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You didn't explicitly state it, but if you think that you are allowed to get married and they aren't you clearly think your sexual orientation is better than theirs.Did I say they were inferior? No, but, as someone had said on another site, "the parts fit for a reason", my real reason for hating it is the sex implications, and the fact that people sometimes not use the "default" (if you know what I mean) kind it's very offputting to me, even when it's in between a heterosexual pair.
There's a big difference: being gay is not a choice. Yeah I understand you might not like people because of their choices, but not liking someone because of something beyond their control is just as bad, to me, as not liking someone for being mentally ******** or something along those lines.I have a similar standpoint with drugs, if one of my friends started to take, erm, stuff (I don't mind beer or wine drinkers at all) I'd most likely not stick around them much longer if I knew. Though that is more-or-less because I don't want to become addicted to ANYTHING of the sort like that, especially when it's not actually legal.
As sad as it is to say it, friends are not always forever, one of my very best friends for many years suddenly started to hate me for no apparent reason a couple years ago, and he never talked to me again. I never did find out what was wrong and neither did any of my other friends.
Well it IS better because people, including gays, wouldn't exist without heterosexual orientation.You didn't explicitly state it, but if you think that you are allowed to get married and they aren't you clearly think your sexual orientation is better than theirs.
lol 10lolzThere's a big difference: being gay is not a choice.
How is that seriously beyond their control? That's like saying "I prefer bacon to porkchops, so I will NEVER choose porkchops over bacon because it is a mentally implausible and would be the equivalent of me dividing by zero".Yeah I understand you might not like people because of their choices, but not liking someone because of something beyond their control is just as bad, to me, as not liking someone for being mentally ******** or something along those lines.
you have got to be kidding meI'd rather have it banned in the whole country, it's not even funny or natural.
It saddens me that it's becoming legal in more and more countries (not saying it wasn't already legal at the point of this overturning) and I don't really understand why they feel they have to do that. I understand religious differences but this is totally unexceptable imo. especially since comics and tv shows are starting to shove it down our throats too.
I'm glad none of my friends are *** because they wouldn't be friends for much longer if they were . . . . .
As for P8 conflicting with an already existing statement, I'm going to remain more-or-less silent on how I feel about the 14th Amendment basically being twisted to endorse homosexuality, but from the rest of the post it should be pretty easy to determine my standing.
oh i see. You really aren't kidding.It just extremely disturbs me, especially since it, at least when it comes to males, eventually will probably imply that they will . . . . well . . . . I'm not going to say, but you probably know what I mean when it comes to sex.
I think this, along with a few of crashic's post, is one of my favorite posts regarding prop 8. Maybe ubermario will read it when he gets the chance. Maybe.I don't know who is a troll or who isn't, so I'm going to play it straight.
Legislation is evaluated on the basis of rational values; in order for a law to be effective, it is judged based on how beneficial it is to society in concrete terms. Judge Walker overturned Prop 8 because he found that it failed the rational basis test, the lowest level of requirement for a law.
Even if same-sex marriage were made legal, it would not in any way hinder the rights of individuals to live according to their private morals, whether those morals support or condemn homosexual behavior. Even if same-sex marriage were legal, you as an individual still have the right to be a bigot. You can break ties with former close friends, disown your own family members and children who are of legal age, and refuse to associate with anyone who practices a lifestyle you disagree with. The only exception being if you are employed as an agent of the government or in the field of medicine or something of that nature. But your line of work is your choice, and it is your responsibility to choose a line of work that does not conflict with your personal beliefs.
Alternatively, a same-sex marriage ban would hinder the rights of certain individuals to live according to their morals.
Judge Walker's decision included the statement that private morals alone are not sufficient to form the basis of legislation. There must be something else, something that can be more quantitatively measured as either beneficial or detrimental to the government or to society to justify the state investing time and money into enforcing a piece of legislation. In this case, he found there to be none.
That's like saying that black people are better than white people because without black people white people wouldn't exist.Well it IS better because people, including gays, wouldn't exist without heterosexual orientation.
Wow are you seriously that dumb?lol 10lolz
Let me turn the tables on you: would you do it with a guy? No, and that's exactly how it is with them and females. Your analogy makes no sense.How is that seriously beyond their control? That's like saying "I prefer bacon to porkchops, so I will NEVER choose porkchops over bacon because it is a mentally implausible and would be the equivalent of me dividing by zero".
