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What happened to make you feel this way? (Sorry gtg bed)
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The Unhappy Thread
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Most people hate me.
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dezeray112
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How come?
Probably because i'm unnattractive. Idk. It's very hard to tell.
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But KK is so cute. Don't break the rules and the higher ups will have no reason to dislike you.
Well, I meant in real life and Smashboards, but I guess you're right about the mods. Thank you.
That's just your opinion and of course I'm right. Attractiveness is so unimportant though. It's your attitude and values that matter.
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Froggy
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And Cyndane herself is probably very attractive. I hate when pretty people spout this hypocritical bull**** as if they have any idea what they're talking about.
Temkin
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Nebraska smash scene is awful. Most people running it are cocky and ignorant. The "amazing" stream of TVR just buys expensive equipment and doesnt know how to use it. And brag all day about how amazing they are.
And I just have to sit here and be the enemy of the whole group because I guess playing a game you like and not spending all day whinning about smash 4 vs melee is stupid.
**** Nebraska. No one come here.
And I just have to sit here and be the enemy of the whole group because I guess playing a game you like and not spending all day whinning about smash 4 vs melee is stupid.
**** Nebraska. No one come here.
And Cyndane herself is also probably very deaf. So she likely has also had a hard time finding acceptance from other people regardless of how she looks.
But I'm sure you knew that already because you probably know everything about me, right?
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Just like other people shouldn’t criticize you about being deaf, you shouldn’t criticize other people about coming to terms with their appearance.
Except I was not being critical, I was trying to be positive and nice about it because the poor guy was feeling down on himself.
Look, I don't want to be pulled into an argument about the merits of being civil to someone and offering kind words. Regardless of what you will say to me, I'll always believe that offering kindness is better than ignoring a person that is feeling downtrodden and in the dumps. I apologize if I've offended your sensibilities in some way, it was not my intention.
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One of those days where the world just seems empty. Nothing can keep my attention for longer than 2 minutes, no music seems to be stimulating me, just keep skipping to the next song, and I keep walking around aimlessly. I can't fall asleep, but there's nothing I want to do. I just want to fix myself, but I can't seem to find where I'm broken. Best part is tomorrow is my birthday. 18 years wasted, here's to 18 more.
Keep your chin up, tomorrow will hopefully be a better day. Keep your hopes up. Happy early 18th. Try not to get in trouble now. You go to grown up jails now.
I know how that feels sometimes. It honestly feels like everyone around me isn't aware how empty I feel sometimes.
Certainly doesn't help that my family hates me also. Good thing i'll move out in 3-4 years.
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You just don't feel appreciated? You feel like no matter how hard you try to please everyone or be there for them, they just don't care? Because that's exactly what I'm going through.
Sometimes that is not something you can change. Sometimes people take other people for granted. But you have to realize that you won't ever always make everyone happy. Take a look at what happened earlier in here. I tried being nice and making @
AnchorTea
feel better. In the process of doing that, I made someone else unhappy. Just don't try so hard. You are trying so hard to make EVERYONE happy and you are downing on yourself because you aren't succeeding with everyone. If you can make just one person happy, then you have accomplished something good.
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Yeah. But those people you invest so much time with, you just want them to appreciate you for what you've done. Y'know? I can seem to get everyone else to appreciate me, but not the ones I want to appreciate me. Maybe I'm just being selfish or too critical, but I feel like I'd be so much happier if they gave me the attention I wanted from them.Sometimes that is not something you can change. Sometimes people take other people for granted. But you have to realize that you won't ever always make everyone happy. Take a look at what happened earlier in here. I tried being nice and making @
You'll never be happy if that is the attitude you have towards them. Stop doing whatever you are doing to try and earn their approval. Maybe then, they will appreciate what you do after you are not doing it anymore.
Well, my family thinks of me as a loser who only cares about video games. My Mother only remembers me when I wasn't a teen and, my sister takes advantage of me, and is flat-out rude.
I recently got in big trouble just because of Smash Bros. They think that I am worthless because of that game, but competitive Smash is something that i've always wanted to do thanks to @zeezee. Besides, I don't really have any good talent. The only thing i'm slightly talented at is acting. Thats about it.
To make things worse, my Mother has verbal turrets. So when I make a slight mistake in the house (Like I accidently dropped a glass of beverage) she blurts out many curse words and gets extremely angry at me. My sister doesn't give a damn about me, she is 18 and rather live by herself and smoke weed everyday. She thinks of me as an obstacle, or just someone to avoid.
