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It's hardly fair to harbour ill will towards the way somebody was born.
it's a lot easier to do when you believe homosexuality is decision, rather than genetic.

and it's a pretty common mindset.
For no apparent reason I feel relieved you guys all seem to be into dark skin. Btw, I'm pretty pale.
yeaaaah im pretty pale. Like the only times I'm actually outside are mad early hours of the morning (6-10, sometimes 6-11)

I don't like the heat very much.
Homosexuality is different from pedophilia and bestiality because of consent.
homosexuality is different from pedophilia and bestiality because homosexuality isn't ****ing weird.

seriously, there doesn't need to be a logical explanation to everything. ****ing your dog or friend's little sister is messed up ****.
 

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homosexuality is different from pedophilia and bestiality because homosexuality isn't ****ing weird.

seriously, there doesn't need to be a logical explanation to everything. ****ing your dog or friend's little sister is messed up ****.
ily, Timbers. Hahahahaha.
 

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yeaaaah im pretty pale. Like the only times I'm actually outside are mad early hours of the morning (6-10, sometimes 6-11)

I don't like the heat very much.
I actually love being outside even in high heat, I just burn easily, which sux.


homosexuality is different from pedophilia and bestiality because homosexuality isn't ****ing weird.

seriously, there doesn't need to be a logical explanation to everything. ****ing your dog or friend's little sister is messed up ****.
Could easily make the same argument about homosexuality or anything.

Yeah, you don't need to logically explain everything, but having a logical reason protects from negative gut reactions which are stupid, like against homosexuals.
 

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tri-state area summers are probably like vegas winters durp :v
Not really, I live on LI, so while our summers aren't as hot the humidity is a LOT worse.




but

you wouldn't be screwing your dog

or some elementary kid


it's pretty much different
Oh, it's really different, but so is screwing your dog from screwing some elementary school kid.

Different doesn't mean better, which is why we need logical reasoning to back up our predjuces, otherwise we chose random groups to hate on, like furries. It's not that it's bad to hate on pedophiles, or that it's good to hate on homosexuals. It's without logical reasoning to back it up you can hate on anything.


I hate people who own canaries, and think they should all go to jail.

I hate people who own have sex with kids, and think they should all go to jail.


See the thought process? Without something to back it up, they're just as logically valid.
 

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owning a bird aint wrong


screwing your golden retriever is



mythbusters up in here

I shudder to think of what would become of the world if that were the case.
in the clone sense yeah that'd be pretty weird :v

I would like the gay community to just not..care so much about everything though. I mean I thought I picked dudes to get away from the drama, not have more of it.
 

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It's better to have the logic behind it. I don't know why you're arguing it. :p

I mean, I saw a billboard a year or two back with a pug in a wedding gown saying "You wouldn't marry a dog..."

And honestly, back then, it shook me that I couldn't come up with a proper response beyond "well, marrying another dude is different..."
 

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So I came out to another friend today, and she was okay with it and that she already knew :)
I love that feeling when they don't have a problem with it, it makes me happy :colorful:
Awesome well done!

It's the boys that are the real challenge though. >_>
 

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I love girls, so much better than guys (friendship wise imo).
I've never really trusted girls.
My boys would do anything for me... well unless I was gay/bi methinks. o_o
 

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It's better to have the logic behind it. I don't know why you're arguing it. :p

I mean, I saw a billboard a year or two back with a pug in a wedding gown saying "You wouldn't marry a dog..."

And honestly, back then, it shook me that I couldn't come up with a proper response beyond "well, marrying another dude is different..."
na

It's the boys that are the real challenge though. >_>
ya
I love girls, so much better than guys (friendship wise imo).
na
Girls are too moody for me >___>
ya
:rolleyes: I will. Or, at least, I will behave enough.
na
Does anybody else who likes guys ever think "How can girls NOT like guys?!"
I do whenever I think about Lesbians..
I wonder if they think the same about gay guys not liking girls..
not really. Girls have hella fine bodies, even I can acknowledge that.

