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[Michael the Spikester]

You most certainly aren’t that person any more.
That was really brave and humble of you to apologise to your family like that.
We’ve all been saying this a lot, so it might seem hollow, but best of luck to you.

Thank you. I really appreciate it.

I must say I'm rather proud of myself of how far I've came and looking back at the person I am now.

 

[LetterO]

Good news! I bought the Plant and now I can declare myself a member of Plant Gang.

 

[Deleted member]

I didn't expect it to get so real here. I better go to bed before I start talking about my problems lol

Feel free to share them if you want, though

 

[Deleted member]

Thank you. I really appreciate it.

I must say I'm rather proud of myself of how far I've came and looking back at the person I am now.

You should be proud.
You transformed yourself into a shining member of society.

 

[Deleted member]

Dee Dude i still don’t se shantae as an assist as you said earlier

 

[Noipoi]

I've started a therapy circle

 

[Masked Marshmallow]

Here's JOHNNY from SMRPG, Gex from Gex, and The Composer from TWEWY.

 

[Zinith]

I divulged a little bit, but there's just some info I'm not comfortable divulging...

Like my political leanings for instance...

 

[RyuhoFox]

Thanks. Main issue is that every time I state I’m a Christian, no one really seems to care.
Just cause I’m a Christian doesn’t mean I hate gay people, or anything like that. If your gay, so what? It’s your life, not mine. Christians seem to hate gay people, etc. and it seems that stereotype is also placed upon me.

Honestly i find this to be a problem sometimes. Some pushing for better treatment for their group while treating other groups the same way they were being treated before.

 

[Deleted member]

I've started a therapy circle

Thank goodness.
I feel much less sad now.

 

[Michael the Spikester]

I've started a therapy circle

Just know man. There's people just like the rest of you including me. Millions if not billions around the world. You aren't alone on this.

 

[Graizen]

I've been toaded.

See if you like, i made this for you

 

[Deleted member]

See if you like, i made this for you

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My goodness that is epic.

 

[ZephyrZ]

In situations like this my first instinct is to try to give advice, but unfortunately I don't know enough about the situation to say anything that hasn't been said already. I normally hate just giving cheesy words of encouragement, but hang in their Noipoi and do whatever you think is wisest.

You know, gotta be honest, I’m surprised how many autistic people I meet that have good social skills.

It's not impossible for us to develop social skills, it's just more difficult. That said, I'm far more capable on the internet then if you'd met me in person and I'd assume a lot of others are the same way.

Surprised a bit by the amount of people here who are on the spectrum.

A lot of people with autism are awkward and have a hard time making friends. Since we tend to be obsessive, a lot of us are really nerdy or geeky to. Websites like this naturally attract us.

 

[Deleted member]

I've started a therapy circle

Glad to know about that.
It will help a lot for sure.

 

[Noipoi]

See if you like, i made this for you

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I have no idea what the frick this is but I love it.

 

[Noipoi]

Thank goodness.
I feel much less sad now.

Glad to know about that.
It will help a lot for sure.

No, I mean i've started one here. With all the people sharing their issues.

 

[Deleted member]

I love it.

You and I both.

 

[Shroob]

I'm autistic and I have TERRIBLE social skills. I'm only good online through my pseudonym.

 

[Graizen]

I have no idea what the frick this is but I love it.

It's your avatar xD

 

[Dee Dude]

Dee Dude i still don’t se shantae as an assist as you said earlier

I mean, she’s viable as a fighter and it’d be cool to see her in but you can say that for almost any character who’s stuck in that role.

“I don’t see Shovel Knight as an Assist”

“I don’t see Takamaru as an Assist”

“I don’t see Bomberman as an Assist”

Etc, etc my dude and I was only joking when I said that she was a lock for AT status in next game.

 

[Zinith]

See if you like, i made this for you

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Huh...

 

[TMNTSSB4]

Cutie Gwen

That Batman Beyond movie...ain’t in the works

 

[Deleted member]

Huh...

No one did.
Glad it’s here though.

 

[Just a penguin]

Ignore please

 

[Deleted member]

Ignore please

Delet this.

 

[Deleted member]

Also some people in SmashBoards hate me, because I used to be very obnoxious and annoying. Like a few years ago, a lot of you would hate me.
I can not fix my mistakes, unfortunately.
Sometimes you just have to move on and learn from them.
Also I never had a problem in school. I always had an instinct to be a good student.

