Rain(ame)
Smash Champion
Well, this is really about how we may be viewed by others because of statements we make in our own ignorance. Do we show we are an opinionated person? Can that come off as racist or rude?
A real life example:
I had asked a kid who usually tells me much about rock, metal, and such about disturbed. Pretty much around when they weren't well known yet. His response was "I don't listen to rap music." Then I had to explain to him that it wasn in fact not rap or anywhere near it. That was a rather...insulting thing. So I tested him and asked him something pertaining to a cover of a Michael Jackson song. Again his response was "I told you I don't listen to rap music." Now...that was the icing on the cake...how could anyone not know about him at that point? I still gave him the benefit of the doubt, though...and mentioned where he came from. I even mentioned the Jackson 5. The "rap music" comment came up again.
Now...statements made in ignorance would lead you to think this person was racist. A black person asks him about a band...and since he doesn't know it...he automatically assumes it's rap? Statement made in ignorance.
Another example:
You go to hang out with some people, and they start talking about music being put on. The next statement is, "I don't know if I have anything you'd be interested in..." While not taking offense....it still kind of hurts how someone could make such an ignorant statement, as opposed to just asking what you listen to.
Another statement made in ignorance. You don't know what the other person listens to. It'd be better to just ask as opposed to making a fool out of yourself and assuming. It may even be a good idea to throw a few artist names out there to see if they heard of it.
Now both of these examples pertain to music, but it can really apply to anything. Most people are guilty of it at some point in their life. It could be offensive to a person on the recieving end as well.
Do you think that awareness in ourselves for mindless statements such as these can break down the walls that still remain inbetween people? It's not even a race to race, but a culture to cultre or style to style type of thing. The "rock" look to the "urban" look. If a person wear urban style clothing does that automatically mean they watch a certain kind of movie, speak a certain way, listen to a certain kind of music, or have a certain attitude?
A real life example:
I had asked a kid who usually tells me much about rock, metal, and such about disturbed. Pretty much around when they weren't well known yet. His response was "I don't listen to rap music." Then I had to explain to him that it wasn in fact not rap or anywhere near it. That was a rather...insulting thing. So I tested him and asked him something pertaining to a cover of a Michael Jackson song. Again his response was "I told you I don't listen to rap music." Now...that was the icing on the cake...how could anyone not know about him at that point? I still gave him the benefit of the doubt, though...and mentioned where he came from. I even mentioned the Jackson 5. The "rap music" comment came up again.
Now...statements made in ignorance would lead you to think this person was racist. A black person asks him about a band...and since he doesn't know it...he automatically assumes it's rap? Statement made in ignorance.
Another example:
You go to hang out with some people, and they start talking about music being put on. The next statement is, "I don't know if I have anything you'd be interested in..." While not taking offense....it still kind of hurts how someone could make such an ignorant statement, as opposed to just asking what you listen to.
Another statement made in ignorance. You don't know what the other person listens to. It'd be better to just ask as opposed to making a fool out of yourself and assuming. It may even be a good idea to throw a few artist names out there to see if they heard of it.
Now both of these examples pertain to music, but it can really apply to anything. Most people are guilty of it at some point in their life. It could be offensive to a person on the recieving end as well.
Do you think that awareness in ourselves for mindless statements such as these can break down the walls that still remain inbetween people? It's not even a race to race, but a culture to cultre or style to style type of thing. The "rock" look to the "urban" look. If a person wear urban style clothing does that automatically mean they watch a certain kind of movie, speak a certain way, listen to a certain kind of music, or have a certain attitude?