Here's how I look at it. And its not directed to Aussie, Yomi, or anyone. Its a general opinion on a relevant subject.
If you're response to being called out on something is to tell the other person how much you're life sucks, that means you're using your sadness as a means to gain pity, an excuse of being whatever they accuse you of, or the like.
I've lost everything over the course of five years, but if I'm being a sarcastic asshole, which is an occasional thing I know I'm known for, and I'm called out for it? I'm not going to tell them I'm in such a dire state just to get a free pass.
We all got problems, and there are better ways of handling them.
Don't reply to this. This is just me getting weight off my chest. I'm sure there are those who will disagree, but know I'm not looking to prolong this.