 

[KMDP]

has anyone ever been to hungry to cook or is that just me being dumb

I've had this a couple of times.

You feel so hungry that you can't work up the energy to actually make anything.

 

[Deleted member]

Also some people in SmashBoards hate me, because I used to be very obnoxious and annoying. Like a few years ago, a lot of you would hate me.
I can not fix my mistakes, unfortunately.
Sometimes you just have to move on and learn from them.
Also I never had a problem in school. I always had an instinct to be a good student.

That’s understandable.
The feeling of being behind a screen can turn you into a big meanie.
I know this from using Minecraft servers when I was eight years old.
I think most of us regret our younger selves.

 

[Iridium]

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I still think Link's n-air is the only God. We really take those.

 

[Deleted member]

Also some people in SmashBoards hate me, because I used to be very obnoxious and annoying. Like a few years ago, a lot of you would hate me.
I can not fix my mistakes, unfortunately.
Sometimes you just have to move on and learn from them.
Also I never had a problem in school. I always had an instinct to be a good student.

Last year i did dumb stuff here like my first reactions to Piranha Plant and Ultimate Alliance 3, some stupid discussions and even annoying a few users.
But as Alfred Pennyworth said in Batman Begins: “Why do we fall? To learn to get up”.
We made mistakes here for sure, but as persons we have the option to learn from them and work a lot to evolve as a person from our mistakes.
With enough time the site will probably look at me with a better view, and the same will likely apply to you too.

 

[PsySmasher]

Well since we're all discussing our personal lives here, might as well talk about mine:

You all might be surprised to hear that I actually have autism.
Most people don't recognize it until I actually tell them, but yeah, I am autistic.
On top of that, I have celiac disease, meaning I can't eat anything w/ gluten in it (meaning no wheat, barley, or rye).
And I have plenty of other food allergies including pork, seafood etc.
So I can't have the vast majority of things people eat, unless there's an equivalent substitute.

But at the end of the day, I'm still here.
Despite doctors believing I'd never succeed in having a normal life, I've graduated in the top 5% of my 600-person high school class.
I've been accepted into multiple colleges and was almost excepted into multiple Ivy League schools.
And after living by myself for 4 months at college, I managed to get a 3.8 GPA. And I'm still able to enjoy college food despite all my allergies.

It doesn't matter what challenges life throws a you. What matters is how you overcome these obstacles.
My mother and family have supported me my entire life and now I owe it to them to make the most of every second I have here.
People will doubt your abilities, but as long as you have the courage to keep on trying, nothing is going to keep you from reaching your dreams.

So yeah... that's a little something about me you probably didn't expect to know. But I figured since some people are going through some tough times, I'd help give a little bit of encouragement.

 

[Just a penguin]

Noipoi

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[Deleted member]

Spoiler: Since everybody is talking about problems, here's mine.

Since Everybody are talking about their problem may I please? Okay so when I was little my brother and I used to be the bestest of friends and we used to hangout all the time but it all just changed one day I forgot what exactly happened but ever since I was 5 or so my older brother started Abusing me which I don't think I should go into detail with since that's not appropriate for Smashboards but let's just say he took things to the extreme. ever since then I started having Depression and to this day I still do.

fast forward five years ago or so I had a best friend who was paralyzed but I still loved him a lot and he was so cool I used to hang out with him so much but a year later he died and my depression Sparked up but way worse spinning my life into a downward Spiral. I haven't had a friend outside of Family and Family relations since then which made me Socially awkward IRL. Social Awkwardness, Depression and Abused. I had my fair share of Problems in the past. Also I'm sorry if this wasn't appropriate for the forums.

 

[zeldasmash]

In my case: depression and anxiety.

Depression started in 2016 and it started over something that honestly, was my fault. It started due to me developing feelings for a girl...who already had a boyfriend. I did the stupid thing of telling this to her to get it out of my system. The first day, she took it ok. The day after...stuff went down bad. She wanted to completely disassociate herself from me, essentially not wanting to be a friend with me anymore. This broke me because I've never been in this situation until then and I was left in such a wreck I fell into depression for a good 2 months, to the point where I had to go to a psychologist to get better. Thankfully, me and the girl managed to reconcile, but those 2 months have been hell on Earth, especially since I was still grieving of a loss despite it being a year and a half later. However, 2016 made me realize I have a guilt complex and an inferiority complex and the latter is still being quite bad to this day

