How Did You Meet Your Boyfriends/Girlfriends?

[.Marik]

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What the title says. It could be your current partners, or partners from the past.

Let me start. We've been dating for a week now, and she's the most beautiful, happy thing I've ever seen. I <3 her so much, words can barely describe it. I'm not as stressed out anymore, and she just takes all those tensions away.

Anyways, it was the second week of school, and I walked by her, and she asked me for directions to the English department. Since this was a "Character Counts" day, the school was hosting a B.B.Q., and classes were cancelled. So, she asked me directions, and I showed her where the offices and classrooms were, since she was new to the school.

She thanked me, and the conversation stopped there. A couple of days later, on September 25th, she said "hi" to me a couple of times, to which I politely responded back "hey" too.

At lunch, I was on my way to the library to check up NintenKingdom64, my Hotmail, and SmashBoards, and she stopped me in the hall and asked if I would like to hang out with her. I got a deep feeling, like this was something I was supposed to say "yes" too. My instinct told me to be with this girl, and then it sort of clicked how attractive I found her body, and her personality.

So, we hung out on some hill behind the school, and started talking about stuff. She was this sweet, really fun person. After school, I had time to kill, and she did also. We walked to some park, talked and laughed for a while, and then for some reason, we leaned against each other on a rock we were sitting on and embraced the sunlight which shone upon us, and we kissed. Not that pucker ****. Real, deep, French kissing. I was so startled, I actually forgot how to kiss for like, 10 seconds. Then it just clicked, and we made out for a long time, lol. I walked her home, and we started dating.

She's the best thing ever, my perspective on a lot of things have changed since I've met her. I'm really lucky and grateful to have a girlfriend as special as her. <3

So, share your experiences, don't be shy.

 

[Zook]

I met my girlfriend two years ago in PE1. We started going out a bit over 5 weeks ago. First relationship for both of us.

I feel obligated to tell a long, juicy story, but mine isn't anything interesting. I heard she liked me last February, so I avoided her at all costs for a few months. (Hey, I'm a *****.) I started talking to her on Facebook, I started liking her too. We went through this weird period of trying to ask the other out, but we were both terrified even though we knew the other would say yes.

We finally started going out over AIM (lol). I don't think I've ever seen a more cautious couple than us. We kissed for the first time on our month anniversary (That 'pucker ****,' as MarikYoshi put it).

Our dates consist of playing board games, taking walks, and community service. Our conversations are about food, family, and pets.

But I adore her.

 

[OFY]

You met her a week ago and you say you love her?

Oh no...............

 

[Delta-cod]

D'aw, Marik. You're no longer Baby Yoshi anymore. =D

I first met my girlfriend when . . .

Wait, I don't have one. And never have. D'oh.

Not to be a mood killer, but I'm kind of with Ophy on this one. Don't jump right into saying you love her just yet, it's only been a week. >_<

 

[Teran]

It's ok guys, it's a rite of passage and such.

As long as he's happy, that's all that matters really.
I'd rather not tell my story though.

 

[.Marik]

You met her a week ago and you say you love her?

Oh no...............

Trust me, I know the consequences of making assumptions, but this girl is different, I can feel it deep within me.

Hard to understand I know. We talked about giving each other chances, and she said she loves me back, so it's not a fantasy of sorts. This is real.

D'aw, Marik. You're no longer Baby Yoshi anymore. =D

I first met my girlfriend when . . .

Wait, I don't have one. And never have. D'oh.

Not to be a mood killer, but I'm kind of with Ophy on this one. Don't jump right into saying you love her just yet, it's only been a week. >_<

Haha <3 Delta.

You'll get one, give it time. Humans naturally have "the one" mate out there which they find emotional and sexually happiness with. Fate, or the simple needs of reproduction, take your pick.

It's ok guys, it's a rite of passage and such.

As long as he's happy, that's all that matters really.
I'd rather not tell my story though.

Teran is a smart man.

Eh, we'd love to hear it eventually. It can't hurt, can it?

I doubt anyone here will enflame you because of said story.

 

[OFY]

Mind if I ask, how old are you Marik?