A few things. Our mouths aren't really designed for kissing... but we do it anyway. The top half of the female anatomy aren't designed for being played with... but people do it anyway. Oh and eat lots of fiber and something much larger than most people's ..... will exit there...It just extremely disturbs me, especially since it, at least when it comes to males, eventually will probably imply that they will . . . . well . . . . I'm not going to say, but you probably know what I mean when it comes to sex.
Hmm ok. You do know that there are a bunch of homosexual couples who dislike that and don't even do it there. Unless you want to hate on oral now. If that's the case then there really isn't any use in debating that subject.Did I say they were inferior? No, but, as someone had said on another site, "the parts fit for a reason", my real reason for hating it is the sex implications, and the fact that people sometimes not use the "default" (if you know what I mean) kind it's very offputting to me, even when it's in between a heterosexual pair.
A few things... that guy probably wasn't your best friend then...I have a similar standpoint with drugs, if one of my friends started to take, erm, stuff (I don't mind beer or wine drinkers at all) I'd most likely not stick around them much longer if I knew. Though that is more-or-less because I don't want to become addicted to ANYTHING of the sort like that, especially when it's not actually legal.
As sad as it is to say it, friends are not always forever, one of my very best friends for many years suddenly started to hate me for no apparent reason a couple years ago, and he never talked to me again. I never did find out what was wrong and neither did any of my other friends.
You do know there is also a theory about an evolutionary advantage to having gays in the population? Aparently gay men have sisters who are incredibly fertile...Perhaps, but I just in general don't like it even without thinking from a religious standpoint.
Also, what I meant by "it's not even funny" is that it seems more and more shows use a gay character for comedic purposes. (See CollegeHumor, Family Guy, etc.) "Natural" might not have been the best word to put since there are homosexual animals (and I don't mean earthworms and snails), but the percentage of homosexual people in the world population in comparison with that documented in animals is strikingly higher.
By far it does not. If EVERYONE in the world was gay, how many people would exist in 100 years?That's like saying that black people are better than white people because without black people white people wouldn't exist.
Your statement implies that gay people are magnitized to others of their own gender and have absolutely no form of self-prevention or the ability to think about their actions.Wow are you seriously that dumb?
Once again, your statement implied they have no self-control. There IS a difference between CHOICE and INVOLUNTARY.Let me turn the tables on you: would you do it with a guy? No, and that's exactly how it is with them. Your analogy makes no sense.
(I'll reply to the rest in a moment)Earthworms and snails cannot be called homosexuals...
Plenty of (if not a majority) of heterosexual couples will have anal sex as well, should they not be allowed to marry then?It just extremely disturbs me, especially since it, at least when it comes to males, eventually will probably imply that they will . . . . well . . . . I'm not going to say, but you probably know what I mean when it comes to sex.
Yep, but I'd argue that it's the minority not the majority. For most animals monogamy didn't fit. It depends completely on the evolution/habitats species are brought up in, but I don't think we need to get into that.That actually isn't true, birds of prey in particular mate for life, as do several other species.
Parts fit all over the place. Do you not agree with oral sex either, or masturbation? Just curious.Did I say they were inferior? No, but, as someone had said on another site, "the parts fit for a reason", my real reason for hating it is the sex implications, and the fact that people sometimes not use the "default" (if you know what I mean) kind it's very offputting to me, even when it's in between a heterosexual pair.
Drugs are a little bit different, as it is more destructive behavior (or at least it can be), whereas someone being gay doesn't really affect you in any way, shape, or form. It's not like gay guys go around constantly trying to have sex with their male friends, and even if that was the case, you could very well have female friends that would try to do the same thing.I have a similar standpoint with drugs, if one of my friends started to take, erm, stuff (I don't mind beer or wine drinkers at all) I'd most likely not stick around them much longer if I knew. Though that is more-or-less because I don't want to become addicted to ANYTHING of the sort like that, especially when it's not actually legal.
As sad as it is to say it, friends are not always forever, one of my very best friends for many years suddenly started to hate me for no apparent reason a couple years ago, and he never talked to me again. I never did find out what was wrong and neither did any of my other friends.
That's what I was getting at, no I do not, neither that nor the one that goes to the other side.Do you not agree with oral sex either?
