I knew the name looked familiar. You're the guy who did the "Melee is a Beautiful Accident" video.
Disagree with a few points, but I enjoyed it.
Yeah I'm that fellow. I know where I messed up and have received the brunt of criticisms. Some things weren't said well enough and I apparently trash talked Melee blah blah. After the mistakes there I try to do better with my future stuff. But thanks!
I totally woke up late and missed the relationship part of the discussion, then it skipped to anime oops
I've been in a 2 hour away relationship before. It didn't help the girl has anger issues, daddy issues, was on the pills so emotionally she was off the wall ... euh let's not revisit it. Point being is that relationship broke my heart. She cheated on me and somehow it was my fault. If I ever got mad at her for anything it would be the end of the world, but every little thing she did i brushed off because, like Soft said, I can't hold grudges and especially for petty ****. We didn't see eachother for months because if I came to see her she "wouldn't be able to pick up the pieces when I left." Jesus, why did I do that. After her, I've broken out of the ability to fall "head over heels" in love. Doesn't exist.
So that's over thankfully, and I've found myself a wonderful girl. It's moreso wonderful because we're very alike and after a period of awkwardness and not being fully open, we've broken that boundary and are really tight now. We don't really follow how-to-be-a-couple and it's moreso we're two people who enjoy eachothers company and are romantically involved with eachother. We hardly get into fights because we're both smarter then to get mad over silly stuff and if there is I'll say flat out and fix it there. We both also are independent and lead different lives - she never played Smash since I met her, but she's accepting of my weird habits. I make it sound great but I know where there are problems and understand we could not work in a year or so. But life is life.
Sorry, totally being "that guy" saying "oh, look at me and my perfect relationship"" but it's far from perfect. I agree with what Canon moreless. Write your own story and don't be hindered by predispositions of how a couple "should" be. Just, y'know, if you click, it's great.