Nah any advice would be good, slipping down further and further.
I'm almost always ahead early game..but can't seem to force us to obectives, then games just stall etc etc etc we lost often.
Alright;
Here goes Rakes 2 cents:
IMO Top Lane would be the easiest transition;
This is due to to the fact that your by self admission weaker on CS'ing, which is essentially mid lane until level 6. That on top of not being able to get kills for yourself on mid would lead me to believe it wouldn't be the easiest transition (which i'm assuming your looking for; if you want a challenge, then that changes things).
I've found top to be great to learn how to CS better; Especially under turret , as that was one of my weaknesses before. Plus; you don't NEED to have kills in top lane necessarily. Yes it's nice, and yes it helps in gold; But gp5 and decent CS; and even in some cases just decent CS itself will make you a presence late game (as tanks top lane anyway).
A great example of this is my top lane Rammus in normal games I play because it's hilarious and is strangely viable against the plethora of AD brusiers that live on top lane. All i do is farm it up; The enemies top laner can be as aggressive as he likes, even at low levels i know i can take a beating with my W up, and if they dive me, taunt / powerball ftw.
Plus; if i can force him out of lane, i know i can push down his tower for global gold, and if i take it down, it's time to counter jungle like an *******. Go back to my lane as necessary, but otherwise help other lanes and my jungler.
Late game, CS, towers and assists on kills are enough to get you to be a damn scary tank. Getting kills is a nice bonus in this case, and is essentially : well, now i'm going to be nigh unkillable even faster.
You being a aggressive jungler I think could be more of a benefit than a hindrance for yur possible top lane adventures, for example, you won't be as scared to go for a certain kill as a more passive laner would be(not always a great thing , but certainly not terrible).
Good map awareness is almost a given in the season three meta now, with how bot lane has evolved; It's now falling out of style to even bother ganking it; Your a jungler , so you understand that idea. After all: top ; at least from my experience is the lane to gank. Now moreso than before.
Being that you have such map awareness from being a jungler; You'd be better suited to handle ganks; To help your own jungler; Where you need to be and when; etc.
Now, my initial questions would be;
a) What do you prefer play top ? (Assassin; Tank; AD Bruiser; Double AP Set-Up, etc)
b) Who would you define as your "Strongest" top laner
Forcing objectives comes with time and practice top lane, in addition to how aggressive your jungler; If he's running into their jungle to steal their blue, and your lane opponent is camping under his tower, you need to decide whether to back him up; How aggressive you want to be , etc;
As for stalling games; That can just happen, and even if your hard carrying your lane, there's nothing you can do;
Just recently in a game as Wukong i got carzy fed early by a bad riven who couldn't land a Q on the side of a barn. Went on to win top.
Sadly, mid fed a AD Yi early and his items were getting nasty by the time I had time to deal with him; And my bot lane was a new player on Mundo; And the Yi started wandering and well...put 2 +2 lol. Needless to say; All of the fed I was ; Still wasn't enough until late game (like 45 + to an hour by this point) ; I had to sell my boots just to deal wnough damage to kill him; And even me essentially soloing the enemy team wasn't going to win it; Nothing you can do lol.
Best advice would be to play around in normal's to figure out what you prefer to play top(if you don't already have an idea) and just practice whatever you think needs the most work. Then, when you feel confident; (Or you just want to jump in) you move back into ranked and hopefully dominate in whatever lane you end up choosing.
After all , practice makes perfect :D
Link to said emotional game:
http://www.leaguereplays.com/replays/match/2745504/
/inb4 someone comes in and tells me this is all wrong
/inb4 this is terrible die in a hole
/inb4 swiss chooses mid and gets rated platinum within a month