Blackadder
Smash Master
I'm going to go with the flow here.
Because Josh is right, and so is Jam and Livvers.
Being 16 and in high school myself, I'm getting the same type of things every so often. I remember after my first "Girlfriend" (Which ended horridly and I tend to try and pretend it didn't happen XD) I went through all the "Omg I love her and she loves me and we're gonna marry and be together for..." stuff.
Eventually, someone told me that I was still young, I didn't love her, just had a crush, and chances are it'd go soon. Hey-hey, it did. And when I told her that we probably didn't really love each other, she got extremely mad and we cut all contact with each other.
Sure, I was a little hurt, but I did feel happier. I'd been in the relationship too long, and only really to "be" there, if you understand. It was nice to be single again.
So, a year or two on, I'm in a new school, and have several crushes. Obviously some are stronger than others, but I really do try and explore my options. Focusing on one girl can work. It can. But you're better off seeing what else is going round before you declare yourself "In love".
Check out other girls, see what's what. I'd keep this girl on the list to, but you know. Add to this list.
On another note, one thing I do wonder is what age people can really "love" at. Obviously it depends on maturity and such, but anyone have an idea?
Also, out of interest, what was your guys's experiance with your first girlfriends/boyfriends?
Because Josh is right, and so is Jam and Livvers.
Being 16 and in high school myself, I'm getting the same type of things every so often. I remember after my first "Girlfriend" (Which ended horridly and I tend to try and pretend it didn't happen XD) I went through all the "Omg I love her and she loves me and we're gonna marry and be together for..." stuff.
Eventually, someone told me that I was still young, I didn't love her, just had a crush, and chances are it'd go soon. Hey-hey, it did. And when I told her that we probably didn't really love each other, she got extremely mad and we cut all contact with each other.
Sure, I was a little hurt, but I did feel happier. I'd been in the relationship too long, and only really to "be" there, if you understand. It was nice to be single again.
So, a year or two on, I'm in a new school, and have several crushes. Obviously some are stronger than others, but I really do try and explore my options. Focusing on one girl can work. It can. But you're better off seeing what else is going round before you declare yourself "In love".
Check out other girls, see what's what. I'd keep this girl on the list to, but you know. Add to this list.
On another note, one thing I do wonder is what age people can really "love" at. Obviously it depends on maturity and such, but anyone have an idea?
Also, out of interest, what was your guys's experiance with your first girlfriends/boyfriends?