 

[Moblin]

I'm kind of curious about Teran's as well.


I just started going out with my first girlfriend, she's really nice. She plays in a band and is a year older, but somehow she likes me. The thing is, she's incredibly shy. She won't go for the hug unless I initiate it, but then she's fine after that.

And she wanted to ask me out back when I had no idea she liked me. But instead she asked her friend to ask me to go on a double date with her. So now I'm about to go to my first date with her, which is a DOUBLE DATE, in about 15 minutes. Oh and we're going rollerblading. ffffffffffffffffffffffff lol



Girlfriends are crazy

 

[.Marik]

Mind if I ask, how old are you Marik?

This is probably going to make me look bad, but I'm 17 in 11 days. She's 15.

now I'm about to go to my first date with her, which is a DOUBLE DATE, in about 15 minutes. Oh and we're going rollerblading. ffffffffffffffffffffffff lol

Girlfriends are crazy

Haha, good luck.

 

[mountain_tiger]

I've never had one.

For the record, I turned 16 a couple of months ago.

 

[Lythium]

I met my current boyfriend in high school, though we didn't really know each other, and didn't start dating until a few years later.

He used to work at a cafe that I frequented because I worked nearby. One day I went up and ordered a tall cinnamon dolce latte, and he gave it to me and then asked me out.

I'ts been two years since!

 

[OFY]

I'm going to post my story on how I met my ex-girlfriend, maybe you guys can learn something from it

Around last year, well actually June 26 2008, I graduated High School. It was the most amazing feeling being free and I was going to start college in August. That whole summer I was pretty set on looking for a job, I already had a car that I got as a graduation present, but I wanted money for myself for the summer. I worked for about 3 weeks got me about 200-300 plus the money I got from graduation gifts, I was pretty pumped for the summer. I hung out with all my friends before they were off to college. This was around the time I quit smash as well. Now around August 2nd me and my friend Ralph used to go on stickam.com and try to meet people from our area, well he did actually since he wanted to hook up with girls from there, I was just in there with him to tag along pretty much. Weird thing is we actually found this 16 year old girl from around area named Kelly, we never seen her before in our school so she was obviously from another school district. The next day me, my friend ralph, and this other kid bistor went with her to go see a movie, she also brought a friend with her, her name lets say was Jenn. From the get go I was usually the funny kid, I had never really really chased girls before since I was just always the funny kid, cool *** mother****er naww im saying? Anyways we are watching the movie and Kelly is set on hooking up with Ralph while Bistor is set on hooking up with Jenn. The thing is with Ralph and Bistor that they are the most boring individuals in the world, and I'm usually the life of the group, the one that actually talks -_- That night we sneak out to go to their houses and talk more to them, I'm set to go along with them again. The more I talk to them, since the other talk, the more these girls seemed to "like" me, while Kelly was set on Ralph, I'm pretty sure there was a moment where she really liked me, but her "type" wasn't me, little girl and types LOLS. Anyways Jenn also sees how much fun I really am. After the next couple of weeks of going back and forth to their house, we ditch Bistor, and now spend time with these two girls, I only saw Jenn, the one that liked me, as a friend. One day me and Ralph were sitting in my 1995 Red car lets call it lols. While Jenn was leaning on the my window obviously flirting with me, I think she did this because I never showed I liked her and she just made a move on me. I just went along with it. That night I was making out with her and stuff, one of the best nights ever. I got blue that night too, **** was no cash. The next day we start going out and do some cute little kissing games, I fell pretty hard for this girl, I told her I loved her she did as well. Actually, before we started dating I asked her if it would be a "summer romance" she promised it wasn't and she knew it was deep. About 2 weeks later, I get into a car accident with Jenn, my then girlfriend. My car was totaled and worst thing was this happened a week before college classes started. No serious injuries thank god, except Jenn got a little whiplash. The next one week and half I visited her, mind you I really made Jenn feel like a girl, I made her sooo happy as Kelly told me. The next one week and half she broke up with me, made up some bull**** story and just ended it. I was heartbroken......


5 months later or so, she messages me and says she misses me, I told her to go **** herself and then I get sued for the accident I previously had with her.

