Heero Yuy
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Why I vastly prefer Melee's and Brawl's offline community (though I haven't actually been a part of the latter) is because the people you tend to meet in real life seem way more chill than online counterparts, whom tend to be pricks maybe 4/7 times. The reason being could be several, such as certain online players with horrible social skills refuse to play offline because they fail at life therefore treat everyone they talk to online like crap. Something along those lines, LOL.I'm not going to say there aren't douchebags in any video game community, but in the end we are exaggerating how many there are. I've been walking around with the "competitive video gamers are generally douchebags" mentality for a while but I'm now in charge of a for-everyone smash club at my campus. We're getting pros and newbies together and they're having fun with almost no bad blood anywhere. We got a comment about pros liking Final-Destination-Fox-only once, and we got a bad comment about a newer player once. Having gotten back in with the competitive scene I've found most of them to be really chill guys. Smack talk happen? Sure; when you're friends are also your competitors some comments fly around and you get over it and realize its mostly just forum-intimidation. It's not all that serious, even when the people who say it think that they believe it (after a little playing they get over it).
My Smash club tends to get into disagreements with each other, but in the end we're all chill bros and we don't hold any hard feelings against one-another after a 4-stock or a matchup debate. I can agree with you there.
Sure we have people like Bloodcross in the offline world but it's mainly those online people who can't interact with a person to save their lives. I don't know Bomber's side of the story, but I guarantee you I'm not leaving the Smash community because of a few jerks.