In 2018, anxiety became an issue when I got my first anxiety attack on March that year due to the amount of college work I had to do. It all got to my head to the point where my mind just couldn't take it and it just broke down. The aftermath was bad enough to the point where I barely ate anything at all for a week and had a drop in blood sugar, which almost took me to the hospital. I the anxiety is also a part of me having a really hard time letting things of the past go. In 2017 something quite serious happened which I am not going to get into (let's just say it almost cost me my entire college life) and I will never forget that event, almost in a traumatic way (not PTSD, but still something very fresh in my mind). Combine that with Hurricane Maria and a heartbreak happening within the Maria period and lets just say that 2017 is lucky it's games were great...

I had to go to a psychologist for a whole year and a half. I'm getting better, but yeah. 2016 and 2017 sucked for me.

 

[Deleted member]

Spoiler: Since everybody is talking about problems, here's mine.

Since Everybody are talking about their problem may I please? Okay so when I was little my brother and I used to be the bestest of friends and we used to hangout all the time but it all just changed one day I forgot what exactly happened but ever since I was 5 or so my older brother started Abusing me which I don't think I should go into detail with since that's not appropriate for Smashboards but let's just say he took things to the extreme. ever since then I started having Depression and to this day I still do.

fast forward five years ago or so I had a best friend who was paralyzed but I still loved him a lot and he was so cool I used to hang out with him so much but a year later he died and my depression Sparked up but way worse spinning my life into a downward Spiral. I haven't had a friend outside of Family and Family relations since then which made me Socially awkward IRL. Social Awkwardness, Depression and Abused. I had my fair share of Problems in the past. Also I'm sorry if this wasn't appropriate for the forums.

Best of luck to you. Hope things get better.

 

[Zinith]

Noipoi

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Messages like this look like a mess when you have the browser collapsed (work stuff)

 

[Graizen]

Well since we're all discussing our personal lives here, might as well talk about mine:

You all might be surprised to hear that I actually have autism.
Most people don't recognize it until I actually tell them, but yeah, I am autistic.
On top of that, I have celiac disease, meaning I can't eat anything w/ gluten in it (meaning no wheat, barley, or rye).
And I have plenty of other food allergies including pork, seafood etc.
So I can't have the vast majority of things people eat, unless there's an equivalent substitute.

But at the end of the day, I'm still here.
Despite doctors believing I'd never succeed in having a normal life, I've graduated in the top 5% of my 600-person high school class.
I've been accepted into multiple colleges and was almost excepted into multiple Ivy League schools.
And after living by myself for 4 months at college, I managed to get a 3.8 GPA. And I'm still able to enjoy college food despite all my allergies.

It doesn't matter what challenges life throws a you. What matters is how you overcome these obstacles.
My mother and family have supported me my entire life and now I owe it to them to make the most of every second I have here.
People will doubt your abilities, but as long as you have the courage to keep on trying, nothing is going to keep you from reaching your dreams.

So yeah... that's a little something about me you probably didn't expect to know. But I figured since some people are going through some tough times, I'd help give a little bit of encouragement.

I want Agumon in Smash, its my dream!

 

[Deleted member]

Spoiler: Since everybody is talking about problems, here's mine.

Since Everybody are talking about their problem may I please? Okay so when I was little my brother and I used to be the bestest of friends and we used to hangout all the time but it all just changed one day I forgot what exactly happened but ever since I was 5 or so my older brother started Abusing me which I don't think I should go into detail with since that's not appropriate for Smashboards but let's just say he took things to the extreme. ever since then I started having Depression and to this day I still do.

fast forward five years ago or so I had a best friend who was paralyzed but I still loved him a lot and he was so cool I used to hang out with him so much but a year later he died and my depression Sparked up but way worse spinning my life into a downward Spiral. I haven't had a friend outside of Family and Family relations since then which made me Socially awkward IRL. Social Awkwardness, Depression and Abused. I had my fair share of Problems in the past. Also I'm sorry if this wasn't appropriate for the forums.

Oh my God.
I am so sorry about all of this.
Are you okay?

 

[Deleted member]

Best of luck to you. Hope things get better.

Thanks dude. Luckily most of the things I mentioned have passed but the effects they left on me were pretty deep. I also have a therapist which helps a lot.

@Thesaurus30 Yeah, Most of the things I mentioned have blown over which is good.