Ever since then I've been careful with how I drive, my view of girls as of right now, I just hope people don't fall hard.

It hurts really bad

 

[.Marik]

I'm sorry to hear that.

That really sucks, guess you don't have feelings for her anymore?

But yeah, case in point. I thoroughly understand where you are coming from.

 

[OFY]

I'm sorry to hear that.

That really sucks, guess you don't have feelings for her anymore?

But yeah, case in point. I thoroughly understand where you are coming from.

I miss the feeling I was in, not her entirely.

 

[Teran]

Eh, we'd love to hear it eventually. It can't hurt, can it?

I doubt anyone here will enflame you because of said story.

I'm pretty uneasy when it comes to talking about my personal life like that.

Plus, it doesn't come with the best for memories attached. XD

 

[b1anK]

I just started a new relationship and i hung out with a close friend last night who was a woman. For the sake of keeping names anonymous; my GF's name will be Eva and my friends name will be Jessica.

So last night me and Eva got in a little arguement but it was nothin big w/e. But Jessica(my good friend of 2 years) called me because of a personal issue and needed me for comforting.

sidenote: jessica and eva do not like each other at all

Eva told me whenever i hang out with Jessica that I shouldn't tell her because she knows Jessica is my friend but she just doesn't like her. So I go to Jessica's house. We eat dinner, play some Melee, and watch Observe and Report.

During the Movie Jessica holds my hand which to me, you know is kinda normal and friendly. No big deal. After a while she looks me in the eyes, jumps on top of me and starts kissing me. Not little pecks, like actual making out. I stop her. We don't talk about what had happened and nothing happens any further.

I actually kind of really liked Jessica kissing me but I have a stable relationship right now.

What do I do?

 

[OFY]

I just started a new relationship and i hung out with a close friend last night who was a woman. For the sake of keeping names anonymous; my GF's name will be Eva and my friends name will be Jessica.

So last night me and Eva got in a little arguement but it was nothin big w/e. But Jessica(my good friend of 2 years) called me because of a personal issue and needed me for comforting.

sidenote: jessica and eva do not like each other at all

Eva told me whenever i hang out with Jessica that I shouldn't tell her because she knows Jessica is my friend but she just doesn't like her. So I go to Jessica's house. We eat dinner, play some Melee, and watch Observe and Report.

During the Movie Jessica holds my hand which to me, you know is kinda normal and friendly. No big deal. After a while she looks me in the eyes, jumps on top of me and starts kissing me. Not little pecks, like actual making out. I stop her. We don't talk about what had happened and nothing happens any further.

I actually kind of really liked Jessica kissing me but I have a stable relationship right now.

What do I do?

Your still young, if you have feelings for both just do what I always do, rock, paper, scissor that ****

 

[.Marik]

If you're already in a relationship, you really, really, shouldn't cheat.

It wouldn't be fair to your current partner Eva.

 

[b1anK]

If you're already in a relationship, you really, really, shouldn't cheat.

It wouldn't be fair to your current partner Eva.

true

10trues

 

[Delta-cod]

I disagree. You shouldn't remain in a relationship if you have stronger feeling for another. It's not right to lead a girl on nor should you keep yourself unhappy with where you are relationship-wise.

Of course, neither way is truly right. It's a matter of opinion and morals, so all you can do is listen to yourself. We shouldn't be responsible for what you do concerning your girlfriend. =P

 

[CRASHiC]

He didn't say stay in the relationship. Just don't cheat.

 

[Scott!]

Once upon a time, way back in the foggy past that is high school, sophomore year, I started hanging out with a new group of friends. One of them was a certain girl who happened to live right up the street from me. So after school, we'd walk home together. For about half of the year, she was in a relationship with another of our friends, but it ended in the winter. I ended up being the one she talked to about it a lot. As spring came, we began to like each other. We both wanted to go out and such, both knew the other was interested, and yet were both too hesitant to make a first move. Eventually, we were just hanging out and things progressed, and we were finally able to admit our feelings and stuff.

