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Xivii

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I've come across many people on smashboards who have trouble sleeping at night and lately I have been thinking a lot about it. The main reason I think a majority of people have a hard time sleeping is because they have to much on their mind. (Things you want to do, should of done, talking with someone,etc.) I believe it is extremely important to get to get into a relaxing mood before you attempt to sleep. Usually when you go from doing an activity (especially activities which get you hyped and things such as IM and addictive games) directly to bed it is much more difficult to get to get your mind relaxed. Something I find useful is to do something more relaxing before you go to bed or after being involved in a lot of activity. Things such as reading in bed......... Really. Reading something that's not TOO interesting but still catches your interest in my opinion is one of the best ways to help you sleep. A lot of people don't usually take out the time to just randomly read but doing so just before you attempt to sleep can be really affective. It changes your focus from your day time activities into something else (usually which you can dream about) as well as relaxes your body since you are pretty much remaining still.

Of course simply reading may not always help you to get sleep at night. There are many things which affect the way you sleep. I found these tips from a website about how to get better sleep at night. I find a lot of it very useful and very true. If your having trouble sleeping at night I recommend looking through this. Try applying some or all of these things to your day/nightly routine, see what works for you.


helpguide.org said:
Regular day exercise can help sleep
Regular exercise, aside from many other wonderful health benefits, usually makes it easier to fall asleep and sleep better. You don’t have to be a star athlete to reap the benefits-- as little as twenty to thirty minutes of activity helps. And you don’t need to do all 30 minutes in one session: break it up into five minutes here, ten minutes there. A brisk walk, a bicycle ride or a run is time well spent. However, be sure to schedule your exercise in the morning or early afternoon. Exercising too late in the day actually stimulates the body, raising its temperature. That’s the opposite of what you want near bedtime, because a cooler body temperature is associated with sleep. Don’t feel glued to the couch in the evening, though. Exercise such as relaxation yoga or simple stretching shouldn’t hurt.



Get some light to set your body clock
We all have an internal body clock that helps regulate sleep. This clock is sensitive to light and dark. Light tells your body clock to move to the active daytime phase. When you get up, open the shades or go outside to get some sunlight. If that’s not possible, turn on the lights to make your environment bright.


Napping can interfere with sleep
Perhaps the English had the right idea in having teatime in the late afternoon when you naturally get sleepy. Some people can take a short afternoon nap and still sleep well at night. However, if you are having trouble sleeping at night, try to eliminate napping. If you must nap, do it in the early afternoon, and sleep no longer than about thirty minutes.


Alcohol, caffeine, smoking
-Alcohol reduces overall quality of sleep. Many people think that a nightcap before bed will help them sleep. While it may make you fall asleep faster, alcohol reduces your sleep quality, waking you up later in the night. To avoid this effect, stay away from alcohol in the last few hours before bed.
-Caffeine. You might be surprised to know that caffeine can cause sleep problems up to ten to twelve hours after drinking it! If you rely on coffee, tea or caffeinated soda to keep you going during the day, consider eliminating caffeine after lunch or cutting back your overall intake.
-Smoking. Smoking causes sleep troubles in numerous ways. Nicotine is a stimulant, which disrupts sleep. Additionally, smokers actually experience nicotine withdrawal as the night progresses, making it hard to sleep.
Want to quit smoking? Read Quit Smoking Your Way


Better Sleep Tips II: Creating a better sleep environment
The key to better sleep might be as simple as making some minor changes to your bedroom. Take a careful look around your sleep environment to see what might be disrupting your sleep.


Your Bed
Is your bed large enough? Do you have enough room to stretch and turn comfortably in bed, or are you cramped? Having a bedmate makes this even more important- both of you should have plenty of room to stretch out. Consider getting a larger bed if you don’t have enough space.
Your mattress, pillows and bedding. Waking up with a cramp in your back or a sore neck? You may want to experiment with different levels of mattress firmness and pillows that provide more support. If your mattress is too hard, you can add a foam topper for additional softness. Experiment with different types of pillows – feather, synthetic, and special pillows for side, back or stomach sleepers. Consider your bedding—scratchy sheets might be making you uncomfortable in the middle of the night, or your comforter might not be keeping you warm enough. Consider soft, breathable cotton sheets. Flannel sheets may be cozy for the winter months.
Your Room
Ideally, to maximize sleep, your room should be quiet, dark and at a comfortable temperature and ventilation.


