I refuse to have standards.
I refuse to have a sense of morals and boundaries.
I refuse to be intolerant or unaccepting of anything.
I refuse to have limits on what should be acceptable.
I refuse to hate.
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You can disapprove of something without being spiteful.
You can disapprove of something without stereotyping everyone in a group.
You can disapprove of something without treating people like they are less than human.
Jesus hung out with all of the most despised scum in the land and had compassion for them. Martin Luther King Jr. dreamed of a country where children of all races could play together. But I get the feeling people on both sides of the fence wouldn't know how to extend an olive branch if it hit them in the face.
Maybe if people think someone else is wrong they should still be nice to them even as they explain their concerns. If something is worth flipping a table over, then flip the table, but don't punch out the guy sitting behind it.
Hate the sin, not the sinner.
Punish out of love.
Pretty much. At least some people out there are capable of change if they're actually talked to instead of yelled at. It's not just red and blue, there's lots of purple in-between. You need to separate the issue from the human being and do things in an attempt to be constructive instead of in an attempt to lash out.