That was a very long response to my relatively short post. But I'll humour you.
Edit: Looks like I just did the same to you
There's a big difference between honesty and aggression.
Honesty and aggression aren't opposing terms. I didn't say that your post wasn't honest.
Just that it was aggressive, which isn't productive to anything, including your own cause.
People tend to switch off and not take it seriously when they are talked at aggressively. It just makes the aggressor come across as ignorant or malicious (I'm not saying you are either of these things).
At the very least It certainly doesn't come across as wise when you talk with such emotion.
I'll tell you what's "aggressively intolerant" - inflicting horrendous lies of hell and torture on impressionable children without ever teaching them how to negotiate or think critically so that they can grow up and repeat the cycle all over again.
Am I intolerant for attempting to lift a toppled motorcycle off someone's mangled body while they struggle to keep it on? Yes! I'm intolerant of their ridiculous perception of health, intolerant of their apparent desire to trap their own kids under motorcycles, crushing their fragile developing bones, stunted for life.
Alot of emotive language here. Generally indicative of emotional bias.
That first line obviously isn't aggressive intolerance. It's a different issue.
The motorcycle analogy is false.
Firstly, the parents aren't knowingly trying to hurt their children, they're doing what they believe is right.
Secondly, being under a motorcycle implies great pain and disability.
Being a man of science as you are, you should require some evidence that religion does cause great pain and disability to the average believer before claiming so.
This isn't substantial evidence, but as I look around me I see alot of happy religious people with very little limit to their lives due to their religion in the west.
There should also be some evidence that arguing with the person is the best way to free them of their burden (from my anecdotal experience, it's not. I have de-converted someone before).
To play along with the analogy anyway, it's like running up to the motorcycle without first working out the best way to remove it and instinctively trying to kick it off while judging the person trapped for being in that position (without knowing what led them there).
P.S. I dislike analogies. Best tool for deception since false analogies are often hard to spot without careful thought.
The only place to use them is when something is too technical for the listener.
Otherwise, if something can be explained in a true analogy, then you shouldn't need an analogy to explain it in the first place.
You're mixing cause and effect. Ideologically, "us vs. them" arises from a complete lack of principles, there are no external standards or proof between religions, just my fantasy vs. your fantasy. Conflict is inevitable when both sides' screwed up livelihoods depend on the general acceptance of particular flavors of nonsense.
Apologies, but I wasn't able to follow which cause and effect I mixed.
I disagree that it comes from a lack of principles.
I think it's a natural human response when we feel something that's part of our identity being threatened.
That's why directly attacking someone's beliefs/race/other promotes this mentality.
Conflict isn't inevitable. Proof is in the west where religious and non religious people get along fine. People frequently de-convert just by being educated, learning about the world and getting to know people with all kinds of different views (hence the benefit of a tolerant society). Sometimes even intelligent peaceful conversation does it... but in my experience, rarely from aggressive argument because the person being attacked develops emotion even stronger to want to reject what you say.
My solution is introducing a class into school where children are taught critical thinking skills and emotional self-regulation skills. In my opinion this would be far more useful than most classes in the average western curriculum. Could prevent all kinds of mental illness and other issues as well as just making for a more scientific minded generation.
Without reason and evidence to resolve conflicts, society forms hierarchical pecking-orders of dominance and submission instead, it's embarrassingly primal.
If there was a clapping emotion, I would use it now. Excellent point. We need evidence to tell us how to resolve conflicts. Just like with religion, we should use evidence to tell us how to deal with it.
Not just use our instinct which tells us to run up and tackle it head on with aggressive arguments full of accusation and judgement.
Has there ever been a war between scientists? Of course not. If there are any disagreements in science then additional experiments are carried out. All scientists accept the same conclusions supported by incontrovertible reason and evidence.
The scientific community is a wonderful thing. It's a real golden age for discovery and thought.
Like anything though, It's not without its' flaws. The method just reduces bias, it doesn't remove it, so I would never use the word incontrovertible (even though I had to google it
).
Religion (like Statism) is just a collective delusion, it has no methodology for determining truth, anything goes. It is not harmless either, as I have alluded, children suffer the most under these garbage anti-philosophical systems.
