only think you are, or satan planted a gay demon inside you (my mom believes in all of the above for my case, no joke). I just let them continue on with their denial. Of course i don't speak with them or tell them anything anymore, but i don't really have a choice but to listen to them as long as i live with them which hopefully doesn't last long. It might take a lot of time (years i'm thinking) until some parents finally accept it. For some it happens really fast, but for others it sometimes never happens. -sigh- .
Thanks, and it's true there really isn't usually a way of knowing. I don't think most people would be too bothered if I was homosexual, but unfortunately I'm more than that. (in degree of how hard it's going to be for somebody to accept me.)Go you Bassoonist for coming out to some of your closest friends. It's totally tough 'cause you can never really be sure how anyone's going to react. Like when i came out to one of my best friends a year ago, totally ignored me after. But when i came out to someone who i thought was going to be "ah! you have AIDS now! begone!" they were totally cool with it instead which surprised me. You just can't really know 'till it's out there.
Where is everyone from? I'm smack dab in LA, California so homosexuality is kinda more accepted here than other places (we can get married here now!) so i've been out in highschool since 10th grade. My parents found out during my senior year in high school (i'm a freshman in college now, yay being legal!). They weren't as accepting as everyone else in my school 'cause they're incredibly religious Christians so i was living at friends' homes for a few months (i had to miss my prom 'cause of that -sigh-) but they finally took me back in but things aren't really the same as they once were. Oh they found out by going through my thing and they found a backpack i had hidden that was exclusively filled with gay neccessities like condoms, lube, kama sutra, etc. But yeah, i'm living at home now until i have enough money to move out.Shanky said:I would never have come out in high school, too much bigotry) and I don't live at home (and haven't for two years).
I'm from Tucson, Arizona...which is a fairly liberal city in an otherwise conservative state, but it's nothing like the Bible Belt or anything. What I meant was, high school is not really the most accepting environment lol. People aren't exactly mature at that age.Where is everyone from? I'm smack dab in LA, California so homosexuality is kinda more accepted here than other places (we can get married here now!) so i've been out in highschool since 10th grade. My parents found out during my senior year in high school (i'm a freshman in college now, yay being legal!). They weren't as accepting as everyone else in my school 'cause they're incredibly religious Christians so i was living at friends' homes for a few months (i had to miss my prom 'cause of that -sigh-) but they finally took me back in but things aren't really the same as they once were. Oh they found out by going through my thing and they found a backpack i had hidden that was exclusively filled with gay neccessities like condoms, lube, kama sutra, etc. But yeah, i'm living at home now until i have enough money to move out.
And congratz on being with a guy for a month now, Shanky! ^__^ I'm so awful, i can't hold down a relationship for that long. My love life just consists of random hook-ups and casual dating but i've been wanting somethin' a little more lately. But when i TRY to be serious with a guy, my hormones end up taking over and just...yeah, i dunno how much can be said on this thread. i don't think i'm even allowed to curse here o_O;;
I live in south eastern ohio... which is... the redneck part of ohio... and my mom and her whole family came from a town almost entirely populated by Catholic immigrants from Slovakia.... yeah... NOT so condusive to...... me. But I guess I grew up in a city... albeit a small one, so it isn;t AWFUL how they treat us..... just.... bad.St. George, UT. Small desert town full of Mormons that judge you as a sinner for drinking coffee. You can guess how they treat homos. =/
Ouch, that's harsh, man. Are you plannin' on movin' once you can? I just think that it's more liberating being in a place where being gay is more acceptable (San Fransisco!!!)St. George, UT. Small desert town full of Mormons that judge you as a sinner for drinking coffee. You can guess how they treat homos. =/
I just started at Pierce Community College right now and planning on transferring to a UC later to save money since i don't have a job YET. I'm getting traning right now to become a Phlebotomist (person who takes out your blood, muwahahahaha -sexy vampire-). Sucky that no brawl =[ But i'm down for a latte. I'm gettin' my license on 9/11 (dun dun dun) so i'll FINALLY be able to drive legally. Just hit me up on aim or here whenever you wanna do it ^__^lumberheartwood said:To Xenialshadow: O well...anyway, I live in Long Beach, California. That's nearby Los Angeles. Look me up dude! What school do you go to? If your looking for a brawl, I have to pass though. I'm swamped with homework and work and volunteering. But if you want to catch a latte, I'm game. My dad's friend bought the last independent theatre in this city and the cafe he owns is amazing [well my friend told me anyway].
I think we're allowed to say it but not here? I'm not sure about the rules here... but being gay gives us the amazing advantage of calling people *****, ***, *****, and etc without much consequence. Not to mention we're just amazing in general xDMost flamboyant for my taste, but what can I say, good people are extremely hard to find. And I'm not planning to lose these fellas and butch dykes. XD *Can I say that here... the girl I met said it's cool to say that so I don't know what to really think...*
God i write alot. i would totally prefer a meaningful relationship and i really do want to settle down. I just haven't really found the right guy. Then again, i don't really give guys that much of a chance either 'cause after i do the deed with them, i'm usually done with them and move on. -sigh- i'm awful, i know. i'm really trying to fix that about myself. But i also don't want to just abstain completely from guys 'cause, well, i'm a teenage boy and i have needs. i shall find a balance! I SHALL!Shanky said:And I hope you "settle down" soon haha. Sometimes my boyfriend worries that I didn't go through the whole promiscuous phase, when someone comes out he calls it their "15 minutes of fame" where they try everything and hook up a lot...but really that's not me. I'd much rather have a meaningful relationship.
LOL, CatholicismI'm from Panama which is in Central America... latinos tend to be very unaccepting towards homos, dunno why.