Pokechu
If you guys are sympathizing with her, then you're enabling behavior that will hurt another group down the road. I know no one really gives a **** about mafia, but you have to understand that people who usually commit major misdemeanors have a prior history of committing more minor ones that they basically got a slap on the wrist for with no major ramifications. I know Discord and chat groups have resulted in social interaction on the internet being more or less echo chambers for personal behavior e.g. if Dgames doesn't like you just join another mafia subgroup that will diddle you and tell you what a wonderful person you are. However, ameliorating it as a group by essentially having the Nzone group just **** off from Dgames means that there might be some residual psychological rationale that Dgames was in the wrong for calling out such degenerate behavior.
I know as a group, if you guys have a Discord or not that you could give **** all about anything because it's just the internet. But I'm genuinely tired of having to do the heavy lifting when I see these people on the backend when these issues escalate to actual symptomatic problems or behaviors that cause these people to require extensive in-patient hospitalization and they have no one to be serve as a medical proxy because they burned bridges with people in real life in favor of getting coddled by randoms who will affirm their choices, but not show up for the consequences. In one case, the person was so sure that randomusername @ x service was going to be there to give them a ride back to their home. The kicker isn't that the person didn't show up, it was that their living situation was nonexistent, they were homeless. So case management/social services did extensive lifting in order to create a home situation for them and a plan where they would get food and housing for the year.
I'm basically tired of dealing with people with major ****ing problems because no one, not a single one holds them responsible for any form of accountability. And I know why it happens, it is because you don't want to lose them to another group after you've invested so much time and memories together. However, if these individuals do get upset and decide to **** off from your friend group because they feel like they are being patronized, then that's good. Because if social groups actually held individuals accountable then they would have no choice to realize that their **** stinks and they will stop the behavior once they realize it is something that should be addressed.
giraffelasergun since we're both mods now, does that mean we're married?