Keep the noise level down. Too much noise- loud outside conversations, televisions blaring, traffic noise - can make it difficult to sleep well. When the source of outside noise can’t be eliminated, sometimes it can be masked. A fan or white noise machine can help block outside noise. Some people enjoy recordings of soothing sounds such as waves, waterfalls or rain. Earplugs may also help, although you want to make sure they don’t block out important noises like an alarm clock if you use one.
Keep your room dark during sleep hours. Early morning light can send your body clock the wrong signal that it is time to wake up. Or perhaps there is a streetlamp shining right in your window at night. Heavy shades can help block light from windows, or you can try an eye mask to cover your eyes.
Room temperature and ventilation. Who can sleep in a hot stuffy room? Or for that matter, a cold drafty one? If you can, experiment with the room temperature. Most people sleep best in a slightly cooler room. Make sure that you have adequate ventilation as well - a fan can help keep the air moving. You also might want to check your windows and doors to make sure that drafts are not interfering with sleep.
Reserve your bed for sleeping. Do you sometimes balance your checkbook propped up on your pillows? Or jot down some notes for tomorrow’s meeting? It might feel relaxing to do tasks like these on a comfortable bed. However, if you associate your bed with events like work or errands, it will only make it harder to wind down at night. Use your bed only for sleep and...
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Better Sleep Tips III: Preparing for Sleep
Keep a regular bedtime schedule, including weekends
Time of day serves as a powerful cue to your body clock that it is time to sleep and awaken. Go to bed and wake up at the same time each day, and it will be easier and easier to fall asleep. However tempting it may be, try not to break this routine on weekends when you may want to stay up much later or sleep in. Your overall sleep will be better if you don’t.

In setting your bedtime, pay attention to the cues your body is giving you. When do you feel sleepy? Set your bedtime for when you normally feel tired, within reason – you may not want to make your bedtime 2am if you have to work at 8am! If you regularly go to bed when you don’t feel sleepy, not only is it harder to fall asleep, but you may start worrying about not sleeping, which can end up keeping you up longer! If you want to change your bedtime, try doing it in small daily increments, such as 15 minutes earlier or later each day.


Foods that help you sleep
Maybe a rich, hearty dinner, topped off with a big slice of chocolate cake might seem like the perfect way to end the day, but it’s wise not to eat a large meal within two hours of bed. Try to make dinnertime earlier in the evening, and avoid heavy, rich foods as bedtime snacks.

However, a light snack before bed, especially one which contains the amino acid tryptophan, can help promote sleep. When you pair tryptophan-containing foods with carbohydrates, it helps calm the brain and allow you to sleep better. For even better sleep, add some calcium to your dinner or nighttime snack. Calcium helps the brain use and process tryptophan. On the other hand, you might want to avoid eating too much protein before bedtime - protein-rich foods contain tyrosine, an amino acid that stimulates brain activity. Experiment with your food habits to determine your optimum evening meals and snacks.


Some bedtime snacks to help you sleep:-Glass of warm milk and half a turkey or peanut butter sandwich
-Whole-grain, low-sugar cereal or granola with low-fat milk or yogurt
-A banana and a cup of hot chamomile tea


Foods that can interfere with sleep :-Too much food, especially fatty, rich food. These take a lot of work for your stomach to digest and may keep you up. Spicy or acidic foods in the evening can cause stomach trouble and heartburn, which worsens as you are laying down
-Too much liquid. Drinking lots of fluid may result in frequent bathroom trips throughout the night.
-Alcohol. Although it may initially make you feel sleepy, alcohol can interfere with sleep and cause frequent awakenings. Also some people are also sensitive to tyrosine, found in certain red wines
-Caffeine. Avoid food and drinks that contain caffeine, and that doesn’t just mean coffee. Hidden sources of caffeine include chocolate, caffeinated sodas, and teas.
If you suspect a food or drink is keeping you up, try eliminating it for a few days to see if sleep improves.