We dated for ~20 months, till about March senior year. Then I broke up with her. I didn't feel the same way for her. I also didn't want to start college in a distance relationship, since we were going to different schools. We were friendly in an awkward way for a while, since we still were hanging out in the same group and all. Now, 3+ years later, she's one of my best friends from home. I'm living proof that if two people are compatible, but not meant for each other, they can make the "just friends" angle work.

Also, don't cheat. While you may not know which girl you want to be with, it's completely unfair to the one you're actually dating if you cheat.

 

[RyuReiatsu]

I just started a new relationship and i hung out with a close friend last night who was a woman. For the sake of keeping names anonymous; my GF's name will be Eva and my friends name will be Jessica.

So last night me and Eva got in a little arguement but it was nothin big w/e. But Jessica(my good friend of 2 years) called me because of a personal issue and needed me for comforting.

sidenote: jessica and eva do not like each other at all

Eva told me whenever i hang out with Jessica that I shouldn't tell her because she knows Jessica is my friend but she just doesn't like her. So I go to Jessica's house. We eat dinner, play some Melee, and watch Observe and Report.

During the Movie Jessica holds my hand which to me, you know is kinda normal and friendly. No big deal. After a while she looks me in the eyes, jumps on top of me and starts kissing me. Not little pecks, like actual making out. I stop her. We don't talk about what had happened and nothing happens any further.

I actually kind of really liked Jessica kissing me but I have a stable relationship right now.

What do I do?

Did you like it because she gave you a boner? If yes, that ain't feeling. That's fun .
Then again, if you like her more than your actual GF. Be a "b*stard" and get the other one. If you want to be a "successful b*stard", make sure dating Jessica is possible.
In case she's dumb and says: But oh noez! U can't do that!

Be a man. Do the right thing.

I've never had one.

For the record, I turned 16 a couple of months ago.

Weren't you for boys? It's okay not getting a girlfriend if you don't like them, you know... Being like everybody was never a good reason.


My little story full of teen drama.
As for my ex, met her huh quite a few years ago. Bla bla bla, she wasn't my type one bit. She was arrogant, flirt and talked like a gangster (lolwut?).

Skipping random ****s. She eventually slept over and started sticking to me.
We went out our own ways. Eventually met again during those days. She wanted me to stay with her, I played hard-to-get. She followed me. We went to watch fireworks during a beautiful cold winter night.

She slept over again. She liked me, I played along. We made out.
Went out the next day, she went somewhere with a few girls. Next thing I know, she breaks up and tastes my tongue for a last time. I wanted more kiss-kiss. She said no. I went and said: "Okay, fine."
She went out with my friend. Broke up with him. He's now in a 'depression' since I don't know how long. She went out with another guy, that guy broke up. She's now in a 'depression' since a few weeks.
Every time she sees me, she goes 'Oh noez, I no want see him!' and I go "Err. That was 2 years ago, move on?".


Yeah, beautiful story.
Teen drama is awesome.

Spoiler

*Note: 'Depression' - Definition: Teen's moment of sadness/confusion.

 

[POKE40]

So much teen drama!

This blog is almost like reading a book.
boy to girl relationships is not in my planner right now. >_>
(I stop all relationships at best friend)

So I don't have a story.

 

[Lord Viper]

☆ Umm... does it matter how many girlfriends you say in this blog? If I say all of the girlfriends I have, it would be a tl;dr post and the main reason why I won't date for a long time. )= ☆

 

[CRASHiC]

My story:

