Andydark
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I don't see why you wouldn't be able to mention it. It'd be a nice way to change the topic...
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Momo I'm going to be lazy and copy and paste XD but here it is :D
I went to a 17th birthday party and like lots of people I knew were there. I just went there cuz my current roommate wanted me to go.(I'm still in high school guys >.> Just living with her and her parents) So I went there and started playing halo 3 and it got boring cuz the first match and some stupid laser weapon which was stupid. Then I went over to the guitar hero area and saw this guy who I had my first date with. Recently we've been talking with each now. I sat by and and pretty much we got closer and sort of cuddled. I didn't care about what people saw..my facebook says I'm gay so yeah. Well my roommate and friend who was staying with us last night came over and like were disappointed. They hate the guy but eventually we got them to leave and the guy pretty much said "You know this is a date?" and smiled. Then he had to go told his ride,this girl, to meet us outside and tell us when she was leaving. So he and I sat down on this bench near the door to the party. Anybody who walks out can see us. It was cold and I was shivering with like chattering teeth. He thought was cute. Eventually we were like snuggled to each other and holding hands. While doing this we were talking about our gay life and what guys we like and all that. I was telling him how messed up mine is and he said "Roberto..." and kissed me. My first kiss! -screams- I told him lets walk over to his car and we did. We were snuggled up against it until my roommate came out and we had to stop cuz if she would of saw us she would of told the party. That didn't matter cuz someone saw us and already told the party. Drama!!! Someone told the party that we were having sex. Uh no! My date told me that we should go ahead and go in and gave me a goodbye kiss just in case he wouldn't see me. That's the 2nd kiss XD Anyhoo we went in everything seemed normal until my date found the guy who started the rumor and literally struck him multiple times and walked out angry. I was scared and wanted to cry but I don't know why. No one came up to me and asked me what happend but yeah. Everything is cool. It was sorta like Mean Girls! The three of us and like I'm the character Lindsey Lohan played and my two friends was the gay guy and girl. Better thing I forgot to say was we were talking about Brawl while sitting together in the Guitar Hero area. He asked that when I get Brawl to call him and invite him over.
1) Yes, but because people say whatever does not mean their definition is the same as it has been in history. I'll say it again, this is not the main part of my argument. What constitutionally gives two people of the same-sex the 'right' to marry?1) It's not even remotely the same... why? Because it's convenient for your argument?
Those people back then would have said the definition was "A consenting man and woman of the same race" and that the definition didn't fit for interracial couples.
And even before that, the definition would have been "A man and woman, wherein the woman is the property of the man and must obey him."
2) And in the past women didn't have the right to marry someone of their choice, so consenting wasn't necessarily a part of the definition, and even some men may have been forced into marrying a particular woman for economic or political reasons. It was considered an unbreakable melding of their souls sanctioned by God. Now we have divorce and secular marriage.
3) The definition of marriage is not immutable, and has changed many times in the past. And in fact, in some societies same sex marriages were possible. But let's just pretend that only Western history matters, and that the Western/Christian definition is immutable, has never changed and was handed down from on high and that we should apply this even in our secular law system
4) If I argue rationally why you're wrong and that your argument is illogical, pointing out that I'm an atheist and therefore "have no basis for morality or logic blah blah blah BS" is not an argument. Just because you, for some ridiculous reason think that I have to be a theist in order to be rational, this does not mean that you no longer have to make sensible arguments yourself.
5) Not to mention that your argument doesn't even entail that I have no basis for logic. The transcendental argument entails that my not believing in God is inconsistent with my use of logic and morality, blah blah BS... but not that my logic or moral arguments are baseless. You're saying that they're based on God, and I don't recognize this. But that doesn't make them invalid, since the point of the TAG is precisely that the atheist's logic and moral reasoning ARE valid... but that the only way to explain their validity is God.
