At tournaments, you have the chance to play dozens of casual matches...
As much as it sucks to play your friends, it's really not that big a deal.
I mean, in a tournament match, you're going to strive to win, without thinking about how to improve, so either way playing your friends, or some other person won't have an effect soon after.
Maybe it my amp you into becoming a better player, but so can friendly matches.
Some people just need things to complain about to spice things up. Instead of whining about brackets, or how people are lame, why not say something positive and make a few friends? There are a ton of cool people in the smash community, and by being annoying you're setting yourself back.
Count your blessings kids, for they are many.
Also, try not to be intimidated by some of the high ranking smashers. About 75% of them are really cool, and if you ask them for a match, odds are they'll oblige. They will usually answer any questions you have as well.
There are just too many people vying for that lone wolf/James Dean role these days. Not enough people want to just be kind. I mean, I know nice guys finish last... But who would want to lose that, just to be in first?
But, yeah... Let's move on. Howabout we talk about that crazy delicious Strawberry Shake?