I met my lover 2 years ago in American History class. She had a very bright personality, and I looked over to her and said my very first words to her, which neither of us will ever forget,
"Are you cuban?" I said.
She hesitated, "Yeah. . . why?"
"Because you're so loud."
If there are wrong words to say, believe me, I'll say them. All I meant was that she had a vibriant glow to her that I associate with Cuban people, but how could she have known that? Little to say, it wasn't exactly the best foot to get off to, though I had no idea that she would become so important to me in the future.
Meanwhile, the year pans out, she attempted to date two of my acquaintances, neither of them worked out for her for one reason or another. I attempted to date a girl as well, though talked her to death on the date, thus no second date. Somewhere in all of this we became sort of friends, I don't really remember where. Then comes field day, which was nothing more than everyone standing in the hot sun. Somehow I left my normal friends to hang out with Dee, again, I don't remember how that happened, and we had a blast. There was a hip-hop dance floor, and we both went out and danced like idiots, we went on this inflatable race, and went out the back end. We continued to run around in the hot sun, while I was starting to feel the impact of not having eaten anything that day. At the end, as we walked inside, I asked to use the bathroom, as soon as I got my head through the door I threw up all over the school's bathroom floor. I rinsed the smell out of my mouth, and thought, Why did I make myself throw up for this girl?
2 days latter, and I see Dee in crutches when I walk into school. I rush to her, make sure she's okay. Apparently she threw out her leg while dancing. I helped her get to class (still unaware of why I was willing to do these things) and brought her stuff animals to sit under her arms so her pits didn't get bruised. She wasn't allowed to walk home, so I stayed with her each day for the 2 hours she had to wait for her mother to get off work and come pick her up. We talked for hours about nearly everything, it was incredibly comfortable. It was here I realized that I had feelings for Dee, but by now valued her to much as a friend to make a move.
A half year continued, and we grew closer and closer, until one day I somehow find myself lying on her bed kissing her, my entire body shaking. We only kissed, but it was the greatest thing I had ever felt. I ran home with intense excitement, jumped on my computer, and instantly wrote this song.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wFNqlv5V9Y (its a little sloppy, but that's just because I couldn't get rid of the guitar that was apart of the vocals)
A lot has gone arry in my life since I met Dee, and I'm not sure where I would be if she wasn't there constantly providing me support through it all, and the same can be said by her I am certain. We both live 6 states apart now, but our connection is just as strong, though it was tested for some time.

This is my story of how I met the love of my life.

 

[momochuu]

Err...I met my ex because we were pretty much forced to be partnered up during this fishing unit in gym, lol. I never wanted to touch the bait, so the teacher made us partner up. xD After that first moment we became really close friends and still are. @.@ We didn't go out until Valentine's Day, and this fishing unit happened very early in the school year. Just a few days in.

 

[Chronodiver Lokii]

Well, I would post about me and one of my exs, but in my opinion, its WAYYY too "teenager dramatic-y". So I'll sum it up in a sentence or two. Met through my best friend when they were visiting, both liked each other, tried dating...but we both live a state away...long distance relationship epic failed. Now we're basically best friends.

Not really into dating at the moment. I'd rather spend my time at my friends' houses chilling and playing video games than dating and having to devote every minute to a "special someone". Not my cup of tea.

 

[gian@!!]

Awsome blog man...

i dont have a love story. I did like girls when i was young, i would "hunt" but never catch anything. Its only when i meet a special type of person and that moment was in philli. She was so cheerful and happy and just pretty to put the cherry on top. We had a lot in common, so we could never stop talking about eachother. the bad thing was i was only visiting philli for a while and had to go back. I never saw her again. its not a big deal now. i hope to see her again, but i lost intrest of gilrs that are from the generation.

 

[RyuReiatsu]

So much teen drama!

This blog is almost like reading a book.
boy to girl relationships is not in my planner right now. >_>
(I stop all relationships at best friend)

So I don't have a story.

Why not? Bet you already liked a girl/guy, did you not?
Why restraining yourself? We're young .

 

[~Firefly~]

This is probably going to make me look bad, but I'm 17 in 11 days. She's 15.



Haha, good luck.

Are you familiar with the webcomic xkcd? I remember one comic contained a formula that identifies the acceptable range a person can date within without being creepy. IIRC, it goes:

minimum age = (your age)/2 + 7

16 / 2 = 8 + 7 = 15

So you're good for another 10 days. =D

 

[Cherry64]

Lol @ firefly, nicely done.

Met her at school, she's 18, and I'm 19. 2 years and counting

 

[Delta-cod]

Are you familiar with the webcomic xkcd? I remember one comic contained a formula that identifies the acceptable range a person can date within without being creepy. IIRC, it goes:

minimum age = (your age)/2 + 7

16 / 2 = 8 + 7 = 15

So you're good for another 10 days. =D

Well, using that formula, we can do it for when he's 17.

