LGBT Smashers

[JigglyZelda003]

I'm the same way. Like, I'm on the wrestiling and swim teams, and like all but 2 guys like to play around....and some get (idk if I'm allowed to say this) "hard" and no one cares. Like, they don't notice it. I do all the time when we play around, no one says a word.

you and Sonic are so lucky i suck at sports so i never got to go in those rooms.

I still feel bad about the Bible thing tho. I don't want to "be put to death."

Part of me thinks that ya, maybe a long time ago, someone who hated gays put that in there. But the other part thinks, "Why would God let his own word be corrupted, leading everyone into oblivion because they followed the Bible."

have you seen someone walking around claiming to be the second Jesus and healing people in public? personally i think after the bible ends God just sits back and watchs things. possibly helping out some people from time to time. i mean not everyone who died in natural disasters was a big sinner right? the bible seems mostly written by straight men for straight men. Women are usually always in the background so theres little to no sexual equality in the bible.

I'm just so confused.

I want to be gay. I know I am. But I don't want to be.

Idk.

Sorry guys, I'm just rambiling.

we <3 you anyway so ramble as you please, but keep it rated teen

 

[Heartless Prince Of Light]

Oh my Darkness...it lives once more!
Gah, I know, I'm late, well pardonéz moi for being so overly romantic with my man-friend, which means his mom and him took me to Applebee's!
xD

but anyways, let me tell you guys about myself...

My name is Gary, full name is Gary Ian Arnold Duran Garcia.*mouthful(no pun intended!)*
I'm 19, going on 12, and I guess before I saw the original thread I sort of kept myself in the closet, and yeah, afterwards, on June 5th, I said it on the last year, and day of High School forever, I just went up towards the people who did the people announcements, and gave them a slip of paper that literally said"ATTENTION SHOPPERS, GARY DURAN IS BISEXUAL!" and I cracked up, so yeah, that was my coming out...xD
hm..another interesting thing about me is that I did not become so unshelterd and isolate until after I graduated, met some very kind people on SWF and IRL, moved out of my parents' house and got together with my boyfriend David, BTW, he says HI!!!
and tomorrow, we have something planned at the park!



but yeah, to stay on topic, the whole Christian thing. Bull****, I just simply believe in god, doesn't mean I don't question whether he's there or not...I don't fear eternal flames, who the hedge gives anyways, oh my god, I'm burning!!, my butt. anyways, If god didn't want gays, WHY IN HIS NAME DID HE CREATE US!?!?!?!
but anyways, here's a story, there was a point in my life where I did NOT believe in god, at all!
here it is, me and my friend Lala were talking and she's like
Lala:"I like your necklace"
Me: Thanks*smiles*
Lala:"It's God's promise that there will never be another huge Noah flood again."
Me:I don't believe in God.*Necklace breaks and everyone stares in horror*
Lala and Me: Creepy...

So at this point I'm pretty much rambling so yeah.
I'll stop now, I mean it.
STOP IT!
;-;
*is shot*

 

[deepseadiva]

If god didn't want gays, WHY IN HIS NAME DID HE CREATE US!?!?!?!

Isn't the usual response to this: to test us to see if we can resist temptation?

Spoiler

We've obviously failed.

 

[Sonic The Hedgedawg]

Isn't the usual response to this: to test us to see if we can resist temptation?

Spoiler

We've obviously failed.

silly boy.... it's because: "God gives his toughest tests to his strongest children"

I still feel bad about the Bible thing tho. I don't want to "be put to death."

Part of me thinks that ya, maybe a long time ago, someone who hated gays put that in there. But the other part thinks, "Why would God let his own word be corrupted, leading everyone into oblivion because they followed the Bible."

LOL... don't worry. It's a joke really that is. I mean... if we believed that.. we'd ALSO have to believe the Bible when it told us to cast out our rebelious children, to enslave, pillage, **** and conquer our enemies, that women should be silent and submissive and that illigitimate children, as well as their decendents for generations would be condemned to hell...
Don't sweat that stuff really... it's a joke. The bible is just a book... and was written by MEN, not God... otherwise how could it violate the word of God?
The 10 commandments never said... "Thal shalt not kill..... except for homos... they are fair game"

I've said it before and I'll say it again: Peace, Love and Forgiveness. If it violates these precepts... it ain't holy.... Just do what feels right babe... the rest will follow

I'm just so confused.