Well here's the thing, the exit isn't meant to be an entrance. The first two are [a comparatively mild] sensory stimulus than anything.A few things. Our mouths aren't really designed for kissing... but we do it anyway. The top half of the female anatomy aren't designed for being played with... but people do it anyway. Oh and eat lots of fiber and something much larger than most people's ..... will exit there...![]()
Not much to say here.Hmm ok. You do know that there are a bunch of homosexual couples who dislike that and don't even do it there. Unless you want to hate on oral now. If that's the case then there really isn't any use in debating that subject.
Not always, but to most people it is, or at the very least to live in the same house.Oh, and this has nothing to do with marriage by the way. Gays will have sex no matter what you do... ban marriage or not. Marriage isn't about the sex, dear boy.
We did lots of sports, gaming, and the like together for nearly a decade, and he didn't know anything about my views if you are referring to this. It's not like I "stole" his GF or anything like that. I try my best not to offend, though it might not come out as such in this thread in particular due to my sentiments.A few things... that guy probably wasn't your best friend then...
That or maybe he was seriously offended by your views.
I definitely help my friends, what I meant by the drug thing was that if they were trying to get me to do drugs WITH them (like consistently), then the friendship would probably not last. Sometimes it's easy to get them out of the wrong crowd, other times you cannot change their ways. I've known both.And I find it sad you'd abandon a friend who would need some serious aid. I've been there... and had people help me out.
Sounds pretty farfetched (though plausible if you consider female hormones), but I'd be very curious if this were in fact proven true somewhere. Not to be a "proof or it doesn't exist" statement, but could you post a link to said theory?You do know there is also a theory about an evolutionary advantage to having gays in the population? Aparently gay men have sisters who are incredibly fertile...
Subject to opinion, I will not argue here because different people find different things funny.Oh and btw. Gay humor is funny. I find it funny. Gays find it funny.
Yes, because being gay is a choice. Same with being black or mentally ********.ol 10lolz
http://www.sensualism.com/gay/gene.html
http://www.nytimes.com/1991/12/17/science/gay-men-in-twin-study.html
Just want to get this out there... being gay has been proven to be largely genetic through multiple studies. These are two excellent studies on the subject, and I can provide more if need be.
lol 10lolz
Well that's mostly true. 95% percent of the issue I have with it is indeed sex. The other 5% can pretty much be summed up with "do you really have to kiss here?", which of course I wouldn't say. I can understand guys/gals being close friends with other guys/gals, but I don't really see the point in going beyond that:Uber come back. Can you actually talk about marriage? You can't ban sex, and it seems like that's all you have a problem with.
Well you can have romantic feelings without being married, marriage, when boiled down is pretty much meant to be three things:it just seems apparent that the only thing marriage is good for, or perhaps in his viewpoint endorses, is sex.
But you can choose not to be gay with someone else, just like if a guy likes a girl he does have the choice not to go out with her.
Actually, what he replied to you is actually true. Being gay is not a choice. You simply can't decide one day that you're gay and the next go back to being straight.
Now, to what this has turned into, I thought this was supposed to be a joyous occasion for my manos, but somehow this has turned into a gay marriage argument.
You do realize there are tax benefits and the like for being married? Which is a big reason that homosexual couples want marriage?Well that's mostly true. 95% percent of the issue I have with it is indeed sex. The other 5% can pretty much be summed up with "do you really have to kiss here?", which of course I wouldn't say. I can understand guys/gals being close friends with other guys/gals, but I don't really see the point in going beyond that:
Money? If children [adopted] aren't in the equation, it basically becomes one taking money from the other, which can be shared without being married.
Housing? You don't need to be married in love to live in the same facility. (Example: Dormitories usually involve housing the same gender in one room, but not because of their orientation)
But you can choose not to be gay with someone else, just like if a guy likes a girl he does have the choice not to go out with her.
While two "different" subjects, they are intertwined with each other.Well you really can't ban sex. It happens.
Sex and marriage should be different entities. I don't see why you lumped them, and I don't know why your thoughts about sex should prevent you from supporting them getting married.
Are you saying that gay marriage is mostly wanted for monetary reasons then?You do realize there are tax benefits and the like for being married? Which is a big reason that homosexual couples want marriage?
How exactly does it not make sense? It's not like you walk up to a person and you are automatically married. You have to ask them out if marriage ever comes to play [forced marriages don't count], which is where choice comes into play.