17/2 = 8.5
8.5 + 7 = 15.5

So you're good as long as your girlfriend is in the middle of her 15th year. =D

Is jealous of all you that have a partner.

 

[Esoteric]

My longest relationship of 4.5 years I met her at mini golf when I was 18. We had a son in March of 08. We broke up in September of 08.

I can't stand her.

 

[mzink*]

So now I'm about to go to my first date with her, which is a DOUBLE DATE, in about 15 minutes. Oh and we're going rollerblading. ffffffffffffffffffffffff lol

Lol that's cute


I met my hubby in the Navy, we went through some training together. He sat next to me in one of our classes and he was kinda quiet, not really quiet, just not that loud show offy everybody look at me type guy lolz. He was more sort of like that really smart just concentrate on my work type guy (with a lil bit of arrogance due to his intellect lol). I just sort of started talking to him about random stuff like movies and video games whether he wanted to listen or not lol. He always complicated everything he said and used big words that I never heard of or knew the meaning of (know it all), so I'd be like "ok I don't understand what you just said but it was cute lolz." But it turned out that we had a lot of common interests.

I remember it used to annoy me how his work was always PERFECT and the instructors always drooled when they saw it and talked about how great he was and I could tell that he knew it and was kind of snobbish as a result, but I liked it at the same time lol. (I have a thing for dark haired smartypants nerds, its true. If Spock were real I'd marry him too.) Actually if you think of Spock, you are pretty much thinking of my husband, they are a lot alike in personality and looks. (Minus the funky eyebrows and pointy ears)

So I set about trying to knock him off his pedestal, I'd sabotage his work (nothing that couldn't be fixed lolz) , I'd steal his uniform cover and throw it across the room, I'd try to trip him when we were marching in formation. At first he just kind of got that surprised air of "how dare you" when I did this stuff, like he wasn't really sure what to think. Then after that it started amusing him and making him blush lolz.

Anyways, we pretty much started doing everything together. We'd spend the weekends together kinda just bouncin around different hotels and hangin out at the beach. We played video games, went to movies, went out to eat. And to make a long story a bit shorter, eventually we got married lolz.

 

[~Firefly~]

Well, using that formula, we can do it for when he's 17.

17/2 = 8.5
8.5 + 7 = 15.5

So you're good as long as your girlfriend is in the middle of her 15th year. =D

Is jealous of all you that have a partner.

That's true, but we don't know where she fits in that decimal. Because of that, we can't judge him unless he gives us additional imformation. =3

Also, I never said anything about having a partner. I don't have any relevant stories, so I just decided to bring this silly formula into the mix.

That sounds incredibly nerdy. >.<

Anyway, I'd like to add that seeing you post without that stupid purple font is incredibly refreshing. ^.^

 

[SuSa]

I was thirsty, she had a full drink she wasn't drinking at lunch. I sat next to her and introduced myself and stole her drink. Sat and talked to her the rest of lunch, starting eating lunch with her every day after.

(^at school)

Best decision to be a **** ever.

 

[Jam Stunna]

My wife and I kind of met over a long period of time. I'm going to tell my version of the story, and then let my wife tell hers. My writing is in white, hers is in yellow.

October 2005: I went to a presentation at my college regarding the First Amendment. I was only there for about ten minutes, and I asked a question to the presenter. After he answered my question, I left and went home. Little did I know that my future wife was sitting in the room. I didn't see her, but she saw me.

February 2006: I was at school again, heading upstairs to go play some Smash with my friends. When I got into the elevator, there was a woman standing there talking to one of the art professors. She turned to me and said, "You're a criminal justice major, aren't you?" and I said, "No, I'm studying history." I got off the elevator, and the instant the doors closed it dawned on me- You idiot, that woman asked you your major because she's interested in you! I went back into the elevator and up to the floor where the art classrooms were, but I couldn't find her.