A girl's body is a lot nicer than a guy's imo, I've just never really cared for the effeminate attitude.



which guys now seem to be picking up oh my god make it stop
 

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A little bit of an effeminte nature is not at all unnatractive to me.... but I definitely want my man to be 100% man where it counts, so the effeminite qualities shouldn't be common.
Does anybody else who likes guys ever think "How can girls NOT like guys?!"
I do whenever I think about Lesbians..
I wonder if they think the same about gay guys not liking girls..
sraight guys DEFINITELY think that. Several have asked me how I can NOT want a woman and I respond "How can YOU not want a MAN". That normally gets the point across.

I'll admit. I can find women's bodies pretty or even beautiful... but never sexy to me.
 

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Does anybody else who likes guys ever think "How can girls NOT like guys?!"
I do whenever I think about Lesbians..
I wonder if they think the same about gay guys not liking girls..
not really.

A little bit of an effeminte nature is not at all unnatractive to me.... but I definitely want my man to be 100% man where it counts, so the effeminite qualities shouldn't be common.
so i guess your the one who's gonna do the cooking, and decorate the house:chuckle:

idc really since im willing to switch fem/mas lvls to even it out.

straight guys DEFINITELY think that. Several have asked me how I can NOT want a woman and I respond "How can YOU not want a MAN". That normally gets the point across.
lol, i've never said that, but someone did ask me that when i told them.


Hey Sonic your avatar is kinda true. But wouldn't that mean that everyone is bisexual?
yesh:lick:
 

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So, what personality traits do you guys like in other guys?

Hey Sonic your avatar is kinda true. But wouldn't that mean that everyone is bisexual?
I think everyone has a bit of bisexuality, or at least some bicuriousness. People sometimes wonder what it's like to have different tastes, personalities, and there's a good chance they wonder what it would be like to have a different sexuality.
 

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I think everyone has a bit of bisexuality, or at least some bicuriousness. People sometimes wonder what it's like to have different tastes, personalities, and there's a good chance they wonder what it would be like to have a different sexuality.
It's a spectrum really, and no one is permanently burned into it. I know a "lesbian" who has been seriously dating a guy, and I myself have had the odd "straight moments" with women. xD
 

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So, what personality traits do you guys like in other guys?
it's hard for me to really pinpoint what sort of personality trait I like in a guy. I really like someone who's confident in themselves and keeps an upbeat tempo no matter what. Guys who get all depressed about everything are pretty annoying and I tend to shy away from them before they start pouring their eyes out to me about dumb stuff.

But yeah, I can't really think of anything. Confidence/being comfortable with themselves is a big factor, but it's really the only factor. Just someone you can talk to and not feel like you're walking on eggshells around them, otherwise it makes me kind of uneasy because then I'm like always second-guessing what I say so as to not offend or upset them.
It's a spectrum really, and no one is permanently burned into it. I know a "lesbian" who has been seriously dating a guy, and I myself have had the odd "straight moments" with women. xD
I'm not sure what I think of the whole bisexuality thing. I've seen some straight friends get flirty with the same sex but it's usually jokingly or there's booze around. It's not something I really care about, it's basically just a "how gay is too gay" scenario.
 

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Idk, for me, I still think girls are hot, and that guys are hot. Girls are cute, guys are cute. People-are-attractive. But I do like the effeminate aspect of both guys and girls, than I do the "manly" side, for a guy that is..or sometimes a tough chick. But I guess what It just boils down too, for guys that is, is that I like the "girly-ness" and the part that makes them like playing games and doing guys stuff. And for chicks, I guess it's the same thing. Cute + boyish = wins for me
 

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homosexuality is different from pedophilia and bestiality because homosexuality isn't ****ing weird.

seriously, there doesn't need to be a logical explanation to everything. ****ing your dog or friend's little sister is messed up ****.

Homosexuality is pretty ****ing weird. I'm gay, and even I can tell "hey, that doesn't fit there."

I can definitely see how someone could be attracted to animals or children, and I feel bad for these people. If there was some way to legalize limited child pornography without harming any children, I'd be all for it. (IDK, only post naked pictures of children who have since died?) I've already explained my views on bestiality. To me, no sexual preference is as wrong or misguided as any other. It just sucks for some people that they can't have pleasurable sex without hurting others.
 