Develop a relaxing bedtime routine
A consistent, relaxing routine before bed sends a signal to your brain that it is time to wind down, making it easier to fall asleep. Start by keeping a consistent bedtime as much as possible. Then, think about what relaxes you. It might be a warm bath, soft music or some quiet reading. Relaxation techniques, such as yoga, visualization or muscle relaxation not only tell your body it is time for sleep but also help relieve anxiety. Avoid bright light or activities.


Ideas to help prepare for sleep:-Reading a light, entertaining book or magazine
-Visualization/meditation
-Listening to soft music or radio broadcast
-A light bedtime snack or a glass of warm milk
-Hobbies such as knitting or jigsaw puzzles
-Listening to books on tape

Worry, Anxiety and Sleep
With busy schedules and family lives, it’s hard to leave the worries of daily life behind when it is time to sleep. Worrying and anxiety trigger the “fight or flight” mechanism in the body, releasing chemicals that prepare us to be alert and ready for action. That not only makes it difficult to fall asleep, but can wake you up frequently in the night as well. Stop stress and worry from disrupting your rest by:

Making the time before sleep a time of peace and quiet. As much as possible, avoid things that may trigger worry or anxiety before bed, like upsetting news or gory television shows.
Quiet your mind. There are many things you can do to help your brain wind down and prepare for sleep. Relaxation techniques set the stage for quieting the mind. Make some simple preparations for the next day, like a to-do list or laying out the next day’s clothes and shoes. Some people find jotting down a list of worries makes them more manageable.



Better Sleep Tips IV: Getting back to sleep and television

Getting back to sleep
It’s normal to wake briefly during the night- a good sleeper won’t even remember it. However, there are times when you may wake during the night and not be able to fall back asleep. You may get more and more frustrated about not being able to sleep, which raises your anxiety level, ironically making it even harder to achieve the sleep you crave!

Stay relaxed: The key to getting back to bed is continuing to cue your body for sleep. Some relaxation techniques, such as visualization and meditation, can be done without even getting out of bed. The time honored technique of “counting sheep” works by engaging the brain in a repetitive, non-stimulating activity, helping you wind down.
Do a quiet, non-stimulating activity if you can’t sleep: If you’ve been awake for more than 15 minutes, try getting out of bed and doing a quiet activity. Keep the lights dim so as not to cue your body clock that it’s time to wake up. A light snack or herbal tea might help relax you, but be careful not to eat so much that your body begins to expect a meal at that time of the day.


Television
Many people use the television to fall asleep or relax at the end of the day. You may even have a television in your bedroom. However, it’s best to get rid of the television, or related activities like video games, for several reasons.

First, television programming is frequently stimulating rather than calming. Late night news or prime time shows frequently have disturbing, violent material. Even non-violent programming can have commercials which are jarring and louder than the actual program. Remember, commercials want to get your attention! Processing this type of material is a stimulating activity, the opposite of what you want to help you sleep.

In addition, the light coming from the TV (or a computer screen) can interfere with the body’s clock, which is sensitive to any light. Television is also noisy, which can disturb sleep if the set is accidentally left on.

Take the TV out of the bedroom - The optimum setup for better sleep is to have your bedroom reserved for sleeping. So if you watch TV in bed, even if you don’t fall asleep watching it, you are unconsciously associating another activity with the area you use to sleep. It’s best to remove the TV from the bedroom entirely, saving your viewing for the living room or den.

Trouble falling asleep without the TV - You may be so used to falling asleep with the TV that you have trouble without it. Be patient. It takes time to develop new habits. If you miss the noise, try turning on soft music or a fan. If your favorite show is on late at night, record it for viewing earlier in the day. Although the first few days might be difficult, better sleep pays off in the long run.
*People with Chronic Insomnia have an even greater difficulty going to sleep. It sometimes takes more than relaxation. Each individual is different. Usually there is a much deeper reasoning to why people with Chronic Insomnia have trouble sleeping.*



I personally don’t have much trouble sleeping, but when I do it is usually because I have something on my mind or am anxious about something. Here’s a few tricks/techniques that I’ve found to be affective when I’ve had trouble sleeping:

Reading- like I said before, reading in bed can be an extremely affective way in helping you get to sleep.


