Joe, the only reason I "haven't been responded to texts, answering my phone, or coming to stuff" as you put it is because of other plans that I am 100% sure I have told you all about in advance. Like, that I was going to Iowa this weekend, or that I was going to be playing poker that one night, or I told Nick that I was going to be hanging out with Kirk one night. I usually turn my phone off during smash events, I didn't hear a single call or text during cards, and we were watching movies at Kirk's and I couldn't hear my phone there either. Whatever though, I can't be free 100% of the time, just like you can't be. Probably would respond to texts if they were more than "go to Ryan's, and I don't see it till the next day, or would call back if my phone told me there were missed calls and I didn't get texts about smash at the same time. I'm positive I'm not the only one who doesn't respond to calls or texts instantly while they have other stuff going on and you know it's about smash.
Your post came to me in a negative way. If it wasn't intended to, then please clear it up. If you truly were being an ***, then get over yourself.