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What are you most excited about for E3?


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Noipoi

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Insecurity?

Why do you think I chose Sobble? :yoshi:

Well, besides being a lizard and all that...
Scorbunny's still full of hope.

That's the life I want back, after it was taken from me.

If you’re genuinely comfortable about opening up, go ahead. Personally, I find it comforting when I’m around people who know about my problems. What’s up?
Nah man, it's cool. I just have no idea how social interaction works.
 
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Nah man, it's cool. I just have no idea how social interaction works.
That’s okay then. If you ever want to talk, we’re all here, and my PMs are open most of the time.
Don’t worry about forcing things upon me, my young mind has gone through its share of crap too (not comparable to yours. Please don’t take that the wrong way.. :))… I think we all have…
 
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I-i'm totally not afraid that my sheltered upbringing will leave me at a permanent social disadvantage, b-baka!
Easy there Chitoge, I’m sure we can help you work through it if you let us.

Let me clear out these ghosts for you all.
I got it man, it’s cool.
 

Zinith

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Can I get sentimental and ****?

Honestly me being a Yoshi uberfan and expressing that love has done wonders for me these past few months. I basically had no idea how I'd move forward with my life until then. So now even if I work at the same job for the rest of my life, I'm happy enough knowing that I can make an impact elsewhere. Thank my boi for that :yoshi:
 

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Knight Dude

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Oh my God, I can't believe it's actually happening:


"Featuring Dante, Nero, and V from the Devil May Cry Series."
Isn't that the one that has Bayo in it too?

Pretty much this.

People will come and go as more Smash information is released.

I personally can't wait for the rampant speculation when we're down to the last character being unrevealed.
"It's got to be X character! Taking a look at all the other DLC picks..."
"There's no way it can be X character! Sakurai said in this one interview *insert cherry-picked Sakurai quote here*"
"I personally think its Y character but I'm not going to provide valid reasons"


The inevitable meltdown when that character is revealed will be great too. I apologize in advance to the mod team.
IS THAT NOT WHAT WE POST FOR?! FOR HYPE! FOR SALT! FOR THEORIES!

BECAUSE WE NO LONGER POST FOR GLORY! SO WE POST FOR WHAT'S LEFT!
 

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I wonder when Squenix is throwing 2B in this one...
At that point, you could probably fit in Raiden somewhere too.

Hell, Ryu Hayabusa would also fit in just fine.

ATLUS, WHERE IS MY DEMI-FIEND PUNCHING CHARACTER ACTION GAME?
 

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How tf do you even get a girl to like you?

What dark magic must I learn?
The same way you get anyone to like you: kindness, diligence, intelligence, common ground, etc. You get a girl to like you just like you'd get any friend to like you. Any attraction or relationship not grounded in that is more than likely superficial and insubstantial. Just be a good person, and other good people will naturally be attracted to it.

The challenge, of course, is in making those connections in the first place. Dating sites and services aren't numerous for no reason; the primary challenge is in meeting and getting to know people well enough for those friendships to form.

And to that end... be careful who you get involved with. I've been quick to get in relationships with people who I probably shouldn't have, only because there was mutual interest and I was lonely. The only thing worse than being in no relationship, is being in a bad one.

why am I still up knowing that my health anxiety is the worst this time of night
Have you tried sleep supplements?
 

Shyy_Guy595

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I'm up because this is what my sleeping schedule has bequeathed.

As for getting girls to like you? Maybe just let it happen naturally? We, as people, don't have to be instantly won over by grand gestures like in the movies. If you're talking to someone and you think they're cool, let that chill and sit in the wonders of sunlight for a bit until it's warm enough to finally consume--finally embracing it after a time well-spent.

Or, you could just have balls and ask out every girl you see, but I've known that to work on RARE occasions, so I wouldn't recommend.
 

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As for getting girls to like you? Maybe just let it happen naturally? We, as people, don't have to be instantly won over by grand gestures like in the movies. If you're talking to someone and you think they're cool, let that chill and sit in the wonders of sunlight for a bit until it's warm enough to finally consume--finally embracing it after a time well-spent.
Okay but like-

Define naturally
 

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I know you're reading this. Vote 2B.
Okay but like-

Define naturally
have you considered

that maybe, they have the same questions about guys that guys do about getting them to like them

and that in the end we're all just oblivious of each other?

and someone could potentially already have a thing for you, but you might not even realize it or believe it
 
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Or, you could just have balls and ask out every girl you see, but I've known that to work on RARE occasions, so I wouldn't recommend.
No thanks. I think I’ll wait ‘til I know I actually want to be with whoever. Shame there are, so far, no genuinely nice girls at my school. Twenties it is, I suppose. 13’s a bit young anyway, if you get my point.
 