I want to be gay. I know I am. But I don't want to be.

Idk.

Sorry guys, I'm just rambiling.

*hug* Welcome to a world we have all experienced.... just have courage and you'll make it through it.

EDIT: And Sonic, do you ever play around with the other guys? Just curious if any other gay guys do. Like not sexually, I just don't know very many guys who are gay and would try that even if they were in the closet. You know what I mean?

No.. I'm afraid I don't follow.... but in case you are asking... I never participated in ANYTHING remotely sexual in the locker rooms... I feel it would be wrong to decietfully take advantage of the situation.

That having been said.... I hypocrytically took advatage of my close friendship with my roommate to get some free hugs and to share a bed on a trip... Don't worry... we did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.... I'm not like that... but... I mean... I'm a romantic at heart... so cuddling and falling asleep in the arms of another or at least close to another mean a hell of a lot more to me than anything sexual... so I mean I got a LOT more out of it than he did... and even if I didn't violate any boundries... I feel like it still might be wrong

OH!... and also I have a fake gay relationship going on with one of my brawl buddies... he's straight, has a girlfriend and I'm not interested in him so I'm not taking advantage or anything... but yeah.. we're hilariously overt with it... it started with us trying to distract the other so we could win... and neither of us is willing to back down with getting werided out first... so it just grew and evolved... and now it's just an accepted thing... but still weirds out outsiders

I didn't do the latter though. But I bet they must have been really good. Or just completely awkward...

no... they are just awesome... especially when the girl's mom is a professional masseuse

Less talk about naked dudes and fooling around, please.

I agree here... this was starting to take a bad turn.... though... really I don't think I could POSSIBLY get too graphic... how would I do that? Graphically describe all the sex that I'm NOT having?

But seriously... if it sounds like something that might make more innocent members cringe... it probably shouldn't be posted

you and Sonic are so lucky i suck at sports so i never got to go in those rooms.

Don;t be QUITE so jealous.... what went on in HIS locker room is more extreme than anything that went down in mine.

 

[Heartless Prince Of Light]

*stuffs abput the bible, a hug to comfort a member(which is shared by my part as well) and bible stuffs*

No.. I'm afraid I don't follow.... but in case you are asking... I never participated in ANYTHING remotely sexual in the locker rooms... I feel it would be wrong to decietfully take advantage of the situation.

That having been said.... I hypocrytically took advatage of my close friendship with my roommate to get some free hugs and to share a bed on a trip... Don't worry... we did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.... I'm not like that... but... I mean... I'm a romantic at heart... so cuddling and falling asleep in the arms of another or at least close to another mean a hell of a lot more to me than anything sexual... so I mean I got a LOT more out of it than he did... and even if I didn't violate any boundries... I feel like it still might be wrong

OH!... and also I have a fake gay relationship going on with one of my brawl buddies... he's straight, has a girlfriend and I'm not interested in him so I'm not taking advantage or anything... but yeah.. we're hilariously overt with it... it started with us trying to distract the other so we could win... and neither of us is willing to back down with getting werided out first... so it just grew and evolved... and now it's just an accepted thing... but still weirds out outsiders.

xD
I kinda had a thing like that, bu I don't need it anymore!
>w<
but yeah, seriously, if something is ABOVE the whole standard of what is considered an average thread chatter, don't post it, we want this thread to live.

On another note, I'm kind of confused about something...I have been able to tell everyone BUT my mother that I'm bisexual, and that I have a boyfriend(that she doesn't and ever has aproved of him*only cause he has bangs...*and I don't know whether I should tell her now that I've moved out of the house and me and my two besties, and my BF live under one roof

I apologize in advance if I sound a bit too Show-offy, I don't want to bring anyone down...please forgive me, this is my first relationship that I've felt more than just a crush working...

 

[bored]

I have only told a few people on the internet that I'm bi so far. I've been thinking about telling my friends around the last week of school. I know it sounds somewhat cowardice, but I still do not feel secure yet.


I still don't feel like I could bring myself to date a guy, though.

 

[JigglyZelda003]

then your probably like 70:30. its ok to feel insecure, i told alot of people on FF11 i was gay and they seemed to take it well. one even found it funny cause he said alot of people come out to him. although IRL i've told like 2 and not much more

 

[Katy Parry]

Why not?