And a lot of people at my High School despise me. They don't care about a ****ing fatass like me. I am never taken seriously due to how I look. And the teachers just LOVE taking anger out on me.
So... Yea.... My life is **** also.
Life can be tough when you are young. Just remember, that high school BS ends on the last day of school. I know it is hard to think that far ahead sometimes, but it comes and goes so fast. I'm sorry to hear about your mother's tourette's, I'm sure that can be frustrating. But you can't hold that against her. If she has tourette's then it is out of her control rather than out of malice. Hopefully your sister will grow out of that phase and appreciate you. It is hard being a sibling sometimes, and siblings can treat each other horribly. I have a sister too, so I know.
If playing smash competitively makes you happy, then don't worry about what everyone else thinks. Move out of your house when you are able and then no one can judge you or your choices. You just got to make it out of school then it is up to you to make things happen for yourself.
Edit: If your teachers are really like that, then they are terrible teachers. @Hong would likely agree with me there.
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MewtwoMaster2002
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Smash Bros>smoking weed. Also, your school needs better teachers. Teachers are supposed to inspire their students.
Glad to see no one is feeling bad today. Hope everyone has a great day and a wonderful weekend.
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My parents are arguing again... I talk to them about it and they said that they were sorry but they said that sometimes that in order to figure it out is to argue about it? WHAT. I did say that there were a million times way to deal with certain issues but they said sometimes there isn't? I don't understand their mindset...
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Sounds strange, but I think heated arguments can have merit. Sometimes people just have to vent.
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They have been argue a lot quite recently TBH and it's really annoying and sometimes it can get super intense. They sometimes all ways argue about the same issue and this has gotten worse since like July 2014. They kind of did it in the holidays and it got very bad in December. I am really sick of it and i can't believe i am saying this but i hope i never become like my parents when i am older...
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dezeray112
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*sighs* its been quite a rough week for me. Hopefully after next Tuesday, things will get better for me.
And yes I have started revising as well.
And yes I have started revising as well.
All you can do is learn from their mistakes if you can recognize them.
Edit: I hope everyone is having a wonderful evening.
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What happened this time?
You will hate me if I told you.
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No seriously i won't i want to help you.
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The best advice i can give out is if you do mini-mod (Cyndane said that it is best not to mini-mod) again that you should maybe be a little bit more nice next time. I don't hate you for this in fact it's best to learn from your mistakes and make sure that it doesn't happen again kind of like learning Smash.
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It is just the way you approached it. What you should have done is just reported the message and explain in the report reason box that the thread was in the wrong area. The best thing you can do is take the high road, do the right thing, and apologize. What you said there came off as kind of spiteful and mean-spirited. Mods also don't appreciate non-mods enforcing the rules. Report it to them and you have done your part. I know that you were trying to do the right thing. It was just the way you went about it that created the problem.
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I know I was rude. I just didn't know mods didn't appreciate mini-mods. Shaya said that it is fine doing this. So I did.
What I thought was going to happen was that I make the reply (and you can tell that I hate people who don't read the rules) and a Mod would lock it. That didn't happen though. And then things just started to collapse.
I'm sure it was not your intent to be rude.
It might be ok, but there is the potential for more problems to arise when a regular member starts spouting rules. That can lead to arguments from other people. Normal members do not tend to start arguments with mods. If you want to avoid that type of thing like I surely do, it is better to just report it. That is what the option is there for. Otherwise you run the risk of doing exactly as you just did.
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Wasn't a race.Like what Cyndane said it's best not to mini-mod and if you feel like that a post is going against the rules. It is recommended to report it (@Cyn you beaten me to it!)
Edit: I am going to bed now. See ya!
But I win.
Edit : I hope everyone is enjoying their day.
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Gutei
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As someone who went through hell in high school and is now just about to teach full-time in a high school... I'm afraid it doesn't stop in high school. Or, at least, a lot of teachers in high schools (at least in rural PA) are the same as the students. People are just petty, generally.
That's why I like teaching music. You're more likely to find someone who is loving what they're doing (stressed out to the max, though, of course) than someone who just sulks and is a jerk. Of course, we get treated like crap by most, but we love our job material at least.
That's why I like teaching music. You're more likely to find someone who is loving what they're doing (stressed out to the max, though, of course) than someone who just sulks and is a jerk. Of course, we get treated like crap by most, but we love our job material at least.