Meditative Techniques- Stretching and breathing is always a good way to help you relax. Here’s a breathing technique that I’ve found useful. Though I have only tried it once.

Quoted from “Relaxation techniques” Deep Breathing
-By concentrating on our breathing, deep breathing allows the rest of our body to relax itself. Deep breathing is a great way to relax the body and get everything into synchrony. Relaxation breathing is an important part of yoga and martial arts for this reason.

1. Lie on your back.
2. Slowly relax your body. You can use the progressive relaxation technique we described above.
3. Begin to inhale slowly through your nose if possible. Fill the lower part of your chest first, then the middle and top part of your chest and lungs. Be sure to do this slowly, over 8 to 10 seconds.
4. Hold your breath for a second or two.
5. Then quietly and easily relax and let the air out.
6. Wait a few seconds and repeat this cycle.
7. If you find yourself getting dizzy, then you are overdoing it. Slow down.
8. You can also imagine yourself in a peaceful situation such as on a warm, gentle ocean. Imagine that you rise on the gentle swells of the water as you inhale and sink down into the waves as you exhale.
9. You can continue this breathing technique for as long as you like until you fall asleep.


The Word-Chain Game - This is a game I use to play with my younger siblings, and sometimes still do. There hasn’t been one time I have played this in bed and have not fallen asleep to it. If you’re sleeping in a room with another person try playing this game and see if it works for you. Basically what you do is pick a category and then name words from that category. Each following word has to begin with the last letter of the previous word. For example: The category is animals. Player 1 says cow, player two says woodpecker, player 1 says rat, player 2 says tiger, and so on… The first player unable to think of a word is the loser. The same word can’t be used twice. If you try this make sure you are in bed with the lights and everything off. Because your mind is focused on coming up with the next word you aren’t thinking about the day’s activities/worries, etc.. Once you get further in the game it becomes more and more difficult to think of the next word so eventually during the process of thinking you will fall asleep. *Note sometimes it could take a few games. Sometimes it may not even work at all*


Counting Sheep- This classic trick can actually work. Although it isn’t always very affective, when it does work you find yourself sleep in minutes.


If you try some of these let me know how it works out. If you have any more ideas on getting better sleep feel free to share.
 

Xivii

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If someone can't sleep they can just read that HUGE post LOL. But yeah, no jokes, reading helps.
lol yeah I mostly just made this for reference.

ya know... if u cant sleep, eat till you get drowsy then take a benadril and lie down. don't count sheep, it actually keeps u up
different things work for different people. What ever helps you.
 

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The fact that you tell me to sleep nearly every night an I tell you I can't.
 

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Hm mayeb I should turn off the light a few minutes before I go to bed. But I did get this new bed, the memory stuff. I can sleep more comfortably.

I usually get comfy in my room at around 9 o clock, usually like 5 hours after I eat dinner >_>. I get my lab top, turn on the teli then sleep like at 12 o clock. I hardly get to use the lab top during the day thanks to my sister so at night is really the only time I get it for myself. I keep my lights on until it is time to go to sleep then my room gets pitched black. It takes me like an hour or two to go to sleep. Now I have been having trouble going to sleep. I have been staying up till four just trying to get to sleep! Then I wake up until like 12 in the after noon. It was much worse when school was still open. My school is project base learning and it is very stressful so sometimes I can not sleep as well. I thank you for this thread zen-kun.

Now that I think about it I did use to write my thoughts in a dairy. Bulls eye mother ****er >_> Sorry just killed a **** fly. Um well anyway thanks zen-kun.

I also do stretches and exercises before I go to sleep.
 

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Bulls eye mother ****er >_> Sorry just killed a **** fly. Um well anyway thanks zen-kun.
lmao xD wow.