If you know you're Bi, go for it. Seriously, it's not easy for people like us to go out and just ask people, ya know?

And another thing. I HATE how people think all gays are out to become fabulous.

I'm just a guy who likes guys. That's it. I don't really even act that feminine.

And I don't have "gaydar".

And ya, our wrestling team is crazy. Ha.

 

[SkylerOcon]

Honestly, I think the worst mistake I've ever made has been coming out. Not because I can't get friends, or that my parents hate me, but because I can't get a ****ing date.

Seriously.

The people where I live have there heads shoves so far up their ***** that they won't date me because I might go out with somebody of the other gender. I guess this only applies to females (never met a gay/bi guy IRL) as of now, and I think that the gay guys will undersand so I won't have to worry about that.

But seriously, can somebody explain why they do this? I think it's just pointless homophobia and every time I point that out to somebody they're at a loss for words.

 

[DMG]

My ex girlfriend left me for a Bi guy awhile back (True story, not making this up). At that point in time, she said she didn't mind it if her Boyfriend was also into guys. 2 weeks after she had left me, he had left her for another guy.

Obviously that scenario doesn't happen very often, but it is somewhat of a reason people might be afraid. I guess it shocks people more if the person who replaces them in a relationship is of another gender (I.E. If a straight guy dates a Bi girl, he would maybe feel worse about being replaced by another girl instead of another guy, and vice versa for different orientations).

I am straight, and I personally wouldn't be paranoid/overly afraid of a Bi girl leaving me for another girl, but I guess some people are really afraid of something like that happening.

 

[JigglyZelda003]

If you know you're Bi, go for it. Seriously, it's not easy for people like us to go out and just ask people, ya know?

yeah Bi people have all the fun.

And another thing. I HATE how people think all gays are out to become fabulous.

I'm just a guy who likes guys. That's it. I don't really even act that feminine

.

thats just the stereotype on gays. you can usually point out the gay guy in every tv show and movie, thats not on LOGO, cause hes feminized to the max usually. i have feminine tendancies at times, some other people i told i was gay said i don't look it cause for the most part i "look" normal and their looking for fem. kinda like how lesbians are thought of as mostly butchy.

 

[notftomearth7]

I'm not homosexual or anything, but I am...attracted to a guy I know...but I still like girls. What I need to know from you guys is, does this make me bisexual?


Off topic here, I have the biggest respect for those of you who have "come out" This is because I applaud people who are different from what our society considers the "norm" and are proud of it!

 

[JigglyZelda003]

it really depends on how much you like this guy. you might just be straight w/ homo tendancies. i don't really know how to explain it really. XD

 

[Katy Parry]

No, you're not nessessarily. If you have "thoughts" about him, though, you might be. Just explore your choices.

 

[Xsyven]

You might be psychologically suppressing your feelings so much that you honestly believe that you're straight, even though dudes turn you on. That's what I did for middle and high school. I honestly believed that I was straight, even though I'd watch gay porn and such.

 

[Sonic The Hedgedawg]

You might be psychologically suppressing your feelings so much that you honestly believe that you're straight, even though dudes turn you on. That's what I did for middle and high school. I honestly believed that I was straight, even though I'd watch gay porn and such.

same.... I dunno... I went through some pretty bad denial... as many of us do...


as for fitting the gay stereotype.... I'd like to think I don't fit ANY stereotypes.... but I am big on looking fabulous when I can... it's not an all consuming desire or anything... but I enjot lookin' good

 

[I am gay for De De De]

Why hello guys(and gals)!
I didn't know we were back in business. I probably don't need an introduction, but incase I'm not remembered, this is G4D3.
Glad to see we're still kicking around.

To the guy earlier having religious qualms about a specific quote in the bible, take heart that the older hebrew versions only condemned **** between men, not genuine love, for which the good book is strangely silent. I think it's important to form your own relationship with god independent of another man's interpretation. The Bible also does not talk about lesbianism at all, among many other things. I think it is left up to us to fill in the gaps.

 

[Sonic The Hedgedawg]

Why hello guys(and gals)!
I didn't know we were back in business. I probably don't need an introduction, but incase I'm not remembered, this is G4D3.
Glad to see we're still kicking around.

