I really don't hate feminists. But with that said, I think they are pushing the wrong ideals.
Rather then trying to show that males and females are equal, they instead are trying to push for every girl to be some mary sue perfection.
I mean, look at how many times they complain about "Ditzies", "Damsels", and "Sexualized," girls. I mean, I'm all for having stronger female characters, but, why do we have to get rid of all the "weak" ones?
Some girls don't want to save the world, or focus on kicking everyone ass. Some girls just want to have fun. Be playful. Are you also trying to tell me that every girl knows how/has the ability to escape a kidnapping?
Why do we have to get rid of all these different types of people? Because they make 'em look bad? Well tough luck. These kind of girls exist in the real world as well. You can't just erase them.
Also, looking at Zero Suit heels discussion, the argument seems to be that since Samus is some sort of superhuman, she doesn't need the heels. However, she is a living being, she has limits. The heels allow her to past those limits that she once had.
It really just seems that the feminists just want a quick and strong way to show the world that they are equal to men. I can't really blame them for wanting that, but this is just bad.