March 2006: I was filming a commercial for my college, and we were filming on the same floor as the art classrooms. I was there with my friend, and the same woman walked by. She was looking at me, and this time I was smart. I returned her look and her smiles, but I was busy filming the commercial so I couldn't talk to her. She went back to her classroom, and that was that.

April 2006: I had the day off from work, and I'd hung around the school late. I was heading home, when I saw her heading out of the side entrance. I thought to myself, she's not getting away this time, so I literally ran after her. I finally caught up to her right as she was about to cross the street, and we talked for the first time. I finally learned her name was Zoraida, and we exchanged phone numbers.

Later that month, we went on a pseudo-date to a park in the city. It was me, Zoraida, her friend Bonnie, Bonnie's boyfriend and another friend. The three of them went off on their own, and Zoraida and I just hung out and talked. It was a good time, until the ride home. Bonnie dropped off Zoraida first, and then essentially tried to sabotage our budding relationship. I don't remember what she said to me, but she said something really general and bad to me, something like, "Be careful of her". That pretty much ruined the night, as I had to decide whether I should keep that to myself, or call Zoraida and tell her that her best friend had been talking about her behind her back to me. I decided to call Zoraida and tell her, since it would be pretty bad to keep secrets from the beginning. After that, we decided that it would be best if we went on a real date, just the two of us.

May 2006: We went on our first date to a coffee shop that she loved. After that, we kept talking on the phone, and she told me that she didn't want to date me after all, I said okay. We kept talking anyway for about a week, and I decided that I was going to tell her that we were either going to date or we weren't going to talk to each other at all, because I didn't want to be her friend, I wanted to be her boyfriend. I never got the chance to say it though, because she said to me first that she did want to be my girlfriend after all.

The rest, as they say, is history.


I was taking a Criminal Justice course, and to be honest I was not doing too well so my teacher suggested going to the "First Amendment" conference for extra credit. I remember sitting there all bored when out of nowhere this guy comes in the middle of the room, standing on front of everyone and just asks his question. I was like "Oh my god I couldn't possibly do that", but at the same time I found that sexy and thought of him as an intellectual young man. After the conference was over, I went outside looking for him but he was gone. It was fine by me that I did not see him again because at the time I was dating someone else. At the end of that month me and that person broke up. It wasn't until about 5 months later that I crossed paths with Jamil in the elevator. I saw him but I was talking to my Art teacher.



2 weeks after that I saw him by myself in the elevator and asked him if he was a Criminal Justice student because he was in that conference and most of the people in it were Criminal Justice majors, but I also wanted to start some sort of conversation with him. Unfortunately we both had class and the elevator doors were shut and Jam had left, I was quite upset. After that I happened to see Jam filming a commercial on my way to the bathroom, he looked so cute all dressed up and stuff but he was with a loud friend and I felt uncomfortable talking to him at the moment so I went about my business, but man I was so excited.



I used to see him at my English professor's office and I was part of this Art show at the college and I decided to invite him. I was so excited for him to go, but I had gone to the coffee shop to grab some coffee and I missed him. Eck! I thought. But I happened to see him again on my way home and I decided that I had to give him my phone number because if not I was going to lose him forever, so I did. We talked on the phone a few times and we had a date scheduled but I couldn't wait to see him so on a nice Sunday afternoon I invited him to the park with my "friend" Bonnie, her boyfriend and their friend. Luckily Jam and I were left alone to spend sometime together. At the end my "friend" dropped me off first and she took Jam home. I knew something was up but I was not worried. Three days later Jam and I went to our date at my favorite coffee shop. It was a nice date, he was such a gentleman and I was so nervous.

I questioned for a few days whether or not I should date Jam not only because of our age difference but also because we were so different. I thought it thoroughly and decided that no matter what I really liked him and wanted to be with him.

And now, I'm a lazy mom and wife so the writing stops here!

 

[¯\_S.(ツ).L.I.D._/¯]

Jam, it was really interesting seeing the two perspectives, and that's a pretty cool story in general.

I'm excited for our interview, hopefully we can get enough questions soon.

 

[§witch]

High school makes it easy to meet girls, though high school relationships mean **** all.

So, it's basically not worth it. It's fun while it lasts though.