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I'd also like to address that post, as well.

homosexuality is different from pedophilia and bestiality because homosexuality isn't ****ing weird.

seriously, there doesn't need to be a logical explanation to everything. ****ing your dog or friend's little sister is messed up ****.
To be honest, I think your reasoning is extremely poor, and should be severely rethought. "Weird" isn't bad in and of itself, for one thing. So, you can't say "This is weird, therefore it's wrong," or "This isn't weird, therefore it's right." It just won't fly.

If you're going to make a sound, well-reasoned argument distinguishing homosexuality from bestiality and pedophilia, consider this instead:

In adult homosexual relationships, both participants are considered to be at a point of maturity and intelligence in which they are capable of rationally consenting to participation. If an adult has sex with a child, the child is considered too young to be capable of the maturity and consideration that goes into the implied social contract of sexual intercourse. Same with animals. They are incapable of rational consent.

THAT is the key distinction. Consent.
 

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I'd also like to address that post, as well.



To be honest, I think your reasoning is extremely poor, and should be severely rethought. "Weird" isn't bad in and of itself, for one thing. So, you can't say "This is weird, therefore it's wrong," or "This isn't weird, therefore it's right." It just won't fly.

If you're going to make a sound, well-reasoned argument distinguishing homosexuality from bestiality and pedophilia, consider this instead:

In adult homosexual relationships, both participants are considered to be at a point of maturity and intelligence in which they are capable of rationally consenting to participation. If an adult has sex with a child, the child is considered too young to be capable of the maturity and consideration that goes into the implied social contract of sexual intercourse. Same with animals. They are incapable of rational consent.

THAT is the key distinction. Consent.
I would argue my point further but it would make you guys think I'm a paedo.

I was clarifying your point for him.
Your point.

Let me clarify it for him.

 

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I would argue my point further but it would make you guys think I'm a paedo.
a 17 year old and a 19 year old isn't considered pedophelia anyway.

We're talking about a fully grown adult and a child too young to consent.
 

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Well, nature isn't an appropriate construct, because our social norms require people to understand and make decisions pertaining to laws besides the laws of nature. However, even taking these constraints into account (sorry for all the big words, I don't know how to talk right,) I think 99% of the population can offer free and informed consent by the age of 14.

Optimally, all charges would be evaluated on a case by case basis, because age is a very poor gauge for maturity.
 

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Nature's age of consent is puberty.
Nature also dictates that leader of our society should be the strongest warrior among us all, and that any of our silly human institutions shouldn't exist.

Puberty merely means a human body is capable of sex. It makes no concessions as to if a person is emotionally capable of the reprecussions of such a decision. It's well and good to compare us to animals if an animalistic society you desire. But, unfortunately for your argument, our society is NOT anamalistic. Whether or not you agree with it, we have standards and we protect the rights of the individual. You may not think that sex is anything more than a diversion, but to some people it means much much more. Many of these people either don't know how much it means to them until they are older and many who hold it in high regard are easily mislead by pedophiles who would promise them more. It is for the naive, the ignorant and the just plain stupid that these laws exist. Also, it is to make the **** of a minor so much more costly to an individual found guilty of such a crime.

A child simply cannot consent to sex. He/she is not mature enough to make that decision at all. Now, some people get lucky and the decision they make as a child is the same decision they would have made as an adult capable of consenting. But, the fact remains, unless you have the mental, physical and emotional maturity to make the decision, you are not capable of giving what constitutes "consent".

Unfortunately, we cannot measure these levels of maturity objectively, even on a case by case basis. And, if we could try, it would still be an enormously innefecient endeavour. Age might not be a proper indicator of maturity, but it's very easy to measure and has a decent correlation. As such, it's the best measurement we have. One could argue that there are plenty who ARE of legal age who are immature, but there are enough who ARE mature enough to make the decision that it would be immoral to hold them back for the faults of their fellow man.


All that being a mere tangent to the original point: sex REQUIRES informed consent from both (or all... if you're kinky) involved parties in order to make it ethical. Nothing about homosexuality violates this precept. However, beastiality involves sex with a creature that, no matter how intelligent it may be for its species, is completely incapable of giving informed consent because of the massive gap in intelligence between man and other creatures. Pedophilia involves sex between a fully mature (or at least arguably so) adult and a jejune child. Some of the children are more mature than others but, generally, they are not mature enough, or even close to mature enough, to make such decisions. They have an overdeveloped trust in adults, for the most part, at these ages and a lack of understanding of the reprecussions of their actions. Sure they may be able to consent, but that consent can't be "informed" because they are not yet capable of fully apreciating the gravity of their decisions.

