Well, I actually try to explain stuff and make people understand why Xenoblade 2 is the way it is. I draw the line when people cherrypick parts of my arguments to justify themselves. It's a fallacy and ruins any actual debate.
Not a lot of people are into Japanese media, especially a lot of video game fans that aren't into JRPGs, anime, manga, etc. Which is totally fine, but there are a lot of misconceptions and I'm trying to use my familiarity with them to explain why these things happen. I never even once said whether I agree with it or not because I'm trying to be objective here.
I'm not even fond of the gratuitous sexualization I see in a lot of Japanese media, but at this point, I've grown indifferent about it and ignore it in favor of a work's actual merits, i.e. production values, narrative, gameplay, art direction outside of sexualized characters, animation quality, sound design or music. And I'm indifferent because, as I said, it's literally almost everywhere.
Of course, for many people, it's easier to ignore the experiences of people who actually know, by brushing their argumentation aside and calling them "weebs" as if that somehow invalidates their arguments. Why bother making an effort in arguing, provide evidence of the contrary when you can stoop low to calling names and act like a child, am I right?
This is why I don't interact with the gaming community that often anymore. It's full of children who can't have a civilized discussion.