To the guy earlier having religious qualms about a specific quote in the bible, take heart that the older hebrew versions only condemned **** between men, not genuine love, for which the good book is strangely silent. I think it's important to form your own relationship with god independent of another man's interpretation. The Bible also does not talk about lesbianism at all, among many other things. I think it is left up to us to fill in the gaps.

Oddly enough... one of our readings today at mass was from paul's second letter to the romans...

I remember it said something like: the common opinion is of little importance... so put your concern not in the beliefs of man... but do what you feel is right by God... blah blah blah

I found it oddly applicable.

 

[PrettyGoodYear]

KK... I used to post in the beginning of the old thread... and... well... neglected Smash boards in March after school started... but I'm in a stable place (academically) that I can afford to get carried away with forum threads again

Anyway, call me PGY, and yeah, gay. 17... I'll be 18 in 2 months though. Down here, that's the drinking age too. (Note: I don't plan to drink much anyway)

I pushed away the one guy that was interested in me. He wanted an undercover relationship and stuff... so I cut it off before we even got together... sometimes I regret it...

I have this huuuuuuuuuge crush on a shy guy I sometimes stalkerbook. Sad...

So yeah... how's it going?

 

[Sonic The Hedgedawg]

(Note: I don't plan to drink much anyway)

that's a good idea... I'm almost 21... and I don't drink... or rather... I DO, but I limit myself to a reasonable amount: AKA... a glass of wine or two with dinner, or one or two bottles of other things... I mean... never enough to even get this "buzz" that people talk about.... alcohol really holds no special attraction to me... I've never been really attracted to the drinking scene... and even when I TRIED that... I dunno... It didn't do anything to me... good or bad... maybe I just didn't drink enough, but I didn't really want to drink what I DID anyway so.... blah.

but regardless... keep this in mind kiddies: If you wanna reman in the closet to the people you happen to be around at that moment... do NOT drink.... or... drink VERY VERY little.... you don't want alcohol to cause you to do something you'll regeret/blow your cover.

 

[Timbers]

and on the contrary alcohol is a great way to get out of the closet.

Just saying.


and I don't really have a story.

 

[I am gay for De De De]

and on the contrary alcohol is a great way to get out of the closet.

Just saying.


and I don't really have a story.

Oh Timbers.

You and I share a similar outlook on alcohol, Sonic. I hardly ever drink at all. I've never had enough to be considered drunk. Alcohol does not hold any special attraction for me.

 

[Xsyven]

The first time I was ever drunk, I kissed my best friend who didn't know I was gay, and we ended up dating for ten months.

Alcohol is magical. Ever since then, I've always had a bottle of vodka ready for the weekend.

 

[Sonic The Hedgedawg]

The first time I was ever drunk, I kissed my best friend who didn't know I was gay, and we ended up dating for ten months.

Alcohol is magical. Ever since then, I've always had a bottle of vodka ready for the weekend.

that's cute... but also incredibly lucky...

.... considering you're at least like... 20x as likely to accidentally kiss a straight boy... I personally wouldn't risk it.

 

[1048576]

My best friend is a homophobe, but I've had a crush on him for almost two years now. I became friends with him before I liked him physically. Life makes me crazy sometimes, but it's a good crazy.

 

[Sonic The Hedgedawg]

My best friend is a homophobe, but I've had a crush on him for almost two years now. I became friends with him before I liked him physically. Life makes me crazy sometimes, but it's a good crazy.

same thing happened to me.... find someone else to feel for... that's the best option for you

the alternative only ends in heartache

 

[Kirby knight]

Oh this threads back? How nice I how it doesn't derail again and close. I'm mostly a lurker but perhaps I'll post more often.

I have no negative feelings towards homosexuals. I couldn't imagine hating someone just for their sexual preference. I've felt what it's like to be persecuted for a trivial reason "skin color" and I don't want anyone to feel anything remotely close to what I felt.

I wish you all well.

 

[Timbers]

The first time I was ever drunk, I kissed my best friend who didn't know I was gay, and we ended up dating for ten months.

Alcohol is magical. Ever since then, I've always had a bottle of vodka ready for the weekend.

xsyven is a cool guy.

