@Marik, haha i lol'd so hard when i read your post, then my computer magically zipped to your previous post of about 3/4. Hahahahahahaha i've heard that one before!
Ima share my 2p cause ive got about 15 mins until im going out and i already smoked a cigarette. All of my girlfriends have looked the same, incredibly short, slim and long hair. The two that come to mind most are Millie and Ruby. My method for becoming friendly with them was my usual one - randomly add on MSN and wait for them to find me interesting, before suggesting a date, meet then wait for them to find me interesting via MSN, (Que date) or randomly on a friends PC, look @ MSN, and be interesting. What can i say, hotmail has been a source of great ***** for me since the beginning.
Anyway, Millie was my first serious girlfriend - i was 15. I didn't really have to do alot which was awesome because i was a wimp back then. After the said MSN conversation, i invited her over to my house. She had a bf and wanted nothing. I was very confused, and i believe high at the time which never helps a rejection situation.. or a flirtatious situation for that matter. About a week later they broke up, and we randomly went on a date, to a pub where we knew ID wouldent be an issue (it was a gay pub). Nothing happend that day due to said wimp factor. The next date, maybe the next day, we hit it off, ordered pizza and she stayed at mine for a while. Fooled about a bit, then she went home. The first kiss was not one of the exhilarating ones, it just felt normal. My friend, who lives on his own here with his sister went on holiday and gave me the keys. I met up with her there, and then she (i now know/assume) pretended to get kicked out of her house the day after, so she stayed at mine, and his for a while, before i popped the question b4 she got on a bus. We dated for about 5 months, having an extreamly serious relationship for that age. she took my V but she had already been on the pill for a while... 15yr old skank xD she dumped me for being too argumentative, but i swear to god (and my friends did too) she was the unstable one. Why the hell ask somebody to do something, or put them in a situation, where you are limiting their options to 1) hurting their pride/manhood 2) to have an argument if you dont do what you are asked. Its typical psychology.
Ok so she was my first, my most recent was called Ruby. Man. She was fine. 1.5 years younger than me (I am now 18, she was almost kinda 17) though, which is SUCH a shame because she was my electric girl. We used to hook up a couple years ago, liked each other but genuinely thought the other was just in it for the physical. I re-ignited my friendship with her over msn (lol) and then happened to bump into her that night at a bar, where i proceeded to make my moves. To this date that was the best, most electrifying kiss i have ever received - i knew the smoking area was closed, she/we wanted a cigarette. I suggested (knowing it was locked) going around the back, and when she pulled on the door, and turned because it wouldent budge, we were too close for a moment not to happen. I remember shaking uncontrollably, which had never happend. But i had never felt a smidgeon for a girl before her, so i guess that is what liking somebody is truly about.
I got her number, blahh, asked her out before she got on a bus a day or 2 later, and we kinda sailed along happily from there i guess. She was so pretty and kind, we were into all the same things and were both really affectionate. For no reason atall i stopped liking her, and slept with somebody who i knew to be promiscious i had on msn (ironically the same guy i mentioned in the earlier story went away, but this time we left his window open and crept in) at a gathering i organised that night out of boredom. That sucked, and i lost my motivation for the relationship on the premise i wanted to play more smash, and smoke more pot. In those respects it worked out - i played a **** load of smash, and smoked alot. However they were poor choises, i gave up a awesome girl for simple seretonin release (some drugs and video games make your brain release seretonin, sex, drinkig - that kind of thing, it is the pleasure pathway of the brain). I broke up with her a day after cheating i think. To this day i am still in a non-commited relationship with the promiscious msn girl (sarah), play alot of smash, smoke occasionally but far less than a few weeks ago, do my work, go to work, sleep, eat, rinse, wash, repete. I cannot complain, at the current time everything is going swimmingly, not least of all, smash :D :D
However i still yearn for a kiss as electrifying as that. i doubt i will be able to repete the results again (
) but im sure i will feel that way for somebody again at some point. To be honest, girlfriend are fecking LONG - the percentage of girls who are a
1) TOTALY warped in the brain when it comes to certain aspects
2) selfish
3) rude
4) manipulative
5) not on the pill/injection
is insane. I however know this is just an age thing, girls simply cannot act this way (i come from a generally wealthy area in north london, alot of Jewish girls) for the rest of their lives. Its almost like everything is an act, and they are not real people sometimes.
No, you are much better off finding somebody to satisfy the physical if you are into that, and hanging out with your male friends for companionship. You never need anything more then your best friend at your side, and all too often Having a GF + seeing your best friends every day = massaive stress, arguments, and the eventual loss of 1/2 a stone in weight through said problems.
The lucky ones are the people who
genuinely really really like their GFs (the only way to reach the next, and frankly real level of love making). The people who look to having sex for the relationship only, either wound up getting hurt, stressed out, or have a huge month-long tug of war over whether they do what they want, or let their girl control them.
my 2p.
But they kept joking around and wouldn't go outside, so I started to panic a little bit. Eventually I got them outside, and they continued joking around until there were only 6 minutes left until 8:00 (When they had to leave) so I kind of asked her nervously (bc I was feeling rushed...but the blame's on her for taking so long) to go to a quiet spot and asked my friend to go away for a second, unaware that I needed to talk to her. 