@Kiseki: Well, asking people what you should do isn't always the best idea... but I think you should just go ahead and stay with this guy you're getting close with. It's not like your ex has any power over what you do. And if he gets jealous, that's his fault. You shouldn't feel like your hindered from being with someone just because your ex is nearby. It happens to lots of people, and in reality when people break up, they don't move or anything or change the way they live or what-have-you just because their ex is with someone else and in the area. Like you said yourself, you have moved on, and he should/will soon too.
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Has anyone ever gotten hit on by some creepy old guy? I remember numerous times where I was at parties with mostly gay or bi people there (btw, I notice more and more that us gay people stick together a lot, lol). There is almost always a guy significantly older than I am who is also gay and would hit on me constantly. He would be like 40 and I'm only 20, not even kidding, lol. It's never the same guy either.
I'm not rude and I don't tell people off when I should. But this one time one of these creepy guys I'm talking about just bluntly asked me upon meeting me just 2 minutes before, "You're pretty hot. Want to go upstairs with me?" He wasn't drunk either. I found out from my friend (the host of the party) that the guy actually asks almost everyone who is decently attractive and half his age to sleep with him. I found this more amusing and flattering than disturbing. When that guy asked me though I just laughed and said no. He didn't press on after that, even though I only talked to him for another couple minutes before he went somewhere else.
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Actually, I have to admit I am attracted to older guys, but all the ones I've been in relationships with have not been creepy and asked me for sex within 5 minutes of meeting me. XD My recent ex is 9 years older than me, making him 29. Another ex of mine from a few years ago is 6 years older than me, making him 26 right now. My current love interest is 27, but I've known him for 7 years so that's a bit different than the others, but still. I don't know why, but I feel much more comfortable dating someone around that age. I guess it's got a lot to do with their experience on life on me coupled with their maturity and stability as a person. Does anyone else feel the same way, or am I just crazy?

I know lots of people date others around their own age group.