I don't like how controversial Fire Emblem has gotten.
The gameplay is amazing and every game has a decent amount of well written characters.
But every time it comes up, I have to defend the "Waifu-aspect" against someone...
The question is simple yet confronting: would you rather look at an atractive girl or an ugly girl.
Yes, in some instances there are extremes, but let's be real. Look at anime, at female super heroes or even at actresses cast in more "serious" media.
No I'm not saying that the sexualised designs in FE are good. I'm saying that the series doesn't warrant the extreme negative response it's been getting.
An important reason why FE stands out so much is because every game has a enormous cast do if the relative amount of "sexy" characters stays the same you're gonna have multiple "offenders" per game.
And let's be realer. It's not Just the women in FE, the men are all impossibly handsome too. Again, that doesn't make it right. I Just want to point out that FE design isn't sexist, it's Just sexual.
And yes, the creators know damn well what they're doing. Look at Fates: two paths and each path has exactly 2 overly busty female units as exclusives.
Now I will admit I do enjoy having good looking women in my game. I don't have sexual fantasies about them though. That's actually a VERY small part of the fanbase.
Edit: Ignore Heroes, that case gives me a headache