6) So in other words... your argument sucks, because you're trying to ignore arguments by shifting the discussion to stupid crap about God, as if believing in God allows you to make bad arguments and call us irrational when we point their flaws out.
Sir, you are giving me the impression that you do not know the definition of 'illogical'I see that most people that disagree with gay marriage are Christian. Do you think it is illogical? If you do then guess what your religion is based on illogical things, like all religions. So start thinking logically and think about why we actually get married, its for love, on a last note i am not gay.
What? I thought for something to be illogical it contradicted logic itself. So by this definition religion does not necessarily contradict logical absolutes although sometimes they do in which case it is easy to recognize them as false from the onset.Kix i am saying that Christianity is illogical. Illogical is something which cant be solved logically, if i knew what something illogical is, it would not be illogical anymore. That makes Christianity illogical like all other religions.
...and you're so sure of this because?Ugh you people aren't done yet? -.-;;; I hope you all realize this argument is going nowhere...
Yeah and the point is that you have really given no evidence that the definition you're trying to defend "A contract between a consenting man and woman of the proper age who are not closely related in which the two members have equal legal status" should be considered the historical one. Pretty much every part of that definition has varied in different times and places. Child marriage is practiced in some places even today. Arranged marriages were long the norm in certain places and social groups (non-consensual). In many societies marriages between even brother and sister were common (for example, Hawaii before Western colonization, Ancient Egypt, just off the top of my head). Hell, even the Bible's story of Genesis necessitates close incest in at least two places (after the Garden of Eden and after the flood). Married women were long considered the man's property, and not allowed to own property and required to obey their husband, required to give him sex (marital **** was not a crime), etc. This is probably still true to some extent in some places. And some Native American and African societies had same sex unions (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_same-sex_unions).1) Yes, but because people say whatever does not mean their definition is the same as it has been in history.
Well, some would make an argument based on the due process, equal protections and possibly the 10th Amendment. The 10th Amendment can be taken to imply that many things that were acknowledged as rights in English common law can be considered rights of Americans even tho they're not written into the Constitution. I'm thinking that marriage would probably be included.I'll say it again, this is not the main part of my argument. What constitutionally gives two people of the same-sex the 'right' to marry?
You totally ignored what I said about intersubjectivity. How can you argue about objectivity vs. subjectivity when you clearly don't know much about it?4) So then you aren't arguing morality?
My reason for you not being able to rationalize this as an atheist is not ridiculous. I'm not talking about having a set of 'morality' or how you formed it. I'm talking about how you rationalize why something is right or wrong. When it is what you want to think, then it does not matter and is based on nothing to rationalize why it is. Then we know it is not based on the physical universe, so how do you rationalize why lying is wrong? Or ****? I'm giving you an opportunity, go ahead and explain this since I am being "ridiculous".
Baseless as far as objectively true in the way you're talking about. I guess. But since I don't think what you're discussing is possible, I hardly see that as some horrible flaw of my morality. Yours is the same.5First of all, how is your morality not baseless?
I've seen you assuming that these things require God exist in order to be true. I don't really see how you've proven that in any way.What you use for argumentation cannot be accounted for. So the source and being of any argumentation and these "laws of logic" can only be accounted for by theists.
The problem in your argumentation is that you have given no argument. Even if I were a theist and believed in objective morality, I would still think the same thing about same-sex marriage. I know people who fit this description. You have given no argument that has any relevance to their position. You haven't given any argument against it other than to criticize me for being an atheist. What do you say to the theist who believes in objective morality and disagrees with you? So far - nothing.Then I am shifting it to God for moral argumentation. To anyone reading this, consider what I have said about morality, not that you do not have "morals" but that you cannot rationalize them and can get nowhere arguing subjective morality. From this you have yet to point out the problem in my argumentation.