 

[PrettyGoodYear]

that's a good idea... I'm almost 21... and I don't drink... or rather... I DO, but I limit myself to a reasonable amount: AKA... a glass of wine or two with dinner, or one or two bottles of other things... I mean... never enough to even get this "buzz" that people talk about.... alcohol really holds no special attraction to me... I've never been really attracted to the drinking scene... and even when I TRIED that... I dunno... It didn't do anything to me... good or bad... maybe I just didn't drink enough, but I didn't really want to drink what I DID anyway so.... blah.

but regardless... keep this in mind kiddies: If you wanna reman in the closet to the people you happen to be around at that moment... do NOT drink.... or... drink VERY VERY little.... you don't want alcohol to cause you to do something you'll regeret/blow your cover.

Yeah... that's how I stayed away from alcohol... when I was 13 and all my friends were starting to drink... I was *really* paranoid I'd out myself and barely drank any alcohol.

Now, the habit stuck... so I'm not much of a drinker.

 

[JigglyZelda003]

on drinking, i don't do it cause i don't like dealing with people when they're drunk (like at my job) so i don't want to end up part of that at some point by drinking. i also don't want to accidentally out myself. i mean im already unstable enough i don't need something to tipper me off into dangerous territory lol. >__>

 

[Xsyven]

xsyven is a cool guy.

I can't tell if that's sarcasm or not. If it is, it's not like I'm saying alcohol makes you cool, I'm just saying cool things happen while drunk.

I'm actually a borderline alcoholic, swerving towards a problem that may take years upon years to fix.

 

[Sonic The Hedgedawg]

I can't tell if that's sarcasm or not. If it is, it's not like I'm saying alcohol makes you cool, I'm just saying cool things happen while drunk.

I'm actually a borderline alcoholic, swerving towards a problem that may take years upon years to fix.

and you're what? a young adult? welcome to the problem that most people our age have.


speaking of age.... got a prize at the basebal game I went to today for being "14 or under"

<_<

 

[SkylerOcon]

I'm actually a borderline alcoholic, swerving towards a problem that may take years upon years to fix.

That's... not good. Try taking a break from drinking if your seriously getting near becoming an alcoholic.

 

[Xsyven]

Hahaha, don't worry. I take breaks when I scare myself.

 

[1048576]

same thing happened to me.... find someone else to feel for... that's the best option for you

the alternative only ends in heartache

There is noone else. For some reason I find him more attractive than anyone else, even people on TV. I'm content to simply enjoy his company, though, so it works out.

On topic: I've tried alcohol four times in four different forms and hated the taste every time. It's sort of like minty deoderant.

 

[Sonic The Hedgedawg]

There is noone else. For some reason I find him more attractive than anyone else, even people on TV. I'm content to simply enjoy his company, though, so it works out.

On topic: I've tried alcohol four times in four different forms and hated the taste every time. It's sort of like minty deoderant.

I understand... despite the fact that this guy I liked was not a hottie at all by the common conception, he was perfect to me... body and soul.

... but then... I got over him... I just had to... helps if you find someone else though

and in what way does alcohol taste ANYTHING like minty deoderant... maybe mojitos would be minty... but deoderant? O.o

 

[JigglyZelda003]

I understand... despite the fact that this guy I liked was not a hottie at all by the common conception, he was perfect to me... body and soul.

... but then... I got over him... I just had to... helps if you find someone else though

i used to like a guy just like this. he really wasn't that great looking to others but he was to me

i even semi stalked him from time to time after a class we had together. O.o

 

[Katy Parry]

Oh GAWD.

There's a guy at my school. Collin Hillen.

He is soooooooooooooo dreamy. Like, I just can't stand it.

Ever heard the song "Teardrops on My Guitar" by talor swift?

Ya. That's me. Except the woman part.

I have him on my friendlist at myspace, if anyone wants to to see him, which you DO.

 

[SkylerOcon]

Myspace makes me kill puppies.

 

[RedKnight]

To the guy earlier having religious qualms about a specific quote in the bible, take heart that the older hebrew versions only condemned **** between men, not genuine love, for which the good book is strangely silent. I think it's important to form your own relationship with god independent of another man's interpretation. The Bible also does not talk about lesbianism at all, among many other things. I think it is left up to us to fill in the gaps.

first off im straight..... but the bible DOES mention homosexuality