Something to think about (and not treat as a rule) is that your impression of somebody is likely their impression of you. Good friends take a long time to make. I probably only have two close friends that I can talk to about anything and I know without a doubt if they or I were in need, the other would do their best to help. We talk only occasionally, but we're there for each other.I personally find it difficult to get good friends. I warm up pretty slowly to new people, and it takes even longer for me to start freely talking about myself, and even longer for me to actively try to arrange stuff to do with them.
I've been told by a lot of people that I didn't appear to be very pleasant when they first met me, lol.
It definitely takes effort, and it's also a skill. Personally, I am extremely self-conscious which is definitely something to avoid when wanting to meet new people. I always thought it was weird... my mom would speak as if she had a lot of friends and yet she never meets with them. Being a little bit older now, I realize life really, really gets in the way. It's kinda why I'm trying hard to meet more people and to explore more hobbies... It's hard to break out your shell as an introvert but just give it a try and you might like it.
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