Yeah a diary is helpful too. Now that I think about it, writing in one use to make me extremely tired. I think it might be able to have the opposite affect too though, by making you think more about the day. But it's good to write down things which have been bothering you, it sometimes helps you get it off your mind.
 

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It's whether you want to sleep or not. Or if you're just stuck on the computer and you're just too lazy to leave.
 

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My primary worry with sleep is the constant thread of my clown shaped bed eating me.
 

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Be careful with dairy you are prone to nightmares and such. Dairy makes your body more nervous can make you more likely to have nightmares. At least that's what I was told.
 

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Good tips, I really hate waking up in the middle of the night, it takes me forever to fall back asleep! It happens quite often probably because of the pop I'm drinking. I'll follow those tips that can make me fall asleep easier when I do wake up during the night.
 

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Here's a question, why do I sleep great on the tiny cramped couch with the TV on, and toss and turn and wake up multiple times due to dreams when I'm in the big soft bed with silence? I'm desperate enough to just move the dang couch into the bedroom haha, but then there'd be nowhere to sit in the living room...
 

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Here's a question, why do I sleep great on the tiny cramped couch with the TV on, and toss and turn and wake up multiple times due to dreams when I'm in the big soft bed with silence? I'm desperate enough to just move the dang couch into the bedroom haha, but then there'd be nowhere to sit in the living room...
Maybe you spend too much time in your room? It's harder to get comfortable if thats the case. It's kind of like a boredom for your body. It becomes restless from the too familiar environment.
 

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I've always been a bad sleeper, even when I was little. I'm also one of those punks that needs some sort of white noise in the background in order to sleep. That little trait of mine has never been too popular with the ladies.
 

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Maybe you spend too much time in your room? It's harder to get comfortable if thats the case. It's kind of like a boredom for your body. It becomes restless from the too familiar environment.
Interesting thought but I doubt this is the case. The only thing I really do in my room is sleep, except when I go in there to go and stand out on the balcony and people watch lol.
 

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I'm lazy and I have a terrible time sleeping. I take anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour to sleep and then sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night choking on my saliva. I wish I had an easier time sleeping but for me it's just not as refreshing as it should be.
 

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I find aromatherapy to help me relax and sleep better. Lots of pillows make my bed comfortable and room temperature matters. I prefer a colder degree so that I can wrap myself in my down comforter.

If you're really having trouble, go to a doctor. DO NOT TAKE AMBIEN! My doctor put me on it and I was hallucinating within 5 minutes. My walls starting to move and a face came out of my NVIDIA banner. Scary stuff. *shudders*

The best medicine I've found to help with sleeping is Trazodone. No side effects. You wake up feeling great and if someone tries to wake you up, you are able to.

Also, OTC benedryl works too or nyquil. Both have a sleeping side effect and won't hurt you if you take it. =)
 

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You need a woman by your side at night.
This is actually partially true. For men, having an orgasm helps you sleep. Of course I wouldn't suggest this if you have religious/other things telling you not to do that, and I completely understand that, but biologically true.

Let's look at it's biological utility (because it is interesting). Ancestor, let us call him cave man, has been hunting the woolly mammoth all day. He sees woman, woman looks good. He goes through the steps required to have sex with her (can be tiring in themselves). He has sex. Now cave man has spent lots of energy today, hunting, fighting girls, having sex, and he is tired. What's the best way to recover from being tired? Sleep. Thus it became advantageous for a male to have the impulse to sleep after having an orgasm because it is very likely he had very low energy. In this way, males have evolved/adapted (Trying to be politically correct here...) to go to sleep after having an orgasm.

Lucky us.

Unfortunately for women, it is not that way for them. (Although I suppose it could be conditioned that way...)
 

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Actually, that's not true for all women. I have a really easy time sleeping after sex/sexual contact. It makes me very tired and I have fallen asleep in the middle of when I'm by myself. But I always hated driving home after, before my bf got his own apt, because I was so tired that I just wanted to roll over and sleep.
 

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counting backwards from 100 (or counting sheep w/e) can actually help to a degree. im pretty sure we all fall asleep when lost in thought, if you dont concentrate too much on what you're counting but just doing it subconsciously it can help
 
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