You simply cannot win this point period. You are under the impression that for me to win this point, I have to prove my morality is objective, when it is in fact you who need to. You don't have objective morality, you merely think you do. You are stuck in bad faith, in an attempt to escape existential angst. But denying your responsibility for your moral choices (claiming that it was decided by someone else) does not mean that you are not responsible. You choose your morality whether you acknowledge it or not.For the secondary part of morality you simply cannot win this point period, and have not pointed out anything valid. That's it.
yeah, i know what you mean now. kix is hopelessUgh you people aren't done yet? -.-;;; I hope you all realize this argument is going nowhere... prove this point and disprove that one... but when it comes down to it... you just won't agree with eachother... though I'm pessimistic... but... I just don't really wanna come to a new 5 pages of arguments or anything... what am I saying? Nobody is going to listen. ^^; Somebody always has to have the last word... then somebody after that... it'll never end... I'm sorry. ^^;
No it is not. If it makes you feel uncomfortable, don't read it.PM each other. Honestly, this argument is a waste of time. You both have your beliefs/morals set in stone by now, someone on the intarwebz won't sway you, and you won't sway them.
No matter what point you make, it'll probably wind up boiling down to "Even though you're logical, I disagree."
Though I suppose I'm being hypocritical by trying to sway you to stop.
OH IRONY THOU ART A CRUEL MISTRESS.
yeah, i thought the show would be dumb at first since it was TV7 and on nick, but when i actually watched it, i realized it's much deeper than most "mature" cartoons. i don't really watch it on nick anymore cause 1. they don't show itAh yes I do if I'm ever watching Nickelodeon and it's on (which is very rare)... I like that show, very interesting storyline. =3
Haha, that's amazing! Good luck with that. I don't think I've ever heard of a story in real life quite like that.Heh. The guy I have a crush on decided to bring it up tonight. Making the observation that I go out of my way to help him followed by "It's because you have ac rush on me." and I I just sort of stuttered a half response followeed by a somewhat defeated, "Can you blame me?" And then there was an awkward silence.
And then he said, "You jokingly mentioned taking me out to Olive Garden last semester, for helping you with that paper... Still interested?"
Things are actually going decently for me. How rare.
Man I know how that feels. X3Haha, that's amazing! Good luck with that. I don't think I've ever heard of a story in real life quite like that.
Anyway, update; the guy I semi-like is a wrestler named Nick. He's still sexy as ****. <.< Doubt anything'll ever happen between us. We've barely been around each other, and I kinda just look at him as he passes me in the hall. Bah...
This seems to me to just be a variation on what I was saying about intersubjectivity... what happens when you encounter someone who doesn't care about whether other people steal from them? Sure, you might think they're a lil crazy (then again, societies without Western ideas of property have existed, so it's only crazy from our perspective) but your argument for a right to property on this principle basically falls apart if they don't care about their own "property".Clean and simple, you don't steal from a person because they have a right to property, and if allowed to continue, you can be stolen from, or some other right can be violated.
That's why we have governmental enforcement, just because certain people don't care about it doesn't make it any less valid, however because certain people don't care about it means that an outside mechanism for enforcement is required, hence the government.This seems to me to just be a variation on what I was saying about intersubjectivity... what happens when you encounter someone who doesn't care about whether other people steal from them? Sure, you might think they're a lil crazy (then again, societies without Western ideas of property have existed, so it's only crazy from our perspective) but your argument for a right to property on this principle basically falls apart if they don't care about their own "property".
Fortunately we almost all do care about things like that, and this is the foundation for intersubjective agreement (not all of it is based on purely selfish motivations, however).
So I'm not sure if I was really giving "weak relativism" as you said, since it will end up in the same sort of place you were suggesting (altho possibly with a little more caveats).
Very much so. ^_^ Welcome aboard.are Bisexual smashers welcome here??? (^^)v
YAY! (^^)vVery much so. ^_^ Welcome aboard.
I always thought of myself being Bi for quite awhile. Then I eventually decided girls were not for me XD I couldn't picture myself with a girl in a romantic way >.<are Bisexual smashers welcome here??? (^^)v