I don't disagree with this, just with your emotionally driven unscientific approach to tackling it.
It does make them bad people (at least nowadays or when it's not a matter of survival) there's no excuse for failing to accept the many fallacies and contradictions contained within 'holy texts' - all the information they need to know is easy to find here on the internet.
You were fortunate enough to have the right genes and environment to eventually utilise the internet and learn to think critically on this topic, they weren't that lucky.
It doesn't make them bad people.
Just as it doesn't make you or I bad people that we hold a number of views that are incorrect or even harmful right this moment (we do).
We ALL have a lot to learn and we shouldn't point fingers at those who are behind us in certain aspects.
Religious parents are typically acting in good will by teaching it to their children.
Being quick to judge isn't very compatible with wisdom and generally finds its roots in emotional bias.
Bigoted irrationality (faith/patriotism) is a mental virus because it will only survive for a long as it is continually propagated within children. Otherwise it would literally cease to exist within a few generations.
That would imply that the default human without this "mental virus" is rational.
One alternative way of looking at it could be that we are only now able to overcome irrationality like religion because we are trained in critical thinking throughout our lives. Perhaps human nature tempts us more toward spectacular supernatural explanations? Just a thought.
Also, since when does being "misinformed" or "emotionally compromised" make child abuse acceptable?
Never. But it became a reason not to judge them the moment we realised that it's more beneficial to work with people who have issues or limitations than to blame them.
If they commit acts that aren't compatible with a peaceful society then we punish them through the judicial system as a preventative measure. Not as revenge or because they "deserve" it.
Check again, I never called anyone an idiot. Stop attaching your sense of identity to faulty beliefs and you might not feel insulted when those beliefs are rightfully challenged.
My apologies, you said what they believe is idiotic, not them.
I'm sure I didn't come across as insulted in that post. I'm not even a member of the belief group that you were insulting.
I'm not particularly sure which faulty belief of mine you're referring to that I'm attaching my identity to. But I'd be very willing for you to point it out. I'm also of the philosophy that having strong emotional attachment to beliefs is harmful. So help improving is always welcome.
Unless maybe you mean my belief that aggression is not the best way to tackle irrationality? I'll think about that. But I think it's certainly a more substantiated view than the opposing.
I tend to find that the stronger we feel about something, the more likely we are to be wrong (because bias only comes from emotion). So I usually try to use it as a red flag when I feel strongly about something, to take a step back and try as best I can to objectively scrutinise that belief. Although being human, I often allow biases to sneak up on me without recognising them.
Some of your language gave the impression that you might have some strongish emotional attachments to your beliefs about religion? Might be worth taking that as an opportunity to scrutinise that belief and do a re-take. Even if you come to the same conclusion, you might have a more productive or less emotionally attached take on it afterwards.
Richard Dawkins is a very intelligent man and has powerful verbal skills. But you couldn't say that he's the best at putting aside his emotions on topics he feels passionate about. There are wiser men than him in these intellectual fields.
(Forgive me if I incorrectly assumed you are a fan, some of your terminology seemed plucked straight from his books (i.e. mental virus).
Don't take that I chose your points to pick at personally or get defensive. I engaged you because it's worth it as you value scientific reasoning. Meaning you probably have alot of potential and desire to expand your wisdom and better ability to point out and improve flaws in my own thinking where emotion seeps in.
I think it is typical of someone when they discover atheism to become an evangelist for the cause, especially if they were initially tortured as a child by some of the worst ideas invoked by religion. They even have a name for it, new atheism. There's this feeling that logic is the highest attainment of human beings but in reality, anyone who tells you they are completely logical without a hint of feeling is full of it. It's not that they don't have feelings - they are repressing them, and it is grossly unhealthy.
That being said, I describe myself as not an atheist or a new atheist, but a post-atheist.
This.
But I don't think it's necessarily people who suffered a great deal as a child due to religion.
Truth be told, Lars just reminds me of myself several years ago when I was new to irreligion. It's just exciting being right with actual evidence for a change, and you want to shove it in everyone's face.
In my upbringing I certainly didn't have any experiences you could put the word "torture" to. My parents are quite committed Christians and were great parents and very moral people.