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I know you're reading this. Vote 2B.
No thanks. I think I’ll wait ‘til I know I actually want to be with whoever. Shame there are, so far, no genuinely nice girls at my school. Twenties it is, I suppose. 13’s a bit young anyway, if you get my point.
Huh? 13?
That's wayyyy too old.

Why, back in my day, we started in the womb!
We couldn't get their hands off of us! We even had to kick them away!
 
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How tf do you even get a girl to like you?

What dark magic must I learn?
As cliche as it sounds, be yourself. Try and be how you would be around your friends. I can always tell when a guy is putting on airs around me, and it makes things awkward.

If you are as friendly and funny as you are here, being yourself openly should be very attractive. Talk to us like normal people. Find something you have in common.

That’s how I always felt about it anyway.
 

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Time for my monthly period of activity, how's it going, everyone?
 
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Shyy_Guy595

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If I'm honest, I've had no shortage of men that want to get in my pants, but that's not really what I want, and those type of people are who I consider to be more likely to lie and abduct me, so I typically just chat with peeps who are actually interested in more than one thing.

Granted, I suck at being a social person and am fit with insecurities and anxiety, but I try my best not to let that get in the way. And if I do? I'm just happy to be with someone who won't berate me for my mess-ups with ill-intent or condescension. There's group meets I want to attend with some online friends I've known for a while, but I have huge anxiety when it comes to groups of people, and I generally prefer to meet one-on-one with someone I trust; that's just a thing I'll have to work out with time, and to be honest, I've never been as confident as I am now, so hopefully I'll pull through eventually.

But I must say, having that confidence or at least a form of comfort in yourself is paramount toward bettering you, as a person, and social interaction is definitely one of the aspects that can be heightened with this sense of confidence and character; I know first-hand. You also should try and let yourself gradually step outside of your comfort zone a bit, maybe practice incorporating more words into your vernacular for a better time at articulating your thoughts well, and you should do just fine. You don't have to become a comedian or the center of attention to perform well in a social setting--more than anything, It's about being yourself, and if you're struggling, than all it takes is just performing what you believe are the necessary measures towards reevaluating yourself and establishing more substance to the already fluid base.

As for me, trying to incorporate the words I use in text to real life is a hard task since I'm not as articulate as some others and can even stammer or stumble over my own words. I should embrace it, as I can find it cute in others, yet treat myself with more scrutiny. However, I just often feel embarrassed or humiliated when I mess up my speech in whatever way, as I feel it makes me look less composed than others. This is one of the reasons I don't typically like talking too much, as my brain eventually draws a blank on what words to use, and then I just get all discombobulated trying to formulate the right choice of words so as to not be misinterpreted or miscommunicate my feelings. I'm trying to get past this, though, so we'll see where that goes.

Anyways, hope everyone's been having a good night/day.

Okay but like-

Define naturally
As for this? Again, just be yourself. If you see a girl who you're really attracted to, but you don't have it in you to tell her, then don't. Sexual attraction isn't the base you want to build a relationship upon, unless strictly wanting a friends with benefits thing, but dating apps would be more helpful in that department, honestly. But yeah, you want to get to know that person, and if they don't approach you or seem interested in you, then don't force an image of yourself onto them that'll get them to start liking you; it's just much more likely that fate didn't have you two destined for each other. Likewise, if YOU can't approach someone else, then it's not your fault, and you can choose whether you want to work on that or not. Introversion is a thing, and it is completely fine, as society works on a scale of balance where the people who are interested in you are going to approach you, and those people are more likely to become friends by nature, rather than some forced interest with the uninterested person. Yes, introversion has its fair share of cons, but believe it or not, no one wants a highly energetic monologue constantly at their ears, either. And again, if you want to exhibit and adapt more extroverted traits, feel free to try and garner the information needed, as there's plenty of insightful people out there, and even entire guides and videos made to help. Don't be defeated if something doesn't work out, either, as that only gives you more incentive to try again and learn the mistakes.
 
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