Ubermario, that makes no sense what you said right there. There are several factors why another gay person wouldn't go out with another man/woman, just like there's several factors of why a straight person wouldn't go out with somebody of the opposite gender. Not to be against you or anything, but I've noticed how ridiculous some of your arguments have been.
I see it as this: if someone is oriented towards their own gender but choose to remain single for life, they aren't truly gay then. (Though they might still be in the general sense, ifthey chose not to date other people "like them" then I have absolutely no issue.Uber I have no idea what that has to do with anything. We're saying gays don't have a choice to BE GAY, not that they don't have a choice about who to be gay with.
I don't see where you're getting this from.
This makes no sense, If you are gay you do the same thing a straight guy does with a girl as a gay man does with a guy, it is all about attraction, you are attracted to girls the same way a homosexual man is attracted to guys. Are you saying gays should not be able to love like straights do?How exactly does it not make sense? It's not like you walk up to a person and you are automatically married. You have to ask them out if marriage ever comes to play [forced marriages don't count], which is where choice comes into play.
Like I said (or at least I think I said this before), I never mentioned my viewpoint on this subject because it never actually came up. When he started to stop talking to me he went to a different school, but everytime we'd meet after he switched schools he wanted nothing to do with me. (Because we still went to the same sports clubs and other local activities)did you ever think your friend stopped talking to you because of how judgemental you are?
Alright, I found the ones that I haven't so here are my replies to them:Uber, I'd like you to address my posts if you'd like. I'm not trying to be confrontational, just curious as to why you think the way you do.
I'm against the practice of that, and if that was the only reason they married then yes, however, for most it is not.Plenty of (if not a majority) of heterosexual couples will have anal sex as well, should they not be allowed to marry then?
Most of the monogamous pairs of animals are on the top of the food chain (with a few exceptions, like pigeons [to a degree] and ducks) and thus are less likely to lose their mate. Lions and Wolves count aswell to a degree because they male and females work together and do not abandon each other unless the male is ursuped from his command by another male, but by then it's not really his choice anymore. For lower animals, like rabbits, it endangers the animals to travel together so they rarely see each other again.Yep, but I'd argue that it's the minority not the majority. For most animals monogamy didn't fit. It depends completely on the evolution/habitats species are brought up in, but I don't think we need to get into that.
The former, no I do not, the latter can be due to a physical disorder so I'm not going to say it's wrong.Parts fit all over the place. Do you not agree with oral sex either, or masturbation? Just curious.
(Not to seem like peer pressure, but) many people would change their stance on how they view you depending on what your freinds are like, and I just don't want to be associated with homosexuality (as in he's hanging out with homos so he's probably a homo too). Also, the liklihood of becoming homosexual is far higher if constantly around those kind of people than if you are not. That is one of my biggest fears, call it a phobia if you will.Drugs are a little bit different, as it is more destructive behavior (or at least it can be), whereas someone being gay doesn't really affect you in any way, shape, or form. It's not like gay guys go around constantly trying to have sex with their male friends, and even if that was the case, you could very well have female friends that would try to do the same thing.
From the first article, if you noticed, they genetically-engineered the flies to use a gene of the opposite sex, they weren't bred to do so.http://www.sensualism.com/gay/gene.html
http://www.nytimes.com/1991/12/17/science/gay-men-in-twin-study.html
Just want to get this out there... being gay has been proven to be largely genetic through multiple studies. These are two excellent studies on the subject, and I can provide more if need be.
You do know that women can enjoy oral/anal sex as well. :\It just extremely disturbs me, especially since it, at least when it comes to males, eventually will probably imply that they will . . . . well . . . . I'm not going to say, but you probably know what I mean when it comes to sex.
That's not marriage. That's procreation.That actually isn't true, birds of prey in particular mate for life, as do several other species.
You have usually just responded to one or two sentences in them.I have, unless you are referring to one-or-two that I [assume I] skipped without noticing.
*editing, just a few minutes please*
Why don't they just have a separate thing for gay people called "Garriage" (as opposed to marriage), and give them the same financial/adoption rights that married people have?
That way the red necks will be happy because the "Sanctity of Marriage" will be protected (they oddly aren't opposed to marrying their siblings).
Then the gay people can just have big parties which can be the equivalent of weddings, and they get all of the same rights that straight people have, just with a different name.
Then over time, the red necks will realize how stupid they are, and just call it marriage.