I think you'll find yourself rather alone in your stance on this issue Terran: you simply have no reasonable ground upon which to stand.




Now since that was a rather large deviation from what would be considered germane in this thread, I'll try to link this back to the point of this thread:


Is homosexuality abnormal?
That depends on your definition of abnormal:
  • yes, homosexuality is NOT the norm, therefore, it could be considered abnormal.
however,
  • No, homosexuality might not be near as common as heterosexuality, but it is merely an inborn alternative to the standard much like blonde hair, while overwhelmingly less common than the norm, isn't considered an abnormality so much as a rare alternative.

But, is homosexuality wrong?
  • No. From a purely ethical standpoint, absolutely no school of ethics can find fault with the existance of homosexuality. Homosexuality does not impinge upon the greater good, thereby validating it by Utilitarian ethics and does not impinge upon the freedoms of an individual, thereby validating it by Kantian ethics. The other schools of ethics similarly condone homosexuality, while almost all find fault with pedophilia, beastiality and the opression of homosexuals. The only schools of ethics that could possibly find fault are those rooted deeply in religious basis (such as divine comand theory). And even THESE schools of ethics do not find homosexuality unethical. There are no shortage of interperetations of religious texts that find absolutely no grounds for sating the wrongness of homosexuality based on the texts (pretty much every theological scholar I have encounted shares such a belief). However, all serious interperetations of the text would find fault in the snuffing out of such practices. Therefore, even the intereperetations that would claim that it is wrong for homosexuality to exist would claim that it is MORE wrong to attempt to snuff it out.


I really wouldn't recommend entering a debate against anyone who's going to tell you that it's wrong because, chances are, they are biggoted and won't give an inch even if you provide enough ammunition to move a mountain of doubt to any reasonable thinker. However, if you are bound and determined to bring the belifes of others into question, then make sure you have a good understanding of the principles that you will be debating. Read into different ethical schools and, more than likely, you'll need to research the Bible to take out the beliefs of some others. Just make sure you don't go into such a battle unarmed if you're going to go at all. If not, however, I suppose you can just check out the points I have listed above and feel better than no serious ethial philosopher could ever find fault with us.
 

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Well, sex only requires consent if we grant that an entity has the moral right to not be *****. A person should be allowed to "play brawl" with a really plushy pillow or a ficus, for example. (
 

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Nature also dictates that leader of our society should be the strongest warrior among us all, and that any of our silly human institutions shouldn't exist.

Puberty merely means a human body is capable of sex. It makes no concessions as to if a person is emotionally capable of the reprecussions of such a decision. It's well and good to compare us to animals if an animalistic society you desire. But, unfortunately for your argument, our society is NOT anamalistic. Whether or not you agree with it, we have standards and we protect the rights of the individual. You may not think that sex is anything more than a diversion, but to some people it means much much more. Many of these people either don't know how much it means to them until they are older and many who hold it in high regard are easily mislead by pedophiles who would promise them more. It is for the naive, the ignorant and the just plain stupid that these laws exist. Also, it is to make the **** of a minor so much more costly to an individual found guilty of such a crime.

A child simply cannot consent to sex. He/she is not mature enough to make that decision at all. Now, some people get lucky and the decision they make as a child is the same decision they would have made as an adult capable of consenting. But, the fact remains, unless you have the mental, physical and emotional maturity to make the decision, you are not capable of giving what constitutes "consent".

Unfortunately, we cannot measure these levels of maturity objectively, even on a case by case basis. And, if we could try, it would still be an enormously innefecient endeavour. Age might not be a proper indicator of maturity, but it's very easy to measure and has a decent correlation. As such, it's the best measurement we have. One could argue that there are plenty who ARE of legal age who are immature, but there are enough who ARE mature enough to make the decision that it would be immoral to hold them back for the faults of their fellow man.


All that being a mere tangent to the original point: sex REQUIRES informed consent from both (or all... if you're kinky) involved parties in order to make it ethical. Nothing about homosexuality violates this precept. However, beastiality involves sex with a creature that, no matter how intelligent it may be for its species, is completely incapable of giving informed consent because of the massive gap in intelligence between man and other creatures. Pedophilia involves sex between a fully mature (or at least arguably so) adult and a jejune child. Some of the children are more mature than others but, generally, they are not mature enough, or even close to mature enough, to make such decisions. They have an overdeveloped trust in adults, for the most part, at these ages and a lack of understanding of the reprecussions of their actions. Sure they may be able to consent, but that consent can't be "informed" because they are not yet capable of fully apreciating the gravity of their decisions.

I think you'll find yourself rather alone in your stance on this issue Terran: you simply have no reasonable ground upon which to stand.




Now since that was a rather large deviation from what would be considered germane in this thread, I'll try to link this back to the point of this thread:


Is homosexuality abnormal?
That depends on your definition of abnormal:
  • yes, homosexuality is NOT the norm, therefore, it could be considered abnormal.
however,
  • No, homosexuality might not be near as common as heterosexuality, but it is merely an inborn alternative to the standard much like blonde hair, while overwhelmingly less common than the norm, isn't considered an abnormality so much as a rare alternative.

But, is homosexuality wrong?
  • No. From a purely ethical standpoint, absolutely no school of ethics can find fault with the existance of homosexuality. Homosexuality does not impinge upon the greater good, thereby validating it by Utilitarian ethics and does not impinge upon the freedoms of an individual, thereby validating it by Kantian ethics. The other schools of ethics similarly condone homosexuality, while almost all find fault with pedophilia, beastiality and the opression of homosexuals. The only schools of ethics that could possibly find fault are those rooted deeply in religious basis (such as divine comand theory). And even THESE schools of ethics do not find homosexuality unethical. There are no shortage of interperetations of religious texts that find absolutely no grounds for sating the wrongness of homosexuality based on the texts (pretty much every theological scholar I have encounted shares such a belief). However, all serious interperetations of the text would find fault in the snuffing out of such practices. Therefore, even the intereperetations that would claim that it is wrong for homosexuality to exist would claim that it is MORE wrong to attempt to snuff it out.


I really wouldn't recommend entering a debate against anyone who's going to tell you that it's wrong because, chances are, they are biggoted and won't give an inch even if you provide enough ammunition to move a mountain of doubt to any reasonable thinker. However, if you are bound and determined to bring the belifes of others into question, then make sure you have a good understanding of the principles that you will be debating. Read into different ethical schools and, more than likely, you'll need to research the Bible to take out the beliefs of some others. Just make sure you don't go into such a battle unarmed if you're going to go at all. If not, however, I suppose you can just check out the points I have listed above and feel better than no serious ethial philosopher could ever find fault with us.
You know I never thought I'd say this but...

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Homosexuality is pretty ****ing weird. I'm gay, and even I can tell "hey, that doesn't fit there."

I can definitely see how someone could be attracted to animals or children, and I feel bad for these people. If there was some way to legalize limited child pornography without harming any children, I'd be all for it. (IDK, only post naked pictures of children who have since died?) I've already explained my views on bestiality. To me, no sexual preference is as wrong or misguided as any other. It just sucks for some people that they can't have pleasurable sex without hurting others.
I'd also like to address that post, as well.



To be honest, I think your reasoning is extremely poor, and should be severely rethought. "Weird" isn't bad in and of itself, for one thing. So, you can't say "This is weird, therefore it's wrong," or "This isn't weird, therefore it's right." It just won't fly.

If you're going to make a sound, well-reasoned argument distinguishing homosexuality from bestiality and pedophilia, consider this instead:

In adult homosexual relationships, both participants are considered to be at a point of maturity and intelligence in which they are capable of rationally consenting to participation. If an adult has sex with a child, the child is considered too young to be capable of the maturity and consideration that goes into the implied social contract of sexual intercourse. Same with animals. They are incapable of rational consent.

THAT is the key distinction. Consent.
no matter how many words you type you will never justify getting it on with a poodle or a toddler.
 
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